STEPHEN M. POLLAN
AND
MARK LEVINE
before we thought of it.
who always knew she was the boss.
Contents
PART I
THE FIRE YOUR BOSS PHILOSOPHY
PART II
FIRING YOUR BOSS IN
THREE COMMON SITUATIONS
The Fire Your
Boss Philosophy
Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.CARL JUNG
YOU CAN TAKE charge of your work life.
Are you like the office manager wishing she could spend more time at home caring for her children than at the office catering to a juvenile boss?
Are you like the regional manager worrying that the new hotshot vice president of sales will fire him two years short of his daughters finishing college?
You dont have to accept your current work situation. You can be in control of your job and your stream of income so youre never again subject to the whims, prejudices, moods, or circumstances of your so-called boss. It doesnt matter whether youve been on the job for forty years or forty days; its never too late or too early to seize control of your work life. It doesnt matter if youre a stock clerk at a video store or the chief financial officer of a movie studio; everyone whos employed can take charge of his or her own work life. I wont lie to you: becoming boss of your own life is neither quick nor easy. The program I outline in this book will require hard work and real thought. Its not something you can do in a weekend. But, believe me, its worth the time and effort.
Being master of your own work life leads to incredible changes in your life. Youll earn more money if thats what you wish. Youll feel more secure if thats your goal. Youll be able to pursue whatever brings you the most joy and satisfaction, whether its having a catch with your son, puttering around in the garden, or serving meals to the needy. Youll end up with the job of your dreams, and that will give you a leg up on living the life of your dreams. Just ask Sydney Carton.
Sydney is now sleeping well at night. For years, however, he lay awake worrying. He worried about the state of his career; whether hed ever achieve his lifes dreams; how hed pay for his daughters college education; and whether he and his wife, Lucy, would ever be able to retire. He worried about when theyd actually get to spend some quality time together as a family with all the hours he and his wife were working. But Sydney is not worried anymore. His income is fine hes not an NBA first-round draft pick, but hes doing okay. His job is as secure as it can be in todays world because his boss depends on him more than ever. And even with that security, hes spending less time at work and more at home. He has taken up photography again. He and Lucy have rekindled their romance, thanks to being able to spend time together. And hes being the kind of father he always wanted to be. Sydney turned his work life aroundand so can you.
You can find a new job that pays an income large enough to keep pace with your familys needs and wants.
You can find a new job with the kind of security that lets you sleep soundly and not lie awake worrying about money.
You can find a new job that lets you achieve the emotional and psychological satisfaction youve always sought.
And you can do all this without getting more education or training, without moving, without changing industries. You dont need to learn a new style of rsum, memorize new buzzwords to drop into your conversations, or learn the latest variations of job hunting.
In fact, you may not need to find a new job at all.
I know this sounds crazy. It flies in the face of what everyone is saying. The media are filled with stories about how the American job market has permanently turned into a cold, chaotic, and corrupt environment. The world of paternalistic companies and loyal employees is extinct, say the pundits. Its a dog-eat-dog world today, in which every man and woman has to be out for him- or herself. Were told weve become a nation of mercenaries engaged in a Darwinian struggle in which only the fittest survive and get to keep their jobs.
Setting all the overblown rhetoric aside, its clear that the American workplace has changed. More and more full-time jobs are being turned into part-time or contingent positions. Back-office operations are being outsourced. Instead of staff being added, temps are hired. Theres no more climbing up a company ladder. Upper-level positions are filled with outsiders stolen from competitors, and to move up at all youve got to first move out. To keep your job it used to be enough to show up on time, do your job for eight hours, and go home. Today youre expected to work for as long as it takes to do your workand the work of the two people who were laid off last month. (See the box on page 6: How Long Are You Working?)
But Im not telling you anything you dont know already. Youve probably seen firsthand signs of the new job market. I bet there are empty desks at work where longtime productive coworkers used to sit before they were laid off. There are probably some people in your office who have shifted over to part-time in an effort to keep their jobs. If youre like most of us, youre working longer and longer hours, without getting more pay, because youve been sent a veiled message that unless you bite the bullet youll be out of a job. Friends may be coming to you asking for leads because theyve been out of work and are unable to land a new job. Maybe youre out of work yourself, or just losing sleep, playing out worst-case scenarios in your head.
HOW LONG ARE YOU WORKING? Its not just in your head. If youre anything like the rest of Americans, you are indeed working longer hours than ever. According to the Economic Policy Institute, the average middle-income married couple with children is now working 660 hours more per year than in 1979, the equivalent of more than sixteen extra weeks of full-time work. In 2000, American workers worked an average of 1,877 hours. Thats more than in any other rich industrialized nation. To see how your hours measure up, fill in this quick worksheet:
| What time do you arrive at work? | ______ |
2. | What time do you leave work? | ______ |
3. | How many hours does that add up to each day? | ______ |
4. | How many days a week do you go to the office? | ______ |
5. | How many hours does that add up to each week? | ______ |
6. | How many days a week do you go out for lunch? | ______ |
7. | How long do spend at lunch when you go out? | ______ |
8. | How many hours does that add up to each week? | ______ |
9. | Subtract line 8 from line 5 for total hours at the job. | ______ |
10. | How many hours of work do you bring home weekly? | ______ |
11. | How many hours do you go into the office on the weekend? | ______ |
12. | Add line 10 and line 11 for time spent working off the job. | ______ |
13. | Add line 12 to line 9 for hours worked weekly. | ______ |