Praise forRelaxYou May Only
Have a Few Minutes left
If she who laughslasts,LorettaLaRochejust addedtenyears to my life. Join the millions of people who have laughedwith Loretta, effortlessly soaking up her wisdom and her wit.
Joan Borysenko, Ph.D., the author of Inner Peace for Busy Women
A wonderful gifta joy to read and to experience.
Herbert Benson, M.D., the author of The Relaxation Response and Timeless Healing
Learning to laugh is serious business and Loretta LaRochesbook is an excellent resource for unenlightened stressed-outpeople who havent yet learned the power of lightening up.
Bernie S. Siegel, M.D., the author of Love, Medicine and Miracles
This book is classic Lorettaa combination of verypractical stress-reduction strategies peppered with laughter-inducingobservations. Although I have been teaching stressreduction for twelve years, I learned a lot as I giggled.
Alice D. Domar, Ph.D., director, Mind/Body Center for Womens Health and the author of Healing Mind, Healthy Woman
The first time I ever heard Loretta give a presentation,I thought I would wet my pants from laughing so hard.
I immediately signed on as a major fan of this irreverenthilarious woman. And her best stuff is right in this book, soyou have here a kind of portable Loretta whenever you need adose of humor to boost your immune system or soften any of yourhardened attitudes. As a physician, I know how powerful humorand a new perspective can be. So next time you have a headache ora symptom, read this book... and call me in the morning.
Christiane Northrup, M.D., the author of Womens Bodies, Womens Wisdom
Relax
You May Only
Have a Few
Minutes left
O THER H AY H OUSE T ITLES BY L ORETTA L A R OCHE
The Best of Loretta LaRoche (4-CD set)
How to Be a Wild, Wise, and Witty Woman:
Making the Most Out of Life Before You Run Out of It (4-CD set)
Kick Up Your Heels...
Before Youre Too Short to Wear Them:
How to Live a Long, Healthy, Juicy Life (book)
Life Is ShortWear Your Party Pants:
Ten Simple Truths That Lead to an Amazing Life (available as a book, 2-CD set, and a DVD)
Squeeze the Day:365 Ways to Bring JOYand JUICE into Your Life (book)
The Wise and Witty Stress Solution Kit
All of the above are available at your local bookstore, or may be ordered by visiting:
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Relax
You May Only
Have a Few
Minutes left
Using the Power of Humor
to Overcome Stress
in Your Life and Work
LORETTA LAROCHE
HAY HOUSE, INC.
Carlsbad, California New York City
London Sydney Johannesburg
Vancouver Hong Kong New Delhi
Copyright 2008 by Loretta LaRoche
Published and distributed in the United States by: Hay House, Inc.: www.hayhouse.com Published and distributed in Australia by: Hay House Australia Pty. Ltd.: www.hayhouse.com.au Published and distributed in theUnited Kingdom by: Hay House UK, Ltd.: www.hayhouse.co.uk Published anddistributed in the Republic of South Africa by: Hay House SA (Pty), Ltd.: www. hayhouse.co.za Distributed in Canada by: Raincoast: www.raincoast.com Published in India by: Hay House Publishers India: www.hayhouse.co.in
Editorial supervision: Jill Kramer
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced by any mechanical, photographic, or electronic process, or in the form of a phonographic recording; nor may it be stored in a retrieval system, transmitted, or otherwise be copied for public or private useother than for fair use as brief quotations embodied in articles and reviewswithout prior written permission of the publisher.
The author of this book does not dispense medical advice or prescribe the use of any technique as a form of treatment for physical, emotional, or medical problems without the advice of a physician, either directly or indirectly. The intent of the author is only to offer information of a general nature to help you in your quest for emotional and spiritual well-being. In the event you use any of the information in this book for yourself, which is your constitutional right, the author and the publisher assume no responsibility for your actions.
First published in 1998 by Villard Books, a division of Random House, Inc.:
ISBN: 0-375-50145-2.
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
LaRoche, Loretta.
Relax-- you may only have a few minutes left : using the power of humor to overcome stress in your life and work / Loretta LaRoche. -- Rev. ed.
p. cm.
ISBN-13: 978-1-4019-1769-2 (pbk.)
1. Stress (Psychology) 2. Stress management. 3. Wit and humor--Therapeutic use. 4. Laughter--Therapeutic use. I. Title.
BF575.S75L276 2007
155.9042--dc22
2006029966
ISBN:978-1-4019-1769-2
11 10 09 08 4 3 2 1
1st edition, February 2008
Printed in the United States of America
To my mom for her love, laughter,
lasagna, and heavy nagging... it all worked!
To my children, Jon, Laurie, and Erik, and
their spouses for keeping me humble,
and to my 11 grandchildren
for helping me stay silly.
I love you all lots!
C ONTENTS
Three One-Dollar Bills
R ecently my husband, Bob, and I were in Florida for a long overdue vacation. Bob is a wonderful guy, but like most people, including myself, he creates a lot of the stress in his life, mostly by failing to appreciate the humor in everyday situations.
In many ways, Bob and I are very different. Hes a tall, ruddy-faced WASP with a shock of white hair; Im a small, pale-skinned Italian with auburn (at the moment) hair. But our differences extend past the physical and the cultural. Bob is organized and methodical. He does everything in a routine, from eating certain foods (turkeys a favorite for lunch), to the time he goes to bed (past nine oclock, its lights out). On the other hand, I love spontaneity, favor a reasonable amount of disorder, and constantly question the logic behind everything.