References cited as KJV are from the Authorized (King James) Version.
References cited as NASB are from New American Standard Bible Update, The Lockman Foundation, 1960, 1962, 1963, 1968, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1975, 1977, 1995.
Third Edition, Tyndale House Publishers, 2007.
IN HIS GREAT CHAPTER 13 in 1 Corinthians, the apostle Paul concludes, And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love (verse 13). These are the elements of life without which it is impossible to live. Faith is that aspect built on a relationship between the truth we know and the truth we have yet to learn, as we enlarge our knowledge into the unknown. Hope casts a long shadow, even in times when it seems to have disappeared. But then comes the greatestlove. It is the supreme value and the supreme expression in a world where so often hate seems to have won the day.
As humans we long for love that brings hope and restores broken relationships. Indeed, Gods vision for humanity is that we might see his claim on us as an invitation to live and love. God offered up his own Son to pain and death because of his marvelous, unfathomable love for the world. This is the amazing story of the gospel.
It is obvious that the greatest of loves comes at the greatest cost. Such love will never come cheaply. Sometimes it takes everything you have to honor love, and it takes everything you have to honor trust. What I heard from a doctor from another faith whom I met in Pakistan and who had come to know Christ comes to my mind often. He told me about the two sentences spoken from a preacher that changed his life: In surrendering, you win. In dying, you live.
We are meant to be the hands and the arms of God. The church is called not only to bring people to God but also to take God to those who are wounded by the experiences of trying to live in this world, to touch those who are broken, to bring healing to those with damaged emotions. Meeting people where they are hurting is a vital aspect of our call to reflect God to the society in which we live.
I have known Ajith Fernando for more than three decades, and he has a unique capacity to meet people where they are hurting, whether speaking to an audience of one or one thousand. Together we have followed our separate callings to preach the gospelthe good news that God has provided a way for our redemption and our forgiveness to bring us back into relationship with him. The gospel is beautiful. It is true. It brings hope. It has transforming power.
Ajith Fernando is one of the finest biblical expositors of our time and a keenly insightful cross-cultural communicator. But he is more. He is also a friend to youth, the poor, and the downtrodden, and God has used Ajiths preaching, perceptiveness, and pathos to transform countless lives.
Reclaiming Love reflects a lifetime of wisdom from a seasoned counselor, leader, and Bible scholar. It is a masterful study of a familiar yet difficult-to-apply chapter on love. We long for a corrective within. We long for beautiful relationships. As Ajith illustrates, those two realities are made possible only through Jesus Christ, who enables us to persevere, to forgive, to surrender, and to hope. That is love and that is the gospel. I have learned much from Ajith over the years, and I know that you will be enriched as you study this book and consider the great truths of 1 Corinthians 13. I wholeheartedly recommend Reclaiming Love.
DURING THREE AND A HALF DECADES of ministry in Youth for Christ and in the church to which we belong, God seems to have chosen to send our way many people who are bruised and battered from the dysfunctional environments in which they grew up. Helping nurture them to follow the Christian ethic of love has been a great challenge, and I have seen much failure along the way. But I have also seen some who have been transformed to become Christlike people. Moreover, we have had to live with the ravages of the civil war that engulfed our country for thirty years. So I have been grappling with the question of how we can apply the biblical teachings about love in such situations for many years.
Working with extreme situations has, I believe, yielded insights that will help all Christians even those who havent gone through the extremely painful experiences of the people I have encountered. This is what made me decide to share the results of my grappling with a wider audience.
The one fundamental of the Christian faith with which I have struggled most is that it is possible to practice what the Word of God teaches about love and holiness. Applying this truth in my personal life and in the lives of those among whom I have ministered has been, to put it mildly, a challenge. Whenever I preach on 1 Corinthians 13, Ive had to preach first to myself.
Many of those to whom we have ministered, coming from tough backgrounds, have ended up on the staff of Youth for Christ. Trying to disciple and pastor them has been my major ministry challenge during the past few years. We have been happy to see a somewhat better rate of success with our staff.
I started teaching on 1 Corinthians 13 about thirty years ago. I first began to teach it to our staff and volunteers and then to a wider spectrum of audiences both in Sri Lanka and abroad. I realized that I must put the material I was teaching into writing. I am grateful for a month I spent at Hollywood Presbyterian Church in 2001, where I was able to hide and write another book while preaching on 1 Corinthians 13. This gave me the opportunity to start preparing a series on love afresh.
I am happy to be working with Zondervan again and benefitting from their professional expertise.
I want to express my gratitude for some of the greatest human beings through whom Gods love was modeled and mediated to my life. I thank God for the family in which I grew up. Whenever I think of my parents and siblings, it has always been with joyous gratitude. I also thank God for my pastor during my teenage years, Irish missionary the late Rev. George Good, whose life exemplified the beauty of Christian love. He preached a wonderful series on 1 Corinthians 13 at a pastors conference during the early years of my ministry that alerted me to the potency of this passage.