Praise for Abandoned Faith
As someone whose life work is to strengthen the faith of millennials, I see this book as a caring guide chock-full of practical advice. As a dad of millennials, I see it as a well-timed life preserver in the swelling waves of a cultural storm.
JEFF MYERS, PHD
President, Summit Ministries
Author of Understanding the Culture
I have had the privilege of knowing Jason for many years. His ministry is on the front line for todays student. Abandoned Faith from Focus on the Family is a timely tool for all of us concerned about reaching people under the age of 25. Youll find insight and help from Jason and Alexs message in this book. If youre like me, once you start reading, you wont be able to put it down!
DR. SCOTT DAWSON
Founder and President, Scott Dawson Evangelistic Association
Director, AtlantaFest and Stadium Fest
As a father and a pastor, I appreciate both the honesty with which Jason and Alex present the current situation of many of our millennials and also the hope they offer. This book is full of Scripture, statistics, and an abundance of practical ideas to help the millennial in your life.
ALEX KENNEDY
Senior Pastor, Carmel Baptist Church
If youre like me, youre aware of the problem: young Christians often walk away from the Church in their high-school and college years. Jason Jimenez and Alex McFarland have written Abandoned Faith in an effort to do something about it. Theyve been working with millennials for years, and theyve written a resource to help the Church appreciate the challenge, understand the nature of those who are leaving, and begin to consider an effective response. Abandoned Faith is an important book. It will help you understand what is at stake and what you can do about it.
J. WARNER WALLACE
Cold-Case Detective, Adjunct Professor of Apologetics at Biola University
Author of Cold-Case Christianity, Cold-Case Christianity for Kids, and Gods Crime Scene
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Names: McFarland, Alex, 1964- author. | Jimenez, Jason, 1979- author.
Title: Abandoned faith : why millennials are walking away and how you can lead them home / Alex McFarland and Jason Jimenez.
Description: Carol Stream, Illinois : Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., [2017] | Includes bibliographical references.
Identifiers: LCCN 2016047375 | ISBN 9781589978829 (alk. paper)
Subjects: LCSH: Generation Y--Religious life. | Ex-church members. | Non-church-affiliated people. | Parent and adult child Religious aspects Christianity.
Classification: LCC BV4529.2 .M38 2017 | DDC 248.8/45 dc23
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FOREWORD
T HERE HAS BEEN A lot of talk recently about why kids are leaving the church. Experts have rightly pointed out that the issue is complex and may involve a host of reasons intellectual, volitional, personal, relational, spiritual, moral, and more. And yet amidst the difficulty of the matter (both personally and intellectually), my friends Alex McFarland and Jason Jimenez offer a timely book: Abandoned Faith: Why Millennials are Walking Away and How You Can Lead Them Home.
I have personally read dozens of excellent books aiming to identify why Christian young people are abandoning the church (and often their faith) in disquieting numbers, and how we can best respond. Abandoned Faith is now one of my favorite books. Allow me to briefly share four reasons why.
First, Alex and Jason work with millennials. This is not a solely academic book written from a distance. While there is undoubtedly value in purely scholastic research, this book is filled with personal stories from two authors who both know and love millennials. Abandoned Faith is not written from an outsiders perspective but from two experts who both get millennials.
Second, Abandoned Faith is research based. Alex and Jason have plenty of firsthand experiences with millennials. In fact, much of the book is filled with stories, which I love! But they also draw deeply from documented research about the thinking, behavior, and unique experience of millennials. They also draw from the expertise of other pastors, teachers, parents, and researchers who work with millennials. Alex and Jason have clearly done their homework.
Third, the book is hopeful. Right at the beginning, the authors recognize that some people reading Abandoned Faith might feel a sense of personal regret about the way they have interacted with millennials. In fact, there are probably many parents reading this book who wish they could have a parenting do over. Yet rather than sending a message of guilt, Jason and Alex intentionally cover the book in Gods grace. In fact, personally speaking, I found this to be one of the most powerful elements in the book.
Fourth, Abandoned Faith is practical. Since I am a professor, I do love research. But I also appreciate when people offer practical steps I can personally take to apply research to my own parenting, speaking, counseling, and ministry to young people. This is exactly what Jason and Alex do.