Joe Ducard - FEARLESS APPROACH: APPROACH WOMEN AND LIFE WITH UNSTOPPABLE CONFIDENCE (how to get a girl)

FEARLESS APPROACH

Approach Women And Life With Unstoppable Confidence

Copyright 2018 by Joe Ducard

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WARNING

The information in this book goes against popular belief as well as common dating and sexual philosophy. Some concepts may be extremely taboo and make readers' blood boil. Especially Women. If you are easily offended and looking for something that is politically correct then I encourage you to read no further. If you want no holds barred truth that may piss some people off but actually works in the real world, then you are in the right place.

How many more times can you see that beautiful girl only a few feet away from you and not say a word to her. Shes absolutely gorgeous and you know without a doubt that you would love to have her in your life. Feel her body pressed against yours. Tell your friends about her. Walk into a party with her on your arm. Shes right there, and all you have to do is introduce yourself.

But something goes terribly wrong

You completely freeze up. Paralyzed. Just the thought of talking to her makes your heart start to pound out of your chest. Your throat squeezes like a vice. You get a sick feeling in your stomach. Then a burning sensation rising up from your gut and you start sweating bullets.

Right away you get in your head and start making excuses about why you cant approach her.

She probably has a boyfriend

What do I say?

If I get rejected Ill look like a total loser, everyone will see it

I dont have it in me to approach her. Maybe another time

Shes too hot

Shes not hot enough

When I get in better shape or Im more successful. She probably doesnt want a Guy like me

What would it mean about my worth if she rejects me?

What about the consequences of my actions in the future

I would lose face and damage my reputation

I might say something stupid and embarrass myself in front of everybody

Im not warmed up

Im too awkward

Ill run out of things to say once we start talking

I dont want to interrupt her shes talking to her friends. I cant just go in uninvited

Whats the point of putting myself out there again if Im going to get another rejection.

Wont people think its weird if they see me hitting on girls?

Any of these sound familiar? The list of excuses goes on and on. And before you know it you wind up talking yourself out of doing what you truly want deep down inside. Because youre intimidated and afraid to put yourself out there. The idea of approaching her is now completely out of the question.

Fear has won the battle.

This fear pisses me off. This type of fear ruined most of my life growing up. I was so concerned with what other people thought and I had such low self esteem and confidence, that I literally watched life from the sidelines. Plenty of Guys were having great experiences with Girls, but I was so petrified of them rejecting me that I didnt even try.

Out of nowhere, I had a massive mental shift. I realized that if I built the habit of giving in to this fear, I would never live the life I truly wanted. I had to build a new habit of facing this fear head on at every opportunity I had. Or else my dreams would die.

This book is me waging war on the fear that almost stole my dreams

A friend of mine used to say about approaching Girls that there are a million reasons not to do it, and only one reason to do it. And the one reason is the only one that really matters. Life is truly meant to be lived, and the way to live is to go for what you truly desire.

Enough is enough, the time is now. Lets go after what you really, really want. Make the same promise to yourself that I did and never let fear stop you from working towards your dreams. In fact we want to do the opposite and embrace anything that scares us.

Nowadays approaching Girls is second nature to me. My fear of approaching is virtually nonexistent, and at worst, highly manageable and very temporary. I dont have to think twice about getting rejected or what to say. It has become a habit to me that is as easy as walking. It should be by now because I have been exercising that habit for a decade, tens of thousands of times. I want to get you up to speed with all that I have learned from that experience, as well as teaching thousands of other Men to do the same.

I decided to write this book to destroy every mental hang-up, fear, and myth you have that is holding you back from meeting girls in the real world and living the life you truly want. I can give any guy an opening line and tell him to introduce himself to girls, but he still wont do it. The reason is because of his mental hang ups. We are going to destroy those hang ups so that you can have full confidence to build the same habit that I did. I want to get you as comfortable with the idea of meeting Women as it is for me. If you follow my advice it will become easy for you too.

Im not one for talking in circles with no point made, being politically correct, adding in fluff to fill space, or trying to sound cool. This information will be dense. It will be to the point. I may repeat very important points in different ways because I find that its not always what you say, its how you say it that will just click with someone.

How many times have you repeated negative and limiting beliefs in your mind? Now is the time to repeat some new and empowering ideas. Im going to dive deep right away into exactly what is holding you back from putting yourself out there to meet the quality of Women that you truly want and deserve.

Feel free to read straight through, but I suggest you either take notes or highlight the parts that really resonate with you. It may take only one sentence of an idea to really make a big shift for you . You now hold in your possession knowledge that can absolutely change the course of your life. It changed mine and many others. I encourage you to take it to heart and take action. Lets get started.

This may be one of your first questions to yourself. I know Ive asked it myself many times in the past. As a man it is your duty to initiate the conversation with a girl. Besides a very rare occasion, Women just arent going to do it. I didnt write the original rulebook. It is a masculine and therefore attractive trait to boldly go for what you desire in life. If anyone tells you otherwise they are most likely jealous and trying to justify not taking action themselves, but more on that later. I strongly encourage you to chase your dreams and go after anything and everything you want in your life not just Women. In fact I would argue that is the real definition of living. I told you we were going to get deep really quick.

The saddest thing at a funeral is not the death of the body, but the death of the dreams

But you are a great Guy! Girls should be coming to you! You should just be yourself and let the chips fall where they may . As great of a person as you can transform yourself into, and as great of a person that you already are, it doesnt matter. Life is not fair. If you follow the norm and just be yourself we know how that scenario plays out. If you sit around and wait for a girl to magically appear in your life you will most likely be waiting forever. I tried waiting for one most of my life.

I knew I was a great Guy with a lot to offer. My friends and family told me that often. Despite their high opinion of me and my hope and waiting, my Girl never showed up! Is it fair? No. But where there is adversity there is big opportunity for you . Once I accepted my role and privilege as a man to go out into the world and go after what I wanted I have never looked back. Take it as an honor.