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Copyright 2017 by Estelle Gillingham
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Please note the information presented in this book is not intended to replace the advice of a trained health professional. Any attempt to diagnose and treat a health problem should be done under the direct supervision of a trained health professional. The author and publisher specifically disclaim all responsibility for any liability, loss or risk, personal or otherwise, that is incurred as a consequence, directly or indirectly, of the use and application of the contents of this book.
Introduction
Sensitive people have it tough. There is a wave of consciousness and awakening that is sweeping the planet and pushing us all into a greater and deeper awareness of our own true nature. This means its more painful than ever before if we try to fit in with what is expected of us, instead of listening to what our own wisdom and our own wisdom is telling us.
The good news for sensitive people? When you reconnect to the unique passion that drives you, those same waves of high frequency energy make it easier than ever before to live a life filled with purpose, and to access your own authentic energy and gifts. And thats what Be Who You Came to Be can do for you.
I have used the techniques I am sharing in this guide to help myself, and then hundreds of other people to reconnect to their own inner guidance and break through the unseen conditioning and programming that keeps their energy and their real nature tied up, locked down and inaccessible in their every-day lives. The methods explained here are all completely free for you to implement. And they have been proven to create positive, far-reaching results. And they can do the same for you.
All you have to do to reconnect to your true purpose, gifts and power is to keep reading. Each section will show you more and more ways to create the life that you desire.
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About the author
Before becoming a healer, Estelle allowed all kinds of invisible programs to influence her and prevent her from discovering the life path that was already mapped out for her by her own true nature. On her web site (www.estellegillingham.com) she describes the unusual journey she made from being a post-doctoral research chemist to being a powerful energy healer. And how she now takes great pleasure in enabling sensitive people from all over the world to go beyond fitting in and connecting instead with their souls highest purpose, gifts and power.
What other sensitive people are saying about work with Estelle and using the processes shared in this book:
A-MA-ZING!! I dont have the words to describe our work together. I feel clearer, more centred and happier than ever before. My own work has become more powerful as a result. I have already received far more healing than I ever thought was possible. - Alan Dolan, The Breath Guru
My vice-like chronic depression, anxiety and despair lifted off me. My non-existent energy catapulted to a higher vibration and I now have a clarity of mind that Ive not experienced for years. Hayley ONeal
The healing is ongoing and Im still noticing the effects every day. I feel infinitely more at ease with myself and more confident on my journey. Sheree Hall
The energy shift was palpable. I feel more settled, centred and connected than I have ever felt and a deep inner peace. I feel this work is truly extraordinary. Irene B, Northamptonshire
"What has happened over the weeks has been nothing short of a miracle. In an entirely painless, gentle and tender process, my life has gone from one of struggling with deep set fear to one of lightness, fun and love.
I dont remember when or if I have ever described myself as a happy person in the past, but I sure am one now. Having spent all my life feeling held back I now have momentum.
This stuff is truly amazing. Its like living in a parallel, but better, universe. Everything looks the same, but it feels fantastic. - Janet Dryden
After all the emotional, physical and mental investment I put into self-healing and endless therapies that only really touched the surface, it was so great to finally get something back that was not only quick and painless but life changing in a deep and lasting way.
A momentous block has definitely been removed. It has opened a door, too, where opportunities are appearing from nowhere for work and collaborative projects.
I am excited to see what happens next! - Rachel Perry
CHAPTER 1
How I Ended Up as Someone I Hardly Recognised
The supreme insistence of life is that you enter the adventure of creating yourself. Each instant of your life has folded into it un-nameable significance; all rests on your self-creativity, for out of you comes forth ultimate reality. The dynamics that fashioned the stars are now brought into your self-reflexive awareness, and what they create is your free adventure, your surprise for the universe. Brian Swimme
Dont worry about what the world needs... Ask what makes you come alive and do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive. HavardThurman
Life is either a daring adventure or it is nothing. Helen Keller
Painful Patterns
Looking back at my life so far, I realize that even until the age of 39, I was the poster child for living from and for other peoples expectations. I was also a perfect example of what living up to other peoples standards and values can do to your happiness and your health.
After years of searching outside myself for what I should do, and ignoring everything my exquisite sensitivity was trying to tell me, I was disillusioned, uninspiring and uninspired. I was a ghost of the person I had been as a child and nothing I had achieved held any meaning for me.
So what had happened?
To really understand how we end up so far away from our true nature, it is usually necessary to examine the patterns that were seeded very early on in our childhood. In my case, it would be fair to say that I lived in a volatile family environment. I learned very early on that I had a talent for easing the tension around me by offering insightful advice, by listening to the people around me and by staying extremely calm. These strategies helped to achieve a temporary cease-fire between other family members. And, they also gave me a role. It even became a family joke that I had a gift for pouring oil onto troubled waters.
There was no way of realizing it at the time, but there was a hidden downside to getting my value from helping others and trying to ease their pain. It taught me that my pain and feelings didnt matter as much as those of the people around me.