My ever-abiding thanks to all the wonderful teachers in my life, human and otherwise. I would like to thank Andrea Hurst for her dedication and wisdom in helping me to complete this book. Thanks to her associates Christina Lutman, Rachael-Joy Cowham, Jennieke Cohen, Tammy Moon, Mai Tran, John Drehobl, and Sandra Althen for their valuable assistance. My gratitude to the folks at New World Library, Marc Allen, Georgia Hughes, and the other staff who have helped make my books successful.
101
Exercises
for the
Soul
Other Books by Dr. Bernie S. Siegel
Love, Medicine & Miracles
Help Me to Heal
How to Live between Office Visits
Peace, Love & Healing
Prescriptions for Living
Smudge Bunny
365 Prescriptions for the Soul
I dedicate this book to my wife, Bobbie,
and to the many lives we have shared
and will continue to share.
Bittersweet
By Dr. Bernie S. Siegel
As we ride our bicycles over the road
She points and says, Bittersweet.
What? I cant hear you.
She points again.
I look and see the beauty of Bittersweet;
I feel the peace its beauty brings.
Bittersweet, I am struck by the taste of her words.
They do not make sense,
But they explain our life together
And point out the road to peace.
Bitter, lights left on,
Counter covered with things not put away,
Laundry not folded,
Tired, forgetful, and more.
Sweet, her love, smile, laughter,
Touch, caring, beauty.
Bittersweet, but I hardly taste the bitter
She is so sweet.
Life is Bittersweet
Thank God for you, Honey,
I hope you flavor my life forever.
101
Exercises
for the
Soul
A Divine Workout Plan
for Body, Mind, and Spirit
Dr. Bernie S. Siegel
N EW W ORLD L IBRARY
N OVATO , C ALIFORNIA
New World Library
14 Pamaron Way
Novato, California 94949
Copyright 2005 by Bernie S. Siegel
All rights reserved. This book may not be reproduced in whole or in part, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means electronic, mechanical, or other without written permission from the publisher, except by a reviewer, who may quote brief passages in a review.
Text design and typography by Tona Pearce Myers
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Siegel, Bernie S.
101 exercises for the soul : a divine workout plan for body, mind, and spirit / by Bernie Siegel. 1st ed.
p. cm.
ISBN-13: 978-1-57731-511-7 (hardcover : alk. paper)
1. Spiritual life. 2. Self-realizationReligious aspects. I. Title: One hundred and one exercises for the soul. II. Title: One hundred one exercises for the soul. III. Title.
BL624.S533145 2005
First printing, August 2005
ISBN-10: 1-57731-511-1
ISBN-13: 978-1-57731-511-7
Printed in Canada on acid-free, partially recycled paper
A proud member of the Green Press Initiative
Distributed to the trade by Publishers Group West
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CONTENTS
1. Attitude Is Everything
Dont sweat the small or the large stuff (and save on the cost of deodorant)
2. Get Physical
Develop your strengths supercharge your workouts
3. Humor Will Help You Finish
... no matter what race you enter
4. Vocal Warm-Ups
Find your voice and sing your song
5. Team Spirit
Create your team and participate in the World Series of life
6. Coming from Your Heart
Do the things you love
7. Move into the Sunshine
Nature as nurture
8. Find What Fits You Best
Be a self-care provider
9. Be Inspired
Supplement your diet with enthusiasm
10. Pain Is Necessary
Lifes unwanted gift (you are not what you lose)
11. Furry Friends
The ideal role model comes with a fur coat
12. Dreams, Drawings, and Symbols
The blank canvas can become a work of art
13. Motivation
Get up and get going
14. Be an Activist
Get involved do it now
15. Spiritual Calisthenics
Exercise from within
16. Do What You Fear
Embrace fear and watch it fall asleep in your arms
17. Emotional 911
Dealing with stress survivor behavior
18. Flex Your Creative Muscles
Create a work of art with the material at hand
19. Balancing Act
You have needs, too
20. The Obstacle Course of Life
There are no mistakes
Most of us know how important it is to exercise our bodies, but how often do we exercise our souls?
It is easy to get lost in our daily routines and lose touch with the things that are meaningful to us. We become human doings instead of what we are supposed to be human beings. If this continues, eventually our true self will begin to die. By exercising our souls, however, we enhance our ability to live and love with enthusiasm and vigor, and increase our ability to overcome any difficulties or obstacles we encounter along the way.
Every performer and athlete knows that if you want to get to Carnegie Hall or the Olympics you must practice, practice, practice. If you dont work out regularly, you will never achieve what you are capable of. This is true of the soul as well. And one thing that can help you achieve a gold medal in soul growth is to have a competent coach. Its hard to practice alone. For over thirty years Ive counseled people with life-threatening illnesses, and my patients have been my most important teachers and coaches. In this book, let me be your coach. At least, give me a try. I will do my best to encourage you to reach your goals and to help guide you in your souls journey.
I have written this book in a simple format so that you can sit down anywhere, anytime and find the means to add value to your life. Each chapter focuses on a particular area for soul growth, from improving your attitude to finding inner motivation. Chapters begin with a coaching tip, which introduces the underlying concepts and purpose of the five exercises that follow (exercise 101 is a final exam). The exercises are where your workout really begins.