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From the brilliant comedic mind behind the hit movie Yes Man, a hilarious and pitch-perfect look at the rudeness thats all around us -- where it comes from, how it affects us, and what we can do about it. Youre not just imagining it: People are getting more and more rude - from cutting in line, gabbing on their phones and clipping their nails on public transportation, to hurling epithets on Twitter and in real life (including a certain President who does both). And the worst part is that its contagious, leading reasonably courteous people to stoop to new lows in order to respond to the ever-coarsening encounters we face every day. In this engaging and illuminating new book, bestselling author and all-around curious guy Danny Wallace looks at the reasons behind the rudeness, and what we can do to stop it. His quest to stop the madness includes interviews with neuroscientists, psychologists, NASA scientists, politicians, and other experts. He joins a Radical Honesty group, talks to LA drivers about road rage, and confronts his own online troll in a pub--all to better understand the scourge thats turning normal people into bullies, tantruming toddlers, trolls, and other types of everyday monsters. Want to be part of the solution? Let Danny Wallace be your smart and funny guide.;Prologue: The hotdog incident -- The rudeness effect -- Going viral -- Bad manors -- Lip service -- Rudeness and power -- Rudeness and the sexes -- Rudeness and outrage -- Rude health -- Rudeness and revenge -- The troll -- Rude rage -- Lost in translation -- Juvenile behaviors -- Policing rudeness -- Rude by nature -- Sense and incivility -- The honesty clause -- Rude to the end.

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Advance Praise for
F YOU VERY MUCH

A meaty cry for human decency, wrapped in a deliciously hilarious hot dog bun. I plan to read it again and then force-feed it to my neighbor, my mother, and my college roommate. If you care about people and enjoy a good laugh, I politely encourage you to read this book. Immediately.

Adam Grant, bestselling author of Originals

A brilliant book.

Jon Ronson, bestselling author of The Psychopath Test

A very funny and wise book about the blatant rudeness that surrounds us. Danny Wallace in top form.

Matt Haig, bestselling author of Reasons to Stay Alive

Hilarious.

GQ

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First published in Great Britain in different form as I Cant Believe You Just Said That by Ebury Press, an imprint of Penguin Random House UK 2017

This edition published 2018

Copyright 2017 by Danny Wallace

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For Mum and Dad

(The only two people I can honestly say Ive never seen be rude to anyone.)

Contents
Introduction

In 2015, after 27-year-old Omar Hussain left his job at a Morrisons supermarket in Buckinghamshire and fled the United Kingdom to join the radical terrorist jihadist group ISIS, he was extraordinarily disappointed to find out how rude they all were.

We all get annoyed at our colleagues from time to time, but for Omar Hussain the everyday rudeness displayed by those simultaneously plotting to bring down the very tenets of Western civilization was a step too far.

In a blog he wrote in his first few months in the desert, he complained in no uncertain terms about the bad manners of his fellow radicalized death-cult militants.

Under a series of numbered headings on Tumblr, the bearded and bespectacled Hussain launched a blistering attack on Arab administrative skills.

There is no queue in any of their offices, wrote the furious Briton. You could be waiting in line for half an hour and then another Arab would come and push in the queue and go straight in.

When serving his peers dinner after a long day of terrorist training in the desert, Omar was shocked to be pounced upon by everyone in the room. I therefore refused to give anyone food until every single one of them was sitting down in their seats. Unfortunately, I had to treat them like primary school students.

Poor Omar just hadnt known what he was letting himself in for. In subsequent blogs and tweets, you can tell he was becoming withdrawn. He talks of loneliness; he has trouble peeling potatoes; he spends his free time trying to find chocolates or feeding a local cat called Lucy.

What Omar perceived as the rudeness of others really affected him: this kind of behavior was not what he signed up to ISIS for, and it was wearing him down.

It only got worse.

In the West, it is common knowledge to walk out of a room wearing the same pair of shoes that you wore while entering the room. Nay, it is common sense! he wrote at one point, and you know someones annoyed when they use words like nay. However, here in Sham, our Syrian brothers [...] believe that everyone can wear each others footwear. Sometimes you would enter a building and when leaving, you would see the person with your shoes walking 100 yards ahead of you and it can be quite irritating.

Of course, these things happen in war. But Omar suddenly found himself in a world in which men would simply stand three feet away and stare at him while saying nothing, and even where terrorists would casually take your phone off charge to charge their own phone.

Omar expected better of ISIS. He didnt like how they would be so childish in their dealings and mannerisms, nor how they would rifle through other peoples property without asking first. They were always invading his space, and they talked far too loudly when he was trying to sleep.

As far as he could tell, they didnt find their own behavior rude at all.

We all have our own standards when it comes to rudeness.

Politeness is extremely important to me, though sometimes I wonder if I set the bar too high.

I feel rude if I sneeze on a plane. I have lost count of the number of times I have apologized to garbage cans or lampposts if Ive walked into them. If a dog looks my way as I walk through a park, I feel ashamed if I dont smile or nod a hello. I dont think Id last five minutes with ISIS before Id be straight to Human Resources!

But never was I more aware of my own standards of rudeness than on the dayand immediate aftermathof what well call the Hotdog Incident.

All I wanted was a sausage. What I got instead was an afternoon of incredible stress and the desire to do something about it. The desire, as it would turn out, to write this book. Initially I tried to exorcise my demons by composing a scathing 200-word review. But 200 words did nothing. There was too much I still wanted to sayand know. Something that began as a little silly took on a serious edge. What started as a few print-outs left by my bed in London soon became documents in ring-binders arranged in my office.

And all of this purely to try and understand exactly what happened between me and a complete stranger over an emulsified sausage.

In the following months, as my interest in the question of why people are rude became an obsessionand winning an argument became writing a bookI would start to realize that we are on the edge of something truly dangerous. I found myself calling upon the expertise of behavioral psychologists, psychiatrists, psychotherapists, bellboys, cab drivers, moving men, sociologists, journalists, ethicists, political strategists, neurologists, lawyers, baristas, waiters, politicians, NASA scientists, a limo driver called Jos, and at least one expert in cooked meat production.

Simultaneously, as I read more studies and familiarized myself with a whole new world of research and investigation, I began to discover I was part of a hidden community of rudeness nerds, working diligently in the shadows to figure out why we are the way we areand what it means.

And its not pretty.

Ill be honest with you: I thought I had a pretty good handle on rudeness. What I wasnt expecting to find was what a threat it poses to our happinessand maybe even to our continued existence on this planet. Its effects are potent, damaging, and, scariest of all, contagious. In the coming pages, Ill show you how rudeness affects the way our brains work, how it clouds our judgment and how it worsens our choices. Well see how experiencing it can make us less effective at our jobs, and make us worse fathers and mothers, sons, daughters, and friends. Well meet people wholl show us how rudeness can stop us trusting, and make us barbed, suspicious, and vicious. How those in power use it to keep us down.

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