A Ronk - Get a Clue! Snag them dont nag them! A short guide to cheaters and how to catch them

Get A Clue!

Snag them dont nag them! A short guide tocheaters and how to catch them.

By A. Ronk

Published by A. Ronk

Smashwords Edition

Copyright 2011 by Angela Ronk

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Welcome to my secondedition of guides to every day life! The Get A Clue series is forthe people who just want advice straight up with no sugarcoating!

We all havebeen through relationships or know someone in one where things gosour and theres cheating involved. What people dont realizethough is fighting and nagging will get you no where when lookingfor the proof for closure or the facts that there is nothing goingon but your own insecurities making your imagination run wild. Ifyou can learn how to maintain emotions and think with a clear mind,then you can look for the answers you seek and decide whether tostay or go.

This book is to beused as a helpful resource for anyone who thinks there partner orspouse could possible be fooling around. This is not to be

used as a guideto be an every day snoop just to keep tabs. Trust is the biggestkey to a great and thriving relationship! Using these tips may break the trust of your otherhalf if you are caught using them.

If you are at thepoint where you say you just need a way to find out then I hopethis is helpful to you as I have used most if not all of thesetechniques myself to catch a cheat.

Before you starttrying these out though, I want you to really think about what theoutcome will be if you find out your loved is cheating AND if youfind out they are definitly not.

There is help outthere for relationships who are troubled by a slip up withadultery. There are counselors and programs to help people move onand find a solution

to make sure itdoes not happen again. Just do not be duped by the players outthere who do not want to change the game they are playing! What isthe saying, Fool me once, shame on you, Fool me twice shame onme! Depending on theinformation you find it may be time to make a new path to follow!Above all , follow your heart and mind and do whats best in yoursituation. Chronic cheaters may never stop, do you really want 10years to go by to only find out you have a STD from them beingunfaithful and then they leave you for their fling?

If you find that yourpartner is faithful and your insecurities are just pushing you tothink that they are cheating constantly then its time to come cleanand tell them that. Maybe this is something that some therapy canhelp you with. The

issues at handthat make you feel this can be resolved. If you are not aspassionate as you were once, then it is time for some one on oneromance time! A once weekly date night is a great way to keep thatfire burning. Above all atthis time though is to trust them and give them the credit theydeserve is they are trustful partners!!

It is so easyanymore for either gender to meet someone new. The internet is oneof the most common grounds for people to run to as a cheater! Whenpeople dont use the internet it is usually someone they are aroundoften such as a co-worker or maybe even your own best friend.Bottom line is that it sucks. People just dont care as much to putforth the energy to solve their relationship or marriage issues andto be strong together. Nowadays if something does not work itseasier to meet someone new and get a divorce or break up than toput the work into fixing the issues at hand in the currentrelationship! Whether you

see the signs or havethat feeling that something may be going on than you need to knowwhat to look for and how to snag them with no room for lame lies orexcuses.

If you have that gutfeeling that something is going on please trust it whole heartedly.Instead of ignoring it or letting it eat at you, just keep thoseeyes wide open and get to the bottom of it.

Is there aparticular reason that you would believe your love may be cheating?Have there been a lot of fighting or just a disconnection with thetwo of you? Is there still sexual passion? If so just make sure youare not just being insecure and letting your imagination go wild.Some people give off the normal tell tale signs personality wisewhile engaged in an affair. There is the accusations that YOU arecheating and dont

know where thatis coming from. There is a difference in moods where one might seemoverly happy out of the blue. Maybe your mate doesnt usually dressup but now is head to toe polished and looking like they have adate. A difference in everydayschedule and character or maybe new tokens of affection that youknow did not come from you.

Before we getinvolved here I want you to ask yourself. Do you really want toknow the truth even if it is bad? When you dig you are bound tofind something. You may get caught looking to find answers and itmay end the relationship. Are you strong willed enough to not letthings drive you crazy? If this is something that you need thenhey, where there is a will there is a way!

If you are a personthat nags and asks over and over if they are cheating

then stop itall together! You will get no where doing this and you will neverhave solid proof which will lead to never having closure. Learn to hold back the urge to attackespecially if you find some micro piece of evidence. Tuck thethoughts away for later use! Practice some techniques to calm youdown. If the other person has an idea that you are digging it mayalso throw them off with what they are doing! I have had manyhorrible experiences with my boyfriends cheating and have full onsecond lives. I was very hot headed and always attacking. After awhile I could just smell the bullshit a mile away and I learned howto get results!

Ok! Lets coversome topics of signs and how to snag the dirty dog!

Are you noticing anew relationship with your partner and their cell phone? It may beto effect of

treating itlike its a child and has to EVERYWHERE they go. Keeping it intheir pocket instead of throwing it on the table at night, ormaking sure it goes to the bathroom with them! If your partner allof a sudden is texting all the time and maybe leaves the room to doso is a sign its something they dont want you to see. Instead of asking the whos that orwhy are you so attached to that dam cell now just keep watch, actdumb. If they feel they can let their guard down, they mostdefinitly will. If they go in for a shower take a quick look at thetext messages, recent calls or picture mail. You may find they arejust chatting with a friend but you may also find someincriminating information. If you should find something and you arenot ready to leave that person DO NOT blow up on your partner. Youreally have no solid proof and a normal excuse will be It wasjust

texting I nevermet the person! Take notes on any new contacts or a doubledcontact. Some people may have a sean as a contact and then justmake a new sean contact but with michelles number so its sneakyand not noticable. Another great feature with cell phone familyplans is the family locate services. This is not always fool proofthough. There are glitches that I have even seen where it can showsomeone in one are but actually be 5 miles away! If theres a lot of new social activity whereyour partner is heading out at night to hang with a friend you canalways locate the cell phone and get an approximate area of wherethey are! Whether you decide to do a drive by is up to you, I wouldsuggest using a friends car though! When you sign up for theservice it will send a text to the persons phone. You can try tointercept it but from time random texts will be sent so you needto