To the One who pushes the ones who push the pens.
Acknowledgements
I am grateful to:
Pauline Aiko Lamprecht who first introduced me to the experience of Countenance, without warning, one Monday afternoon in a noisy, smoke-filled Viennese caf in the fall of 1994. As my reality horizon expanded into infinity and I could hardly breathe, she calmly said that she never opens this door for anyone. She just waits until someone visits.
Mayli, Aikos teacher, who obviously trains her students with a rare deference.
Clinton Callahan Jr., my father, a King who read this whole manuscript out loud to my mother Virginia, who cant read anymore, just so she could hear what it says.
My ex-wife; my not-ex-daughters; and every person who has ever encouraged me to learn more about love.
Sue Nestrud, who spent hundreds of unpaid hours transforming piles of badly recorded talk tapes into words on paper that built the foundation for this project.
Tilman and Dagmar Neubronner of Genius Verlag, whose unmitigated enthusiasm for our work and for revolutions in general helped entice this book out of the womb.
Regina Sara Ryan and the Hohm Press team, who excel in the compassionate art of working kindly with cantankerous authors to make a better book.
Werner and Hannelore Lutz, whose creative financial ideas and simple exuberance for life greatly supported the final writing of this book.
E. J. Gold, who moves faster than the speed of evolution for the benefit of all beings everywhere; and his student Mike McDonnell, for all those hours talking to me about responsibility under the streetlights on the far side of midnight.
Anyone who has ever tried (or even wanted to try) to write a book that would somehow help people, because many of those books have helped me.
Everyone who participated in Possibility Manager Laboratories experimenting together to discover what works and what does not work.
Marion, for being the listening into which Radiant Joy Brilliant Love could be written.
Lee Lozowick, a man who has many secrets but none worth telling, because he knows that a person keeps only what they authentically discover themselves. You are a space through which Archetypal Love does its work in the world (just my opinion). This manuscript was completed only because you said, I want to see the book. Where the words are best the words are yours. Thank you for never ceasing to kick the ass connected to this one.
Contents
Part I. 11
Chapter 1. 13
Part II. 27
Chapter 2. 29
Section 2-A. 30
Section 2-B. 32
Section 2-C. 35
Section 2-D. 38
Chapter 3. 51
Section 3-A. 51
Section 3-B. 55
Section 3-C. 57
Section 3-D. 60
Section 3-E. 64
Chapter 4. 74
Section 4-A. 75
Section 4-B. 78
Section 4-C. 81
Chapter 5. 89
Section 5-A. 89
Section 5-B. 92
Section 5-C. 97
Section 5-D. 99
Section 5-E. 101
Section 5-F. 102
Section 5-G. 104
Part III. 107
Chapter 6. 109
Section 6-A. 111
Section 6-B. 113
Section 6-C. 119
Section 6-D. 120
Section 6-E. 124
Section 6-F. 126
Section 6-G. 129
Section 6-H. 130
Section 6-I. 132
Section 6-J. 133
Section 6-K. 136
Section 6-L. 140
Section 6-M. 143
Section 6-N. 149
Section 6-O. 154
Section 6-P. 163
Section 6-Q. 170
Section 6-R. 173
Section 6-S. 176
Section 6-T. 183
Section 6-U. 187
Section 6-V. 189
Section 6-W. 192
Section 6-X. 200
Section 6-Y. 207
Section 6-Z. 209
Section 6- . 217
Chapter 7. 221
Section 7-A. 222
Section 7-B. 224
Section 7-C. 227
Section 7-D. 234
Part IV. 243
Chapter 8. 245
Section 8-A. 246
Section 8-B. 247
Section 8-C. 248
Section 8-D. 251
Section 8-E. 259
Chapter 9. 264
Section 9-A. 265
Section 9-B. 267
Section 9-C. 275
Chapter 10. 278
Section 10-A. 278
Section 10-B. 281
Section 10-C. 291
Chapter 11. 295
Section 11-A. 295
Section 11-B. 297
Section 11-C. 299
Section 11-D. 302
Section 11-E. 304
Chapter 12. 309
Section 12-A. 310
Section 12-B. 313
Section 12-C. 322
Section 12-D. 325
Section 12-E. 325
Section 12-F. 327
Section 12-G. 330
Section 12-H. 333
Section 12-I. 334
Section 12-J. 338
Section 12-K. 339
Section 12-L. 340
Chapter 13. 342
Section 13-A. 342
Section 13-B. 346
Section 13-C. 349
Section 13-D. 357
Section 13-E. 358
Section 13-F. 360
Section 13-G. 366
Section 13-H. 372
Section 13-I. 373
Section 13-J. 377
Part V. 383
Chapter 14. 385
Section 14-A. 386
Section 14-B. 388
Chapter 15. 393
Section 15-A. 393
Section 15-B. 396
Section 15-C. 397
Section 15-D. 401
Section 15-E. 403
Section 15-F. 405
Section 15-G. 406
Section 15-H. 417
Chapter 16. 420
Section 16-A. 421
Section 16-B. 426
Section 16-C. 427
Section 16-D. 430
Section 16-E. 432
Section 16-F. 433
Section 16-G. 436
Part VI. 439
Chapter 17 441
Section 17-A. 441