Ron Fry - Improve Your Memory

SIXTH EDITION

Ron Fry

If it werent for the fact that reading is the absolute underpinning of every other study skill, I could make a pretty strong case that spending time improving your memory would deliver the most study bang for the buck. It doesnt matter how rapidly you whiz through your textbooks if you cant even remember the subject you just studied five minutes later. Getting organized is essential, but not too effective if you always forget to carry your calendar and regularly turn in homework assignments late. And, of course, spending hours searching high and low for keys, glasses, and other essentials isnt exactly the most efficient way to start your study day.

As important as they are, basic memory techniques are the study ingredients least likely to be taught in schools, even in a study skills course. So while the better schools and teachers might help you with reading, writing, organizing, and test strategies, far too many of them will forget to help you with your memoryor to find your glasses, keys, etc.

This small book will give you so many easy ways to remember more, youll wonder why you didnt become a memorist years ago.

I am proud that I have been helping students of all ages improve their study skills ever since the day I walked into a bookstore and realized there was no single book then available that simply taught someone how to study! This year marks another major milestone in the more than 20-year-long evolution of my How to Study Programthe reissuance of new editions of all the volumes in the series: How to Study, Improve Your Memory, Improve Your Reading, Improve Your Writing, Ace Any Test, and Get Organized.

My readers are far more varied than I ever expected. A number of you are students, not just the high school students I always thought were my readers, but also college students, who are making up for study skills you missed in high school, and junior high school students, who are trying to master these study skills early in your school career to maximize your opportunities for success.

Some readers are adults returning to school who have figured out that if you can learn now what your teachers never taught you the first time around, you will do better in your careers. Wouldnt it be great to recall without notes the key points you want to make in your presentation, or remember the names of all the potential new clients you just met at a cocktail party?

All too many of you are parents with the same lament: How do I get Jill to do better in school? She cant remember my birthday, let alone when her next trigonometry test is.

If you are still in high school, you will have no problem with the language and format of this bookits relatively short sentences and paragraphs, humorous (hopefully) headings and subheadings, and reasonable but certainly not outrageous vocabulary. I wrote it with you in mind!

If you are still in middle school, you are trying to learn how to study at precisely the right time. Sixth, seventh, and eighth gradesbefore that sometimes-cosmic leap to high schoolare without a doubt when all these study skills should be mastered. If youre serious enough about studying to be reading this book, I doubt youll have trouble with the concepts or the language.

A traditional college student (aged 18 to 25 or so) will have trouble making it to graduation without having learned all of the study techniques I cover, especially basic memory techniques. If you never found the time to learn them (and even if you know some tips but not every trick and gimmick covered in this book), I guarantee that truly mastering these memory techniques will help you long after you graduate (with As, of course!).

Parents reading this book are probably worried about their kids grades, and they do have something to worry abouttheir childs school probably spends little, if any, time teaching basic study skills, which means those kids are not learning how to learn. And that means they are not learning how to succeed.

Dont for a minute underestimate the importance of your commitment to your childs success: Your involvement in your childs education is absolutely essential to his or her eventual success.

And you can help tremendously, even if you were not a great student yourself, even if you never learned great study skills. You can learn now with your childnot only will it help him or her in school, it will help you on the job, whatever your field.

The books in the How to Study Program, are meant to address all of these readers and their common problemlearning how to study so they can do better in school, or helping their kids to do so.

There are probably even more dedicated parents out there than dedicated students, since the first phone call at any of my radio or TV appearances comes from a sincere and worried parent asking, What can I do to help my child do better in school? Okay, here they are, the rules for parents of students of any age:

1. Set up a homework area. Free of distraction, well lit, with all necessary supplies handy.

2. Set up a homework routine. When and where it gets done. Studies have clearly shown that students who establish a regular routine are better organized and, as a result, more successful.

3. Set homework priorities. Actually, just make the point that homework is the prioritybefore a date, before TV, before going out to play, whatever.

4. Make reading a habitfor them, certainly, but also for you. Kids will inevitably do what you do, not what you say (even if you say not to do what you do).

5. Turn off the TV. Or at the very least, severely limit when and how much TV watching is appropriate. This may be the toughest suggestion to enforce. I know. I was once the parent of a teenager.

6. Talk to the teachers. Find out what your kids are supposed to be learning. If you dont know the books theyre supposed to be reading, whats expected of them in class, and how much homework they should be scheduling, you cant really give them the help they need.

7. Encourage and motivate, but dont nag them to do their homework. It doesnt work. The more you insist, the quicker they will tune you out.

8. Supervise their work, but dont fall into the trap of doing their homework. Checking (i.e., proofreading) a paper, for example, is a positive way to help your child in school. But if you simply put in corrections without your child learning from her mistakes, youre not helping her at allexcept in the belief that she is not responsible for her own work.

9. Praise them when they succeed, but dont overpraise them for mediocre work. Kids know when youre being insincere and, again, will quickly tune you out.

10. Convince them of reality. (This is for older students.) Okay, Ill admit its almost as much of a stretch as turning off the TV, but learning and believing that the real world will not care about their grades, but will measure them by what they know and what they can do, is a lesson that will save many tears (probably yours). Its probably never too early to (carefully) let your boy or girl genius get the message that life is not fair.

11. If you can afford it, get your kid(s) a computer and all the software they can handle. There really is no avoiding it: Your kids, whatever their ages, absolutely must be computer-savvy in order to survive in and after school.