Category(ies) - 1. Self Help; 2. Personal Development; 3. Psychology (Self-knowing);
Positively Brilliant Self-mastery Reclaim Your Authentic Self Now
Copyright 2008 by Peter J. Reding
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ISBN-13: 978-0-9819108-0-2 ISBN-10: 0-9819108-0-7
Published by: Positively Brilliant Productions http://www.positivelybrilliantproductions.com
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Library of Congress Control Number: 2008942413
January 2009
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Disclaimer: This book is intended for those who have taken, or are ready to take, full responsibility for creating their own life. The Principles shared in this book are based on the author's personal experience. Your choice to use (or not use, or abuse) these Principles, is an individual and self-responsible decision. It is not the intention of the author to dictate to anyone how they should lead their life, what actions they should take or what path best serves their personal journey
To Marcia Collins,
the most fascinating person I know
and
the person who models
Positively Brilliant Self-mastery
for me every day.
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
I acknowledge my family members as they continue to support my life's work. Thank you for your love of learning and your modeling for me to see the best in each person.
I acknowledge each of my extraordinary coaching clients who have entrusted me with holding their best and brightest selves. Their lives have positively touched tens of thousands, and one of those lives is mine. Thank you for reminding me what living your own life with passion looks like.
I acknowledge Coach For Life's comprehensive Life Coach Program Graduates and accredited CLC - Certified Life Coach Program Certified Graduates. I acknowledge my colleagues in the International Coach Federation and the Association of Coach Training Organizations. My combined professional coaching community has been a source of support and inspiration. Thank you for the constant reminder of the human spirit's infinite potential.
Finally, I acknowledge the exemplary contributors of the stories for this book. Thank you for sharing your vulnerabilities and your triumphant Self-mastery. I list each contributor at the end of this book.
Table of Contents
SECTION IWe explore our Divine Nature and how it
supports and informs who we are
You are connected to an infinite and life-affirming Divine Source (God, Higher Power, Spirit).
Your Divine Nature is resourceful, whole, and complete.
You have direct access to your Divine Source anytime you choose.
SECTION IIWe explore our human nature that embodies our human beliefs and attitudes. As humans, we have a choice of living by life-limiting beliefs and attitudes or
life-affirming beliefs and attitudes. When we choose
life-affirming beliefs and attitudes, our Divine Nature is expressed through our human nature.YOUR LIFE AFFIRMING BELIEFS
You believe that when you are connected to and guided by your sense of the Divine you are infinitely resourceful.
You believe that when you bring your Innate Gifts to your Innate Life Purpose as you honor your Innate Values you are living your Positively Brilliant Self.
You believe that when you acknowledge yourself for living your own life you are reenergized to contribute even more of you to your world.
YOUR LIFE AFFIRMING ATTITUDES
You love and accept who you are right now.
You take responsibility for creating your life.
You focus on the positive in yourself and others.
SECTION IIIWe explore the Divine endowment of Innate Values that provide our most authentic way of
being.
Your Innate Values are an endowment from your Divine Source.
You know your Innate Values.
You live in alignment with your Innate Values.
You acknowledge and celebrate living in alignment with your Innate Values.
SECTION IVWe explore the Divine endowment of Innate Life Purpose that provides our most fulfilling
direction and way of service.
Your Innate Life Purpose is an endowment from your Divine Source.
You know your Innate Life Purpose.
You live in alignment with your Innate Life Purpose.
You acknowledge and celebrate living in alignment with your Innate Life Purpose.
SECTION VWe explore the Divine endowment of Innate Gifts that provide our most
powerful and natural resources to express our Life Purpose.
Your Innate Gifts are an endowment from your Divine Source.
You know your Innate Gifts.
You live in alignment with your Innate Gifts.
You acknowledge and celebrate living in alignment with your Innate Gifts.
FOREWORD
T his book is written for you and those people in your life when you or they are looking for greater clarity or deeper meaning about who you really are.This is the first release in the Positively Brilliant Self-mastery Series. This book describes a foundational framework to guide you back to your most authentic Self. While simple and easy to understand, this book is powerful, practical, and empowering.There are five planned releases for Positively Brilliant Self-mastery Workshop in a Box in this Self-mastery Series. Each Positively Brilliant Self-mastery Workshop in a Box will include a detailed workbook, audio tracts, a self-assessment, and a Mastery Journal that are collectively designed to support your discovery, integration, and celebration of one of the five major areas of your Positively Brilliant Self.For most of your lifetime, you have been told who you are, what you need to do, and how you are supposed to be.When you have not followed others' guidelines or mandates, you have been told you are doing your life wrong. Or more accurately 'you are not correctly following what others planned for you and your life.'Going through a divorce, the loss of a loved one, a major change of lifestyle, being fired, downsized, or retired, or facing a significant health-related challenge can trigger a desire to embark on a deeply personal exploration. At these times of external crisis or internal breakdown, you may very well find yourself asking, "Who am I? What is my purpose? Why am I alive?"You may even be asking, "Am I worthy? Am I deserving of love? Do I make a difference in this world?" [The answers to these last three questions by the way are Positively Yes!, Yes!, and Yes!]Even when life is not as turbulent, there is an internal quest within each of us to "know ourselves" and "live in alignment with ourselves."I share 21 principles that will guide you to access, re-evaluate, and align with who you really are. Your Positively Brilliant Self is within you right now. Your Positively Brilliant Self-mastery journey awaits...
INTRODUCTION
Self-mastery is Knowing, Living, and Celebrating Your Innate and Positively Brilliant Self
Peter J. Reding
I n 1985, I was living in Tokyo, Japan. Well, in 1985, I was mostly a workaholic without an actual life. At 37 years old, I was incompetent at living my own life. Everyone else had defined, or dictated to me, who I was, what I needed to do, and who I should be to be successful, earn a good living, be promoted, and generally get ahead in this world.I was very successful in getting ahead in this world. My world was international business. I was earning more than $100,000 a year. I was on the corporate management fast track. I could and did travel anywhere in the world I wanted to go... And I had no idea who I really was or what I was really meant to be doing. Twenty-three years later, I know who I really am. Now I am competent to live and celebrate my own life.