Baker - The Leap of Your Life

A must read for anyone who knows there's a larger life out there for them and is ready to create it!

Mark A. Lack, TV Host and Speaker

There's a lot of noise out there telling you what to do, and how to do it. Unfortunately, few people out there are living it. Tommy Baker is, and The Leap of Your Life will give you permission to take ownership of your life and never look back.

Ryan Michler, Founder of Order of Man

If you're ready to make that change, that shift, that decision that you know will change your life, but you don't know where to start, Tommy Baker is your answer. Tommy will guide and direct you through The Leap of Your Life. Stop waiting for your success, grab this opportunity to be guided by one of the best in the business. Leap!

Jay Nixon, Founder, Thrive Fitness

TOMMY BAKER

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For both of my incredible grandmothers, Marjorie and Pepita. For
giving me the gift of knowledge, and the belief of possibility.

What are you waiting for?

Theres a leap in your life youve been putting off, and its killing you. Maybe not literally, but its killing your spirit. Its killing your belief, your enthusiasm, and the thrill of this one experience we call life. Its killing your energy, vitality, and hope for the future. When those are gone, you might as well be the walking dead.

Its draining your life force, and every day you put it off, youre reminded of how it hasnt happened for you yet. And now youre questioning if it ever will.

The consequences of not taking your leap are real, and they stare back at you every morning in the mirror. Theyre reflected in bank statements. Theyre felt in your body language during time with the people you love. Theyre wrapped in not on long exhales as you aim to keep it all together.

But worst of all, theyre reflected in this tireless voice in the back of your head that wont shut up, asking:

Is this it? Is this all thats meant for me?

Now, does this mean Im certain your life isnt working? No, not at all. Our lives can be working, and we can still have a leap we know we must take. Sometimes, this can be the most precarious circumstance of all: we have everything weve been told we should want, yet something is still missing.

And Im here to tell you whats missing is your leap. But before we get into it all, lets define what a leap is.

You may be wondering: What exactly constitutes a leap? You may be thinking its abandoning Western life and moving to an ashram in the Himalayas, quitting your accounting gig, launching the new app or parachuting out of a perfectly good airplane at 15,000 feet.

Although all of those sound like fun to me and could be leaps, they dont have to be yours. Sometimes, the leap we have to take seems inconsequential to others and yet leads to a bold moment of no return: reaching out to a recruiter with the hopes of transitioning out of our job, having the tough conversation with our partner, launching the side hustle or finally clicking record and spreading a message with the world.

What matters, then is not necessarily the magnitude of the leap. Its simply that it matters to you, and includes the following:

• You feel a pull. You cant explain it, but you feel pulled toward your leap. Much like a magnetic charge, you can try to avoid it, but it comes back stronger than ever.
• Theres a decision. Your leap involves a decision youve been putting off and will require you to make a bold choice.
• The stakes are high. Your leap matters. There are real consequences to not making it. There are also endless possibilities by stepping into it.
• Theres an element of risk. Your leap has a degree of risk, and for now youve chosen to play it safe at the expense of your own fulfillment.
• Not doing it will hurt more than doing it. Lastly, even though you havent taken your leap yet, not doing so hurts more than any consequence or perceived failure of taking it.

So, againwhat are you waiting for?

If youre here, I already know youre waiting for something. Every day you put it off, a part of you withers away, knowing your dreams are on hold as you attempt to live someone elses life. (I use the word attempt deliberately, because no matter how hard we try, itll never quite pan out.)

As we begin this adventure, I want you to treat it as such. Im going to take a wild guess youve read books with similar themes, but you havent read