* Modeling and visual aidssuch as videos that demonstrate rather than orally communicate lessonsare often the prerequisites to becoming able to benefit from (and enjoy) such meetings.
* Traveling in other countries is especially fun because others often attribute your differences to the less-stigmatizing idea that youre like this only because youre a foreigner.
* Heard in person at the November 2003 conference at the Seaver Autism Center at Mt. Sinai Hospital in New York.
* Aspergers Syndrome and High Achievement , by Ioan James; The Genius of Artistic Creativity , by Michael Fitzgerald; and Different Like Me , by Jennifer Elder.
* Neurotypical , or NT for short, refers to people who are not on the autism spectrum. The word is not intended (nor usually received) as a derogatory term, but the only remaining option used to indicate the greater majority is the word normal , which indicates that we are abnormal , and which further threatens already vulnerable self-esteem. Furthermore, the word normal also insults neurotypicals, who are just as unique as individuals as we are. Most of them rightfully object to the term normal as much as we would abnormal .
* Go figure: Ive been fine with ties and vegetables since I was in my twenties, possibly because I cognitively began to understand my need for them as I grew older.
*Before we tip our cap to ourselves too much regarding loyalty, however, remember too that the idea of cheating, or moving on to a new relationship, is usually more intimidating to us than it is to others. We like our routines too much to try to juggle sneaking around, which is usually a very risky, very uncertain form of behavior.
* If the individual is still bitter, then additional therapy is needed to help him realize that he is more empowered than he thinks.
* In order of occurrence, they are denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and finally, acceptance. We experience these five stages every day, whether or not a close loved one dies, or whether our scoop of ice cream has fallen onto the ground.
* The RSVP, Recreational, Social, and Vocational Program, which in 2007 finished its third successful summer.
Advance Praise for Aspergers from the Inside Out
Refreshing, concise, systematic, and to the point. It spans the history of ASD diagnosis, the identity crises involved in diagnosis. It explores positive versus negative takes on ASD and their consequences, the resonating impact of a diagnosis on other family members, but, more so, gives spiritual guidance about more or less healthy ways of managing all these things and the consequences that choices have for each individual. Beautifully alive with quotes from a broad range of voices with ASD, this is a helpful addition to the world of autism-related literature.
Donna Williams, author of
Nobody Nowhere and The Jumbled Jigsaw
Michael John Carley is an articulate and passionate advocate for people with Aspergers syndrome. His engaging book offers a thoughtful and creative roadmap for people with Aspergers and their loved ones.
Mark Roithmayr, President, Autism Speaks
Michael Carley is unique in his ability to combine and integrate his experiences with conclusions and insights that are remarkable and powerful. His unique ability to integrate, conceptualize, compare, and contrast at such a high level is what makes his work stand out.
Gary Mesibov, Ph.D., Director, Division TEACCH,
Professor of Psychology and Psychiatry at the
University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill
A wonderfully candid and encouraging book about navigating the world of Aspergers syndrome. I recommend it to everyone, on or off the spectrum, who believes in creating a more tolerant and inclusive society.
Sigourney Weaver, actress
Michael John Carley is not only a successful leader in the AS community, he has proven himself to be a gifted writer. Everyone who is involved with the Aspergers syndrome community, their family, friends, and the professionals who help them must read this book!
Susan J. Moreno, M.A., A.B.S., President,
MAAP Services for Autism and Asperger Syndrome
Its a new day for adults with Aspergers! Michael John Carley offers reflective, penetrating, and exquisitely expressed personal descriptions of the inner and outer challenges faced by people with AS. The person with AS will find a family, a community of like-minded individuals, and a guide for dealing with a world that is often ill-suited to AS thinking. The rest of us find threads of commonality that indicate, again and again, that there is more that unites than divides us all.
Veronica Zysk, author and Managing Editor,
Autism Aspergers Digest magazine
For years, Michael John Carley has supported his colleagues on the spectrum through GRASP. With this excellent book, Michael John will now be able to provide much needed support to thousands more. This highly informative book provides tremendous insight on a broad range of topics for those both on the spectrum and for those supporting individuals on the spectrum. This is something that should be read by all.
Cathy Pratt, Ph.D., Director,
Indiana Resource Center for Autism
Michael has written a wonderful book that will serve as an invaluable resource to us all. This must-read provides a perspective that is essential.
Brenda Smith Myles, Ph.D., University of Kansas
This book fills a special niche for individuals on the spectrum and others as well. It addresses many topics important to those on the spectrum and in a way that helps with the struggle of what such a diagnosis means. This book is a fantastic resource for recently diagnosed adolescents and adults, as well as for family members and professionals.
Lynda Geller, Ph.D., Clinical Director, Asperger Institute,
New York University Child Study Center
Well-written, positive, yet never preachy, this practical book realistically describes what if feels like to be an adult with AS. It is highly recommended not only to adults on the spectrum and their family members, but to anyone who works with people on the spectrum. Neurotypical or Aspie, there is much to learn in these pages.
Chantal Sicile-Kira, author of
Adolescents on the Autism Spectrum
and Autism Spectrum Disorders
Aspergers from the Inside Out
A Supportive and Practical Guide for
Anyone with Aspergers Syndrome
MICHAEL JOHN CARLEY
Executive Director, GRASP
The Global and Regional Asperger Syndrome Partnership
Foreword by Peter F. Gerhardt, Ed.D.
President, Organization for Autism Research
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