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Every culture has a way of perceiving and practicing marriage. Many contemporary Western Christians mistake what their culture prescribes regarding marriage with what the Bible portrays, and thereby take as biblical what is merely cultural. Uncritical conformity to cultural imperatives of marriage then becomes a Christian virtue, and a sweet surrender. Few recognize, much less question this confusion, even when its consequences are unhealthy. In Sweet Surrender Dennis Hiebert challenges Christians to comprehend what is cultural in their view of marriage, hold as optional what is not explicitly required by the Bible, and live out their marriages within the transcendent grace of God. Gaining greater awareness can free marriages from the control of culture for something more simply but deeply Christian. Marriages benefit when they are released from cultural directives that are not biblical callings, even if they choose to retain them as cultural practices. This book is for Christians who are ready to rethink their assumptions about marriage.

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How Cultural Mandates Shape Christian Marriage

Dennis Hiebert

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SWEET SURRENDER

How Cultural Mandates Shape Christian Marriage

Copyright 2013 Dennis Hiebert. All rights reserved. Except for brief quotations in critical publications or reviews, no part of this book may be reproduced in any manner without prior written permission from the publisher. Write: Permissions, Wipf and Stock Publishers, W. th Ave., Suite , Eugene, OR 97401 .

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Hiebert, Dennis.

Sweet surrender : how cultural mandates shape Christian marriage / Dennis Hiebert.

xii + p. ; cm. Includes bibliographical references and index.

isbn : 9781 - 60608896

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To Judy

No one is so terribly deceived as the one who does not suspect it.

Sren Kierkegaard

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A white picket fence conventionally represents traditional, idyllic domestic life in Western society. Such fences are designed and constructed to add charm, to define boundaries, and to enclose inhabitants. Flawlessly aligned and unblemished, the white picket fence here remains as un-weathered as the blue sky is cloudless. Everything seems timeless, pure, and perfect. Too perfectcontrived, sterile, and suspiciously surreal.

Figures and Tables

Figure Sternbergs Triangular Theory of Love

Table The Maltz Hierarchy of Sexual Interaction

Table Balswick and Balswicks Styles of Conflict Management

Table Attributions for Success or Failure

Table Wittes Historical Stages of Marriage

Table Balswick and Balswicks Types of Marital Commitment

Acknowledgments

I remember well the author who, in his acknowledgments, observed that above all others, he needed to acknowledge himself, without whose help his graduate students could never have written the book. Most honest authors, I surmise, have a profound sense that they do not write alone, that they are merely the synthesizer and scribe whose fingers happen to be the last on the keyboard, and that theirs is simply the name and face at the end of an indeterminately long line of inputs. I cannot possibly acknowledge adequately all whose voice and wisdom are re-presented however inadequately here. I cannot even cop out and say they know who they are, because they may not. I can only, as I must, name but a few.

I have taught a course in Marriage and Family at Providence University College in Canada for over twenty years, with visiting stops in Russia, Ukraine, Kenya, and other institutions along the way. First acknowledgment must therefore go to the administrators of Providence UC, who have not only granted me the professional opportunity to research, write, and teach, but more specifically granted me my most recent sabbatical leave, during which the skeleton of the following pages first came together. The many students over the years who absorbed the brunt of my pedagogical passions and helped me refine these ideas deserve equal salutation.

Other groups, forums, and conferences, such as the Association of Christians Teaching Sociology, have heard earlier, partial iterations of these ideas, and provided useful feedback. The most informative and formative feedback came from a benevolent and faithful cadre of readers who critiqued earlier drafts of chapters as I completed them. Al Thiessen, Kurt Armstrong, Scott Monsma, Michael Gilmour, Patti Parker, John McNeill, Al Hiebert, Marilyn Neufeld, Chris Summerville, and Jeff Wheeldon all read significant portions of the drafts and offered valuable comments and suggestions, each from their own unique perspective. All have enhanced what in its limitations remains mine.

My former student and now friend Jordan Ross exercised his attention to detail in providing invaluable editorial assistance. My colleague and friend Val Hiebert (no relation) served as the primary sounding board for the content as it took form and voice, and her more practical wisdom is woven throughout. She also buttressed my will whenever it wavered, and without her encouragementno, insistencethat I write this book it may well not have happened.

My wife, Judy, has been the primary enabler of this project, being generous in time and space and support. That is probably true of the spouses of most writers, but doubly so when the topic is marriage. Judy has been my sole, personal, lived experience of marriage, not just the first reader of my thoughts on marriage. Despite initial misgivings about the project, her growing enthusiasm freed and fueled my own. This book is not our story, but it is now part of our story, and I could not be more grateful to her and for her, and for so much more.

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