Harvey Segler - How To Be Happy: Alone: The Ultimate Guide On How To Become a Happy and Confident Single, Starting Today

I want to thank you and congratulate you for downloading the book, How to be Happy Alone .

This book contains proven steps and strategies on how to find happiness even though youre single. It is a common misconception in the world we live in that we need to have a significant other in order to be happy.

Society tells us that we need to have that person to go to in the good times and the bad times, have that person to snuggle up with at night, and have that person to help with the bills and to be that person who is always blowing up your phone with cute little messages.

Or, if you are not having a significant other for the sake of your own satisfaction, society tells us to have one in order to prove to everyone that we can get one. There is almost an unspoken mark of failure placed on singles, as though there is something wrong with them for not having a boyfriend or girlfriend.

Then, of course, comes the dreaded Valentines Day. The stupid holiday that society has dreamt up that basically forces us to have significant others, otherwise risk enduring twenty-four hours of pity and single shaming by those who do have boyfriends or girlfriends.

This holiday has affected us so much that we have actually created apps to message us throughout the day and play the part of a significant other, just to look to the rest of the world as though we have one, or to make ourselves feel better about the fact that we do not.

That, my friend, is not how we were designed to be. Dont get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with having that other person, and there is nothing at all wrong with the cute messages, and the fun times you have together, or anything like that.

What I want to make clear is that while those things are all fun and good, they are not necessary for you to be happy. You do not need to have another person to be the happiest person on the planet, and there is no significant other that you can have that will make anyone think any more of you than they do right now.

You are all the validation that you need to be happy with yourself, and you are enough all on your own to show the rest of the world what you are made of. Just because you feel that you look better when you have someone hanging off your arm, you really dont.

But I cant be alone, you say, or, I dont want to die alone. A feeling that drives a lot of people to have relationship after relationship, even when they are not happy in them, or they dont like the person they are partnering with.

There is a truth, however, that may change how you feel about those statements, and that is the fact no one can make you feel any more or less alone than you are right now. At the end of the day, when you sleep, you are asleep alone, even if you are snuggled against someone.

While we are designed to want and like companionship, there are many ways we can get that without being in a relationship. It is a complete myth that you need someone else to be happy, true happiness comes from within.

In this book we are going to look at how you can become happy all on your own, whether you are currently in a relationship or not. You will see that it doesnt matter who you are, what you do for a living, or how much money you make, you will learn what it is like to be truly happy, and yet be entirely single.

Now, if you are currently in a relationship, I am not going to tell you to break up with your significant other, and if you are single, I am not going to tell you that you need to be opposed to a relationship.

What I am going to tell you is that you cannot possibly be happy in a relationship unless you are already happy on your own, and by going through this book you are going to learn how to be happy with you, just as you are, right now.

You will learn a new and amazing way of life. One that will enhance the relationship you are in if you have one, or a fact that will make you receptive to a relationship, but not make that be your goal.

You will find that you can be happier than you ever thought possible, and that it all comes from within. You wont have to spend a dime, or make any drastic change to your life, you are just going to learn simple little tips and tricks that will show you how to be happy, right here, and right now.

The only one who can make you happy, is you, and the only one who is standing in the way of that happiness is you. There is nothing on this planet that can touch that, and you are about to discover how to be happy alone.

What are you waiting for? There is a life out there that is waiting for you to live it. Dont waste another second waiting for that Mr. or Mrs. Right to come along, you are your own Right, and you have a life to live.

Thanks again for downloading this book, I hope you enjoy it!

Table of contents

Chapter 1 : Love Yourself

Chapter 2 : Healthy Lifestyle

Chapter 3 : Find Your Passion

Chapter 4 : Get Out of Your Comfort Zone

Chapter 5 : Make Use of Your Alone Time

Chapter 6 : Appreciate Your Life

Chapter 7 : Being Pro in a Life of Cons

Chapter 8 : The Ex Factor

Chapter 9 : Approaching Relationships While Happy

Conclusion + Bonus

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