Endorsements
Pastor Anthony Thompsons wife, Myra, was brutally murdered at Emanuel AME Church in Charleston along with eight others on June 17, 2015. The nation was shocked by this racially motivated hate crime. No one could have anticipated what would happen next. Pastor Thompson stood in front of the killer, forgave him, and then offered him the hope of the gospel in Jesus Christ. That moment, broadcast worldwide, inspired the entire city to act on grace rather than revenge and hatred. Called to Forgive offers the backstory, the heart-wrenching story, while celebrating and challenging the reader to experience the greatest force known to humanity, Gods grace. As his colleague and friend, I commend Pastor Thompson to you. Every word written herein is authenticated by his life. If you long to understand forgiveness, meet Anthony Thompson.
Marshall Blalock, pastor, First Baptist Church of Charleston; president, South Carolina Baptist Convention (2018)
Anthony Thompson has led the way in how to respond to those who wound and hurt us, even in the midst of awful tragedy. Called to Forgive inspires greater understanding in how to forgive as Christ has forgiven us (Ephesians 4:32) and how to be released from the slavery of unforgiveness.
Foley Beach, archbishop and primate, Anglican Church in North America
In a world where there is so much negative rhetoric, hatred, and division, the words contained in this book will inspire you to forgive, heal, and grow. I am truly thankful for Anthony and his willingness to be open with his pain, struggles, and road to forgiveness. His testimony will change your life!
Eric S.C. Manning, pastor, Mother Emanuel AME Church, Charleston, South Carolina
In June 2015 I experienced two most unthinkable acts. The first was the killing of nine devout church members at Bible study, based solely on their race by a hateful bigot. Then just two days later, devastated family members showing an extreme act of grace by telling the murderer they forgive him. This beautiful book encourages and challenges the reader to see the powerful and healing act of forgiveness in the face of hate.
Joseph P. Riley Jr., former mayor of Charleston, South Carolina
A powerful, compelling story of forgiveness. Rev. Thompson was prepared, ready for Gods call. Through this amazing example of Gods compassion and forgiveness, the citizens of Charleston will forever affirm that Love Is Stronger Than Hate. Thank you, Rev. Thompsonwe love you!
John Tecklenburg, mayor of Charleston, South Carolina
Part memoir, part guidebook for the soul, Called to Forgive tells the deeper story of Rev. Anthony Thompsons decision to publicly forgive his wifes murderer. Full of empathy and deep wisdom, Thompson explains the complexities behind his decision to forgive and the power it exerts in his life. This is a story that can change the world.
Marjory Wentworth, coauthor, We Are Charleston: Tragedy and Triumph at Mother Emanuel
Half Title Page
Title Page
Copyright Page
2019 by Anthony Thompson
Published by Bethany House Publishers
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This book recounts events in the life of Anthony Thompson according to the authors recollection and information from the authors perspective.
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Dedication
I dedicate this book to the memory of my wife, the late Myra Quarles-Singleton Thompson, who is the sparkle in my eyes. Her love, giving spirit, and dedication to education and ministry for the Lord are my greatest inspiration.
I also extend a special dedication to the memory of the Emanuel Nine victims: Myra Quarles-Singleton Thompson, Sharonda Coleman-Singleton, Cynthia Graham Hurd, Susie Jackson, Ethel Lance, Depayne Middleton Doctor, Clementa Carlos Pinckney, Tywanza Sanders, and Daniel L. Simmons Sr.
A very special dedication to the survivors of the Emanuel Nine Tragedy, who are our Voices of Hope and Reflection : Although we find ourselves in a broken worlda world in which hurting people far too often hurt other peoplewe come longing for healing. We gather to pray for peace. Not only that, but we also come pledging to reverse the conditions that have produced such violence and destructive behavior that have torn at the fabric of our families and our communities.
For Jennifer and Malana Pinckney, Felicia Sanders and her granddaughter, and Polly Sheppard.
Contents
Cover
Endorsements
Half Title Page
Title Page
Copyright Page
Dedication
Acknowledgments
Introduction
1. The Unthinkable Tragedy
2. The Aftermath
3. Dylann Storm Roof: A Homegrown American Terrorist
4. The Decision
5. A Mighty Long Journey
6. Missing Myra
7. A Community and Nation React
8. Honoring Myras Wishes
9. The Deadly Dis-ease of Unforgiveness
10. The Path to Healing and Peace
Epilogue: My Letter to Dylann
Bible Study Questions
Appendix 1: A Call to Prayer from the Bishops in South Carolina
Appendix 3: The Ten Stages of Biblical Forgiveness
Appendix 4: The Resolution to Recognize, Denounce and Apologize for the Citys Involvement with Slavery
Appendix 5: Myras Bible Study on Jesus Parable of the Sower (from Mark 4)
Notes
About the Authors
Back Cover
Acknowledgments
I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing (John 15:5 KJV ).
T o God be the glory, the honor, and the praise. For He and He alone is worthy to be praised!
God brought good out of the Emanuel Nine tragedy. God gave me the peace that passeth all understanding in the most tragic and lonely time of my life. He simultaneously assigned me the mission to preach the gospel of forgiveness so that the peace may be imparted to our families, churches, cities, states, and nation.
God prepared the way before me by placing His chosen people in my path to successfully implement His mission through this book, Called to Forgive: The Charleston Church Shooting, a Victims Husband, and the Path to Healing and Peace. And it is with great honor that I thank each and every one of them.
Many thanks to my agent, Greg Johnson; to my editor, Andy McGuire; and to the staff of Bethany House.