What readers are saying about Elaine Aron and The Highly Sensitive Person ...
I have just finished The Highly Sensitive Person and I cant thank you enough for writing such a wonderful bookyou put into clear, understandable words what I have always known about myself. As I read your book, I felt for the first time in my life that someone truly understood what it was like to go through life as a highly sensitive individual.... Your book was the first that I have ever read that not only validated the traits of highly sensitive individuals but cast them as necessary for our society.M. C., Rockaway, NJ
First, let me express my deep gratitude to you if I can. I have just finished reading your book.... You have truly given me hope for a new life at the age of 52. I hardly know how to express the comfort and joy I have received from you.... Once again, thank you, thank you, thank you!J. M., New York, NY
I cannot thank you enough for the inner peace your book has given me!S. P., Sacramento, CA
This book has opened my eyes to the fact that I am not alone in my sensitivity and that it is OK to be this way.... Ive always felt that there was something wrong with me.... It has given me tremendous insight.... So thank you for your research and your words of encouragement. Theyve both been a blessing.M. G., Belle River, Ontario (Canada)
I am writing to express my gratitude to Elaine Aron for her book, The Highly Sensitive Person. I laughed and cried, I felt known. I felt affirmed. It is not only OK to be highly sensitive, it is a gift. Thank you.L. H., Findlay, OH
Thank you for writing such a wonderful book.R. P., Norwalk, CA
... it really helped me understand myself a lot better.E. S., Westerville, OH
I cant remember the last time I sat down and read a book from cover to cover in one day. It has really made me feel like a part of a larger group, and not quite so weird after all.... I am looking forward to reading this book again.K. J., San Francisco, CA
I loved the book!S. R., Springfield, MA
I just finished reading Elaine N. Arons excellent book.... The descriptions fit me perfectly! It was inspiring, informative, and emotional.R. D., San Francisco, CA
I find Dr. Arons book immensely valuable.L. J. W., Provo, UT
I have been trying to find out who I am and what I can do. Many of the situations described in the book I find fit my situation.... I wish I could send [it to] everyone I know and have known.C. M., Riverside, CA
I just read your book and it is extraordinary! Absolutely the best and most helpful of many Ive read.... You have done tremendous work and I am so deeply touched by much of what you say.S. S., New York, NY
This book, The Highly Sensitive Person, was a revelation to me. A. A., Tustin, CA
Your book ... has helped me so much.A. B., Lethbridge, Alberta (Canada)
The Highly Sensitive Person was a true revelation to me and to several others I recommended the book to.D. R., Irvine, CA
Elaine Arons book, The Highly Sensitive Person, is the first ever to really speak to me !M. J., Houston, TX
I have enjoyed reading your book, The Highly Sensitive Person, and find the information and insights extremely valuable.M. F., Mountain View, CA
Acknowledgments
I especially want to acknowledge all the highly sensitive people I interviewed. You were the first to come forward and talk about what you had known very privately about yourself for a long time, changing yourselves from isolated individuals to a group to be respected. My thanks also to those who have come to my courses or seen me for a consultation or in psychotherapy. Every word of this book reflects what you all have taught me.
My many student research assistantstoo many to namealso earn a big thanks, as do Barbara Kouts, my agent, and Bruce Shostak, my editor at Carol, for their effort to see that this book reached all of you. Barbara found a publisher with vision; Bruce brought the manuscript into good shape, reining me in at all the right places but otherwise letting me run with it as I saw it.
Its harder to find words for my husband, Art. But here are some: Friend, colleague, supporter, belovedthanks, with all my love.
Authors Note, 2012
In 1998, three years after this book was first published, I wrote a new preface for it titled A Celebration. It was an invitation for all of us to feel good about how many people had discovered they were highly sensitive and found the book useful, and that the idea was catching on in the scientific world. Now we can celebrate about fifty times more of the same. The Highly Sensitive Person has been translated into fourteen languages, from Swedish, Spanish, and Korean to Hebrew, French, and Hungarian. There have been articles about high sensitivity in many prominent media throughout the world. In the U.S., that has included a feature in Psychology Today, a shorter discussion in Time, and many womens and health magazines such as O Magazine as well as numerous health websites. There are HSP Gatherings and courses on the subject in the United States and Europe, plus YouTube videos, books, magazines, newsletters, and websites and all sorts of services exclusively highly sensitive personsmost good and some, well, not as good. Tens of thousands subscribe to my own newsletter, Comfort Zone, at hsperson.com, where there are now hundreds of newsletter articles archived covering every aspect of being highly sensitive. We have come a long way
Three Revisions, Right Here
Given that this book was written at the very beginning of a minor revolution, I have thought I should revise it. But when I look it over, theres not much I would change. It does the job well, with three exceptions. First, and most important, I wanted to add the expanded scientific research. Thats vital because it helps us all to trust that this trait is real, that what is in this book is real. This preface will update you on the research.