Lamont Lloyd - Be Fearless With Women: Unleash Your Animal Magnetism

By Lamont Lloyd

AKA

Lloyd Valentine

Dedicated to the Greatest Woman God Has Blessed Me to Know:

My mom, Debra Jones.

REST IN HEAVEN.

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Copyright 2016 by Lamont Lloyd

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WARNING / DISCLAIMER

This information in this book is presented with good intentions. You must though, consult your physician prior to starting any exercise or nutritional program, especially if you have any medical condition or injury that contraindicates physical activity. All forms of exercise pose some inherent risks. You must take full responsibility for your safety and know your limits. Also, if you are taking any medication, you must talk to your physician prior to using this book before taking any of the supplements I mention throughout this book. If you experience any acute or chronic pain, consult a physician. This publication is intended for informational use only and I will not assume any liability or be held responsible for any form of injury or illness resulting from the use of this information.

I remember being really goofy as a child, and somewhat of the class clown, but once I reached high school, I became horribly shy due to the insecurities I felt from being a dark-skinned, black male. I also was very skinny and had pretty bad acne issues, and it wasn't until 1999, when I was in college, that I decided that I would do whatever I could to get over these insecurities, and low self-esteem issues. I read and purchased quite a few books on self-improvement such as, "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie, and "Unlimited Power" by Tony Robbins, in the beginning.

It wasn't until my cousin Byron decided that I wasn't going to be an anti-social, hermit (my words, not his), and we started hanging out. It wasn't until I was 19 that I had gone to my first house party, or any party for that matter. I was pretty sheltered, to say the least, but the foundation my mother laid out for me, is the reason why I didn't get into too much trouble. Like Eddie Griffin would say, "A good butt whooping is a great way to keep you out of the penitentiary", and my mom, being a Good, Christian woman definitely believed in, "Spare the rod. Spoil the child".

When my cousin and I were out, I would constantly see him charming women left and right. Whether they were old or young, he always seemed to know how to put a smile on their faces. I would always see him talk to people he never met before for hours, and they would be talking as if they had known each other their whole lives. I'd ask him, "How long have you known her?", and he would always reply, "I just met her". I would just stand there wide-eyed and dumbfounded, in total disbelief. It seemed like magic!

Later, he introduced me to some of his good friends, who also seemed to be good with women. The ones who were especially good with women were DeAndre, and Flynn. I even had cousins who were also naturally good with women, but didn't realize before. My cousin Tommy, Brian and Leonard, who were younger than me, but I learned a lot from them. It was the same with my friend Donavon, who seemed to ooze with charisma, the same as my cousin Byron. If you have studied a few things on picking up women, you'll always hear these guys tell you to never compliment a woman, or you have to knock her off her pedestal, but Byron and Donavon could walk up and tell a woman that she was beautiful, and they would just be putty in their hands. Even the rudest women would let down their shield and turn into blushing, giggling little girls. I was like a kid, thinking to myself, "Ooo, I want that power'!"

Quite of few guys in Donovan's family were good with women, but the one that I really admired was his cousin AJ. He was by far, the boldest person I had ever seen when it came to approaching women, even to this day. I mean, I witnessed all these guys do things that were outside of my reality of what was possible when it came to women. Who would have thought that sticking your tongue out at women, tapping them on the shoulder then looking away, or teasing them like kids in a school yard would even work, on younger and older women, alike? Or even telling them EXACTLY what you wanted to do with/to them, and not getting slapped in the face (don't try this at home, kids)?

Anyway, it was in 2000 that I decided I needed to REALLY figure this stuff out. I stumbled across a book titled "How to Get the Women You Desire in Bed", by a guy named, Ross Jeffries. As I read the book, I kept thinking to myself, "Wow this guy is really corny!", but I was desperate/ open-minded to give anything a try at this point. However, I really did enjoy the visualization exercises for increasing your confidence, and I can recall walking around with a rubber band on my wrist, and snapping it, just to get that quick confidence I needed whenever I seen a girl I was attracted to, as instructed in the book. It worked wonders, and after that I dove headfirst into the game.

I scoured the internet for dang near everything I could find on self-improvement, dating and relationships. I spent thousands of dollars on books, cassettes, CD's, DVD's, you name it. I would spend countless hours on forums were other clueless guys would ask questions, and have discussions about women, in hopes of getting the answers to our problems. I started dating a bit, but nothing too major. I mean, I wasn't experiencing the type of success that I knew was possible, based on the fact that I have witnessed it firsthand. I approached quite a few women as well, but I thought it was all about getting a bunch of phone numbers. I was collecting numbers like baseball cards, and I had a long list of at least 75 numbers wrote down on paper, but I didn't even date half of the women on that list, and quite a few were fake numbers, or it just didn't work out for reasons that was unbeknownst to me. The thing that really was getting me was the fact that I had experienced quite a bit of success from 2000-2002, but it really bothered me because I had no clue as to what the heck I was doing right, and how to duplicate my success on a consistent basis.

In 2004, I had that big "Ah-ha!" moment! Forget a light bulb, it hit me like a lightning bolt, and I was no longer that insecure, clueless, computer nerd I was before. I became a BEAST! From 2004 to 2012, I approached 2,400+ women, went on hundreds of dates, and after that I stopped keeping track. I was having tons of success; keeping a rotation of 3-5 women at any given time of my life. I was approaching women left and right, and having the time of my life, then out of nowhere, I was slipping back into my shell, and I began to isolate myself from everyone. I broke a lot of women hearts, and I made all types of excuses to dump them, but in reality, I was starting to have those all familiar feelings as if I didn't deserve to be dating women of this high quality, and that eventually they would get bored with me. So I thought, "instead of them dumping me, I would dump them first." Later I realized that I was self-sabotaging all of my relationships because of my own ridiculous insecurities that were starting to resurface from the past.