Derek Prince - Husbands and Fathers: Rediscover the Creators Purpose for Men

HUSBANDS
& FATHERS

REDISCOVER THE CREATORS PURPOSE for MEN

Derek Prince

Foreword by Dr. Edwin Louis Cole

2000 by Derek Prince

Published by Chosen Books
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Contents

People hear what you say but learn from what you are. That is true when you read or listen to Derek Prince. He imparts his life into his work, and we are all the better for it.

Derek has written a book that is to be read not just by the father, but by the father to his whole family. God bless him for making Gods truth available to us all.

Dr. Edwin Louis Cole
Founder and President
Christian Mens Network

PART 1
Personal

1
How I Became a Father

Looking back over my childhood and early life, I am surprised to find myself writing this book. Very little in that period would seem to qualify me for such a task!

I was born into a British military family, with no brothers or sisters. Every male relative I have ever known has been an officer in the British Army. At the age of nine, suitably attired in a tweed suit and bowler hat, I was sent off to a prep school. From there I went on to Eton, and from there to Kings College, Cambridge. For fifteen years I attended various boarding schools, never spending more than three months of any year at home. After five years at Cambridge I wrote a thesis, The Evolution of Platos Method of Definition, and was elected to a Fellowship at Kings College.

During all the years of my education, I never had a female teacher. At Cambridge I had a few girlfriends, but the inner workings of the female personality remained a mystery to mea mystery I was not particularly interested in trying to solve!

What promised to be an uneventful career in the rarefied atmosphere of a major university was rudely interrupted by World War II. When my call up to the forces came, I chose a noncombatant role in the British Royal Army Medical Corps. In the Army I decided to continue my academic career by studying the Bible, which I approached purely as a work of philosophy. I found it hard to understand in many places, but determined to read it all the way through from Genesis to Revelation. Then I would be in a position to pronounce an authoritative judgment on it.

After about nine months, somewhere in the book of Job, I had an unexpected encounter with the Bibles author, who revealed Himself to me through the Person of Jesus Christ. That encounter changed the course of my life radically and permanently. After all, I recalled that Plato himself had acknowledged, We have no word from God, whereas the Bible plainly claimed that it was just thatthe Word of God. The more I studied it and applied it in my daily life, the more convinced I became that its claim was true. It really was Gods revelation of Himself to man.

Shortly afterward the Army sent me to the Middle East. After three years in the deserts of Egypt, Libya and the Sudan, I was posted to Jerusalem. There I met and married a Danish schoolteacher, Lydia Christensen. Lydia had been enjoying a successful career as a teacher in the state school system of Denmark when God directed her to leave everything behind and go to Jerusalem. There she opened a faith home for children without parents.

When Lydia and I were married, she brought with her eight girls without parents to whom she had become an adoptive mother, and for whom, from that time onward, I accepted the responsibility of fatherhood. Of these girls, six were Jewish, one was Arab and one was English. They ranged in age from eighteen to three.

From my background as a boy without brothers or sisters, I suddenly found myself the only male responsible for ten femalesLydia, her eight girls and one Arab maid, Jameela. In our new relationship we all had many adjustments to make. There were times when I felt that the responsibility I had taken on was too great. Undoubtedly Lydia, too, must have wondered sometimes whether she had made the right decision in marrying me. But somehow the love and grace of God always carried us through.

In addition to these adjustments in our relationships, Lydia and I faced many external pressures. In the first two years of our marriage, we were caught up in the fighting that brought the State of Israel into being. Twice during that time, in order to save our lives, we had to flee from our home in the middle of the night. We were never able to return to either home.

At one point the four older girls were separated from us, but God kept His hand on us and brought us all together again in England as a united family.

Later, after all but the two youngest girls had grown up, Lydia and I spent five years in Kenya, where I served as principal of a training college for African teachers. During this period we adopted a ninth child, an African baby girl. Her mother had died giving birth and the baby had been found abandoned on the mud floor of an African hut.

Three years after Lydia was called home to the Lord, I married my second wife, Ruth. We were married for twenty years, until Ruth in her turn was called home. Ruth added to our union three more adopted children, all of whom are Jewish. So now I stand in the relationship of father to exactly a dozen persons!

Ruths warm, outgoing personality quickly endeared her to the other members of my family. She also contributed special administrative and editorial skills, which wonderfully complemented my own ministry as a Bible teacher. In the twenty years we were married, my ministry expanded in ways I would never have dreamed of. Through the combined channels of printed books, audiotapes, videotapes, radio and television broadcasting, my Bible teaching has reached into all the continents, even including Antarctica. My office staff tell me that we are now sending our material to every nation to which the U.S. Postal Service delivers, and that portions of my material have been translated into sixty foreign languages.

Our family continues to grow at a rate that is difficult to keep up with. Including additions by marriages and births, the combined family presently numbers about 150 persons! We now have family members residing in many different countries: Israel, Britain, Canada, the United States and Australia. With so large a family so widely scattered, it is not possible for us all to keep in as close contact with each other as we would wish. Nevertheless we still do have the feeling that