McFarlane Evelyn - If3--: (questions for the game of love)

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The authors would like to dedicate this book
to all those who have given them love,
and who have received theirs.

If3...

Love. Romance. Sex.

From the imaginative lover to the imaginary one, our imaginations play central role in our love lives. Pity the person who believes there exists no connection between the heart and the imagination, or pity their lover, anyway. From the first time we begin to discover theres a thing called lovetumultuous, chaotic, confusing, frightfully powerful, and stunningly joyouswe begin to imagine what might be if ...

And as long as we are able to love (in other words, as long as we are alive), our imaginations help us through it, fill in the gaps, make us hopeful, steel our nerves, augment our romantic ideas, protect our humility, guide our actions, and help keep things interesting. Would we dare enter into love otherwise?

Yet as wonderful and wrenching as romantic love can be, it remains startlingly incomprehensible, and the mysteries of our own hearts tantalize us. Can we know more? Are we meant to? Ask yourself some of these questions, and ask those you love, or would like to. Where will they take you? What will they reveal? Do you have the courage to answer? Be prepared for anything.

And always, always, treasure the game of love.

We would like to add that some of the following questions are rather direct, and personal, and not everyone will choose to ponder them, but in no case do we intend offense.

If you were to complete the phrase "A life without love ... ," how would you finish it?

If you had to have sex simultaneously with two people you know, who would you want them to be?

If you could have anyone in the world say one romantic thing to you, what would it be, and who would utter it?

If you could make love one more time with someone from your past, who would you choose?

If you had to watch your lover or spouse have sex with someone else, but could determine who it would be, who would you choose?

If you could personally undress anyone you know that you have never seen naked, who would you disrobe?

If you could kissbut only kissone person you know anytime you wanted, who would it be?

If you had to name the most sensual part of your own body, what would you pick?

If you wanted to nonverbally signal to your lover in public that you wanted to make love, how would you do it?

If you could have a sensuous massage every day from someone famous, who would you choose?

If you could grab the buttocks of someone famous, whose would you grab?

If you wanted to turn your lover on as quickly as possible, what means would you use?

If you had to repeat the sexiest words anyone has ever said to you, what would they be?

If you were to identify the biggest turn-off in sex, what would you say it was?

If you went back in time to have sex with someone from your high school that you didnt have sex with then, who would you pick?

If from now on you could only have sex at a certain time of the day, when would it be?

If you were to have oral sex with someone famous right now, who would it be?

If you could receive a sexual proposition from any one person, who would it be, and how would you want them to do it?

If you were to name the most romantic thing youve ever done for someone else, what would it be?

If you were to define "kinky," how would you do it?

If you had to select the sexiest word in the English language, what would you say it is?

If you had to involve (directly) one type of food in your next sexual act, what would it be?

If you had to pick the person with the hottest body you know but have never slept with, who would you say has it?

If you could change one thing about the way your lover makes love, what would it be?

If you could try one thing in bed that youve never done, what would it be?

If you had to choose the person with the most remarkable sexual reputation of anyone youve known, who would win?

If you were to pick the worst misogynist you know, who would you say it is?

If you had to name the most extreme man-hater you know, who would it be?

If you had to name the most erotic book you have ever read, what would you pick?

If you had to describe the sexiest dream youve ever had, which one would qualify?

If you could have lost your virginity to someone you have met since, who would it be?

If you were to name the sexiest part of your mates body, what would it be?

If you had to name the noisiest person you have ever had sex with, who would it be?

If you were to name the one part of your body you most like to touch, what would it be?

If you were to describe the kinkiest thing you would do under the right circumstances, what would it be?

If you were to name the person youve made love with who was the biggest surprise (for better or for worse) in bed, who would you say it was?

If you had to name the biggest turn-on you have experienced in the history of your sex life, what would it be?

If you were to name the most romantic moment in your life so far, what would you say?

If you were to recall the most humorous thing that has happened to you in bed, what would it be?

If you could have changed one thing about the first time you had sex, what would you alter?

If you were to name a person whose attraction toward you is incomprehensible, who would it be?

If you were to think of a couple you know about whom you would say, "What on earth is he doing with her [or she with him]?," who would it be?

If you were to think of a famous couple about whom you would say, "What on earth are they doing together?," who would it be?

If there was one moment in the history of your love life when you were truly scared of the situation you were in, when would it be?

If you had to pick your best masturbation fantasy, what would it involve?

If you had to choose the best music to make love to, what would you pick?

If, for the rest of your life, you could achieve an instant orgasm by being touched on one particular spot on your body, where would you want it to be?