Copyright Page
2016 by Pat Smith Enterprises, LLC
Published by Bethany House Publishers
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Bloomington, Minnesota 55438
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Ebook edition created 2016
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ISBN 978-1-4412-2950-2
Unless otherwise indicated, Scripture quotations are from the Holy Bible, New International Version. NIV. Copyright 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc. Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved worldwide. www.zondervan.com
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Cover design by Peter Gloege | LOOK Design Studio
Front cover photography by Brian Braun
Author is represented by Dupree/Miller & Associates.
Endorsements
Through her darkest nights to her brightest mornings, God had a plan all along! Our sis Pat does an incredible job of allowing us into her pain so we can rejoice in her glory! We pray this book will touch the lives of many!
Sherice and Tim Brown, former NFL player, member of the Pro Football Hall of Fame, and Heisman Trophy winner
We are touched by Pat Smiths faithfulness to Gods directives in her life, and know that He will use her story to demonstrate to others His rock solid faithfulness to His children.
Janet and Tony Dorsett, former NFL player, member of the Pro Football Hall of Fame, and Heisman Trophy winner
Second Chances is a book that brilliantly and honestly tells a story about redemption. My sister Pat will take you on a beautiful journey that will lead you from a place of hopelessness to healing... and from pain to Gods promise and purpose for your life.
Joy Hill, first lady of The Potters House of Denver
Pat Smith shows a bravery in her new book that will encourage even the strongest. From a difficult and painful divorce in Los Angeles to finding love and happiness in Dallas, you will identify with a woman who has fought the odds to find her purpose and now gives to others freely.
Matrice and Ron Kirk, former United States trade representative, Texas secretary of state, and mayor of Dallas
Each time I am with Pat, I am overcome with awe and admiration. Her desire to change the lives of others is a true testimony to her profound courage and faith. When you read Second Chances , I have no doubt that you will be as impressed and inspired as I have been with her strength.
Robin McGraw, philanthropist, entrepreneur, television personality, and two-time #1 New York Times bestselling author
My friend Pat Smiths new book, Second Chances , is an honest and moving account of her journey from loss to redemption. I encourage you to read this book, let it inspire you, and then allow God to replace your ashes with beauty and your sorrow with joy.
Victoria Osteen, co-pastor of Lakewood Church
If you believe second chances only happen to other people, let Pats story, the lessons she so courageously shares, and the faith she found help you recognize that hope is here for you, too. You can choose faith over fear. This book is like a jolt of wisdom and inspiration that can help you find your strength and the courage to change your own story.
Christi Paul, CNN New Day weekend anchor and author, Love Isn t Supposed to Hurt
When you first see Pat you are struck by her outer beauty. She is stunning! But you would really be missing out if you didnt read this book to discover that she is even more beautiful on the inside. She is transparent and makes herself vulnerable by sharing her stories of setbacks and recoveries in the book, and you will see that her heart is on a beautiful mission to help other women. I know she will inspire you like she has inspired me.
Kimberly Schlegel Whitman, editor-at-large, Southern Living , author, and lifestyle expert
A captivating read that will give any woman the strength to stand up tall... again.
Kym Whitley, comedienne, film and TV actress, and star of Raising Whitley
Dedication
This book is dedicated in memory of the most beautiful woman on the inside and out Ive ever known, my mother, Mildred Page Southall, who went home to be with the Lord when I was only twenty-two. I created an award in her honor called Pages Angel.
A special dedication is given to a woman who exemplifies my mothers heart for giving and perseverance through lifes struggles and setbacks. This woman aspires to help others who have overcome setbacks, and shares her resources freely.
Faye C. Briggs is the most perfect Imperfect Princess and 2014 Pages Angel Award recipient. Faye listened to the call from God to build a home that welcomes thousands of people a year to raise dollars for others in need of a second chance. This inspires me that God gives us all second chances if we honor Him. She is a special angel to me.
Contents
Cover
Title Page
Copyright Page
Endorsements
Dedication
Foreword
Introduction
1. Unstuck
2. Getting Back Up
3. Living and Loving Again
4. Experiencing Forgiveness
5. Finding Your Purpose
6. Submitting to Gods Will
7. Pushing Through the Pain
8. Discovering Strength in Loss
9. Stepping Out in Faith
10. Practicing Powerful Prayer
11. Choosing to Never Give Up
12. Enriching Communication
14. Making the Most of Your Second Chance
Acknowledgments
About the Author
Back Cover
Foreword
We knew when we first met Pat Smith that she was going to be a special vessel for God. She was soon to be a new bride to Emmitt and was learning how to navigate the Dallas Cowboys Wives Club along with a brand-new city of opportunity. Pat was strong in her faith but new to her calling to minister Gods Word.
Her first years attending The Potters House were quiet. She flourished undetected as she sat in the pew each Sunday listening to Gods Word and applying the messages to her life. Pat came to Dallas having survived many disappointments and setbacks: the loss of her mother to breast cancer, losing the Miss USA Pageant, and a difficult failed first marriage to a high-profile entertainer. She was carrying a heavy load, lightened by her love for Emmitt, but still weighed down as she was trying to find her own voice and connect with new people.
We always knew that God would turn her pain into purpose, and we told her so. Watching her map out a vision for her nonprofit, Treasure You, has been a delight. Witnessing firsthand her service to so many others as she embraces her ministry has been an honor to us.
Her book, Second Chances , is inspired by her experiences and her desire to encourage others through some of their darkest moments. She shares stories of loss, pain, and disappointment resolved by Gods forgiveness and faithfulness. Reading some of the stories, you will feel the heartbreak of the women and want to hold them until their fears subside. When you are finished reading the book, you will be reminded that God is so real and that His mercies are new every morning.