Overthinking
How to Eliminate Anxiety, Stress and Negative Thinking, Declutter Your Mind and Achieve Your Goals with Powerful Programs (Mindfulness Meditation and Positive Self Talk)
Adam Feel
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Table of Contents
Introduction
Maybe you have the perception that overthinking is a good thing. Obviously, it is important to think, right? However, looking at this from a different perspective, you will realize that overthinking can be detrimental. In fact, it can cause a lot of problems in your life. When you overthink, it means that you are focusing too much on something without actually doing anything about it. If you overthink a problem, you exaggerate it and it becomes worse than it seems. The problem will seem more serious and chances are you will be afraid to find ideal solutions. Overthinking not only affects you when you are thinking about negative things, but it is also not good to overthink about positive things. It can open up the possibility to ruin the good things that you were thinking about, form unrealistic expectations and lead to anxiety.
Thinking too much without taking any action is termed overthinking. This means that you spend most of your time reflecting on thoughts repeatedly. The effect of overthinking is that it prevents you from making informed decisions. Moreover, it drains positive energy from you since you will start to believe that your problems are beyond solving. The anxiety that builds up also blinds you from perceiving things the way they should. As a result, your mind puts you in a loop where you only think repeatedly without doing anything.
This habit prevents people from reaching their potential in life. Since there is little that you can do about certain things in your life, you will feel as though your life is at a stand-still. You will continue to reflect on your past. Maybe something bad had happened and it has affected your life to this day. Thinking too much holds you captive in your own imagination. Instead of finding a solution to the problem or living an active life, you will constantly think about things you cannot change. What you need to realize is that overthinking will not help you solve your problems. The worst case is that it will affect how you perceive life. Your life will be full of negativity. The fact that you are stuck in a constant loop of thinking implies that you cannot see beyond the hurdles. So, moving on will be a challenge.
The notion of thinking too much also puts you in situations where you pay too much attention to the worst that could happen. Often, you will question Why did this happen?, What if this happens? Evidently, there is nothing good you will gain from overthinking. It only hinders you from enjoying what life has to offer.
Overthinking will affect your productivity. It can also lead to depression and anxiety. Therefore, it is imperative that you learn how to stop overthinking. If you have been stressing yourself out over past events and you havent been able to get over them, this manual will help you overcome this. Additionally, maybe you often find yourself anxious about things that you feel as though you should accomplish. Undeniably, this is not a good thing and you need to master how to live an active life and focus on things that are valuable to you personally.
This manual will take a comprehensive look into overthinking to help you understand how it prevents you from living the life that youve always dreamt of. Whats more, we will also delve into decluttering your mind and why it is important to do. Thats not all, the book will also propose ideal steps that you can take to simplify your life and live happily.
There is a lot that life has in store for you. Therefore, the last thing that you should do is to fill up your mind with thoughts that only prevent you from being happy. Most people overthink things without realizing that they are causing major harm to their lives. This can also affect your loved ones as they may worry about the life you are living. If you are a parent, worrying too much about your kids and their future doesnt help at all. You only end up stressing yourself which inhibits your productivity at home and at work. Starting today, the best thing that you can do for your family and yourself is to stop overthinking.
But, how do you stop overthinking when trying to stop it only creates more problems? This happens because you get more of what you try to resist. This book will help you realize that thinking too much can be solved by learning how to accept things as they are. Learning to let go frees your mind. It creates space to help your mind reason and find the best solutions to the problems you are facing. Well, this is just the tip of the iceberg, so read on to find your way out of overthinking.
Chapter 1 - How Your Mind Works and the Reason Why it is a Perfect Time Machine
Have you ever wondered why it is easier for the mind to focus on the negative and less on the positive? Undeniably, the way in which the mind works leaves us with many questions. Usually, it is quite easy for it to drift and focus on all the negative things that have happened in our lives. Why do you think this is the case? The mind is programmed in a way that makes it challenging for us to automatically focus on the positive. It is for this reason that most people will find it daunting to deal with depression. This can be explained by the negative bias aspect of the brain.
This chapter looks into how the brain works. It aims to help you understand why the brain is hardwired to think negatively and how you can overcome it. Moreover, well take an in-depth look as to why the mind is like a time machine that brings you to the future or the past.
Understanding Negativity Bias
As human beings, it is very easy for us to fall prey to cogitating mostly on the negative. Take for example when people watch the news. Studies show that people find it easy to remember all the bad things that were discussed in the news. When asked about the good things that were talked about, it seemed more difficult for the mind to recall. Envision a scenario where your supervisor conducts a performance evaluation on how you work. Your supervisor finds that you performed well and ends up praising you. However, the supervisor doesnt forget to remind you of something that you need to improve on. Suddenly, all the positive things that the supervisor mentioned evaporate and your mind centers on the last negative comment. Does this sound familiar?