You Couldnt Make It Up!
UNPUBLISHED LETTERS
TO
EDITED BY KATE MOORE
INTRODUCTION
Journalists from all walks of life must accept that the job comes with inherent uncertainties. Indeed, for many of us that is what makes the work exciting. During the seven years that I have been at The Daily Telegraph, two elections and a referendum have had seasoned political commentators watching with bated breath. A billionaire-turned-reality-television-star has risen to occupy one of the most powerful political positions in the world; tensions in China and the Middle East have simmered, flared and occasionally boiled over. In Britain, the periods between parliamentary sittings - what is still occasionally known as the silly season - have often been scant on actual silliness.
Never, though, has a year taken quite so dramatic a turn. The arrival of Covid-19 to these shores forced the newspaper, like every business and every individual in the country, to react. Our offices became virtually deserted, with only the occasional stalwart editor or post-room employee to be seen at large. The rest of us turned to our laptops and set up shop wherever we found ourselves. All the time we were aware of the fact that, for a sizeable swathe of our readership, we would become a point of contact: a way of signalling to the world that weeks and months of isolation had not dented that peculiarly British spirit of good humour, quick thinking and stubborn practicality. So it was that we received regular updates on the state of peoples allotments; tales of virtual cocktail parties hosted via Skype, and a slew of alternatives to the now-discouraged handshake (the Indian namaste and the sci-fi Vulcan salute being just two of the most popular suggestions). Celebrity-watching gave way to backyard nature-spotting, while linguists passed the time devising neologisms - zeeting for a meeting hosted by Zoom - and pondering Covid-induced contortions of existing phrases (why does one say face mask but not leg trousers?).
There was sadness, and mounting anger, as the extent of our governments miscalculations came to light; but there was humour too - some of it mordant, much of it absurd, all of it a reaction to living in extraordinary times and under restrictions only previously enforced in periods of all-out war. We received letters from readers thinking of putting their houses on the market so that family members could book a viewing without fear of sanction; a parable of political dysfunction drawn from shopping in Ikea, and spirited rebuttals to the over-opinionated celebrities who found themselves deprived of their favourite stage, the red carpet. While many did their utmost to abide by official guidance on social distancing and support bubbles (is a pregnant friend one person, or two?), others focused on the more recognisable aspects of British life. No year would be complete, after all, without some drama within the Royal family, or - more recently - some frantic tussle over our relations with the European Union. As the countrys attention moved from Brexit to Megxit and viewers grappled with a television schedule devoid of sport or soap, Telegraph readers have kept looking for the bright (or at least the ridiculous) side to every story.
A journalistic day is usually punctuated by conferences and the noise of distant, ringing telephones. In the new-found quiet, the voices of our readers have proved more valuable than ever. Each tale of self-directed VE-Day celebrations, in-house fitness regimes and garden staycations served as a little fillip to our spirits as we rifled through our inboxes. I must thank Christopher Howse, the Letters Desk editor, for his steady hand on the tiller throughout; Richard Murray for casting his lawyerly eye over everything; Matt for his sublime cover illustration; Melissa Hookway, Joe Hallsworth and Nicky Hill of Quarto for mapping out the route to publication. Most of all, though, I must thank the Telegraphs correspondents, for providing me and so many others with such excellent company throughout.
You are not alone.
Kate Moore
London SW1
FAMILY TRIALS AND TRIBULATIONS
Engaged on a long-term contract
SIR - Many couples meet at work and go on to have long and happy relationships.
I did not meet my wife at work, but after 27 years of marriage it is clear who is the boss.
I am very happy to remain as second-in-command.
Jamie Buchanan
Sedlescombe, East Sussex
SIR - My son recently proposed to his fiance on an empty beach on Harris. He made a ring out of seaweed.
My work is done.
Anna Johnston
Carlisle, Cumbria
SIR - The quotation on the calendar for the day that my late husband and I married was: Custom may lead a man into many errors but it justifies none.
I didnt tell him until after the ceremony.
Janet Haines
Reading, Berkshire
SIR - When we got divorced in 1977, my husband got custody of the toast racks and the dog.
Gill Maden
Bexhill-on-Sea, East Sussex
The agony and the ecstasy
SIR - I have just taken delivery of a new and rather expensive mattress.
The handles are embroidered with the words Team GB.
Maybe the accompanying message should be: Lie back and think of England.
Dianne Barnes
Newton Abbot, Devon
SIR - Ann Francke, chief executive of the Chartered Management Institute, claims that sports chat at work can quickly turn into claims of sexual conquest. I have enjoyed many conversations about cricket with colleagues, which have never turned in such a direction. Perhaps she has misunderstood the phrase bowling a maiden over.
Ruth Corderoy
Didcot, Oxfordshire
SIR - My mother told me the only information on sex that she got from her mother was: You know what shape you are. You know what shape your brother is. THINK.
Felicity Guille
London SW6
SIR - The governments latest rules in the battle against coronavirus are very confusing. For example, you cannot have sex in a neighbours house, but you may be able to in their garden or shed. Social distancing rules still apply, of course: a couple must stay two metres apart.
David Ewens
Wedmore, Somerset
SIR - My wife has been applying the current ban on romantic encounters to those in the same household. It is probably because of my Covid-induced grumpiness.
Michael Willis
Stirling
Suffer the children
SIR - I see from my book of saints that March 14 is St Matildas Day - the patron saint of parents with disappointing children.
A typical foray into town at about quarter to four in the afternoon suggests that a great deal of divine succour and consolation is needed.
Dorian Wood
Castle Cary, Somerset
SIR - If members of the eco-protest group Extinction Rebellion would like to make themselves useful, perhaps they could come and teach my young adult children how to recycle.
Mike Lloyd
Cheltenham, Gloucestershire
The road goes ever on and on