Eldercare For Dummies
by Rachelle Zukerman, PhD
Eldercare For Dummies
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Library of Congress Control Number: 2003101893
ISBN: 978-0-7645-2469-1
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About the Author
Rachelle Zukerman, Ph.D. is Professor Emeritus of Social Welfare at UCLA, a gerontologist, and a clinical social worker. She is also a Visiting Professor at the University of Hong Kong and a Fulbright Scholar. For the past 20 years, her teaching, research, writing, and her heart have been fixed on the goal of helping to make the later years the best years.
She is the author of Young at Heart: A Mature Womans Guide to Finding and Keeping Romance (Contemporary Books, division of McGraw-Hill) and Aging Into the 21st Century (Brunner/Mazel). She has also edited and authored four textbooks on counseling that are used in colleges and professional schools across the United States and have been translated into Japanese and Korean.
Dr. Zukerman is a sought-after lecturer and a speaker for seminars and workshops in the United States and abroad. Her audiences have included students on college campuses and in community education programs, cruise-ship passengers on all of the major cruise lines, and mature adults in senior centers and adult learning centers. She is a frequent and lively guest on television and radio talk shows.
Dedication
This book is dedicated to my brother, Harry Abramson, an extraordinary caregiver, who took care of our father and now looks after our mother with endless patience, utmost respect, and infinite love.
Authors Acknowledgments
I would like to thank Bubba Sally the very first old person I ever knew. She has been gone from my life for over 40 years, but her wise and loving presence in my childhood shaped the very best parts of me, including my fascination, admiration, and compassion for our oldest citizens.
Elsa Efran has my deepest appreciation. She has edited nearly everything I have written in the last 15 years. I would be lost without her expertise and emotional support and, in this particular book, her willingness to share her personal experience in caregiving. Thanks also to Maria Carpiac, my very smart research assistant, who found answers for every doozie I sent her way.
Kelly Ewing, Project Editor, and I clicked immediately. This book is better for her guidance and editing. I was blessed to have a superb team at Wiley, including Kathy Cox, Acquisitions Editor, Kristie Rees, Project Coordinator, layout staff, proofreaders, and the indexer. Thanks also to my brilliant team of technical reviewers Pat Lorne, Jim Davis, and Carol Akright. David Grady and Susan Payne also added their expertise to the reviewing process. Sheree Bykofsky, my agent, deserves a special thanks for bringing this project to me.
I am grateful to caregivers Herschel Rubin, Anna Maria Alverto, Tina Silver, Nancy Lippman, Leslie Ferebee, and Linda Newman who enlivened the text with their real-life stories. Bonnie Faherty, Karen Lee, and Renee Feiger (a nurse and two social workers) generously responded to my endless questions about their work with the elderly. Colleen Friend, who honors me with her unflinching support of my work, may not think she deserves mention. I assure you, she does.
I am especially grateful to the youngest in my family: Shawn (a talented writer), Brett (a gifted mathematician), and the baby girls, Lindsay, Skylar, and Tori (the smartest, most gorgeous toddlers in the whole world) and Im not prejudiced! These grandchildren, along with their great- grandmother, Frances Abramson, keep me in awe of the circle of life while they encircle me with their love.
But most of all, I thank my extraordinary husband, Jay Zukerman. Every day with Jay is a gift.
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