Charlotte Kane - Sex Machine: A Mans Guide to What Really Pleases a Woman in Bed

SEX MACHINE

A Mans Guide to What Really Pleases a Woman in Bed

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Sexually Shy: The Inhibited Womans Guide to Good Sex

SEX MACHINE

A Mans Guide to What Really Pleases a Woman in Bed

CHARLOTTE KANE

NEW TRADITION BOOKS

Sex Machine: A Mans Guide to What Really Pleases a Woman in Bed: Copyright 2019 by Charlotte Kane.

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eBook ISBN13: 978-1-932420-62-3

eBook ISBN-10: 1-932420-62-2

This edition published by New Tradition Books in 2018.

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Paperback ISBN-13: 978-1-932420-61-6

Paperback ISBN-10: 1-932420-61-4

First published in the United Kingdom and the United States in 2007 by New Tradition Books.

Disclaimer: This book is not intended to replace medical advice or be a substitute for a psychologist. The author and publisher expressly disclaim responsibility for any adverse affects of this book. Neither author nor publisher is liable for information contained herein. It is up to the reader to take precautions against sexually transmitted diseases. Always practice safe sex.

For those who are up to the challenge.

CONTENTS

So You Want to Be a Great Lover?

So youve finally found your dream girl and you want to rock her world. Or maybe youve been married to her for years but want to learn how to bring a little spice back into the bedroom. Maybe you just want to know more about how to please a woman once you find one to please.

Youve come to the right place.

The truth is that pleasing a woman doesnt really take that much effort. Yes, you read that right. Its really not that hard. The trouble is that most people try to do too much. Its almost like theyre trying to love her into submission. You have to know what not to do as well as what to do. But this is not to say that you can get away with not doing anything. It does take some technique and initiative. However, it doesnt have to overwhelm you or make you feel inadequate. More importantly, it doesnt have to intimidate you.

But its really not that hard. Let me rephrase that. Its not that hard if you are willing to expend the effort. This doesnt mean you have to jump through hoops or stand on your head; it simply means that you have to want to be the best lover you can be. You have to want to rock her world, so shell rock yours.

Some might ask, why bother knowing all this stuff? One word: Satisfaction. Not only for you, but for your lover as well. A sexually satisfied woman is a woman who loves the man whos satisfying her. She isnt going anywhere as long as she is getting her needs fulfilled. Also, a sexually satisfied woman will be more willing to try new things with her lover. Shell open up in ways you cant imagine. She will titillate you and drive you crazy. Shell dress up in sexy lingerie and let you rip the clotheswith permission, of courseoff her body.

In effect, she might just turn into a sex kitten.

Learning to be the best lover is not a skill youre born with. Its a skill that has to be learned. It means paying attention to the body you are making love to. It means expanding your mind to allow new ways of doing things to come into play. It means, simply, allowing yourself to have more fun in the bedroom. Just like a good conversationalist knows how to listen as well as how to talk, a good lover knows how to respond to and recognize his partners needs.

This is what this book is about. Its about how to get your woman to the point where shes having massive orgasms, maybe even multiple orgasms. Its about learning how to do it right so shell feel safe and secure in your arms. Its about making the woman in your life the happiest she can be. A sexually satisfied woman is a very happy woman, which, in turn, can make you even happier.

Also, this isnt just limited to the bedroom. Pleasing a woman out of the bedroom is just as important as pleasing her inside it. If you dont pay her any attention except when youre making love, then youre probably not making love as often as youd like. Am I right? This is just one of the topics that well discuss. And, no, there isnt going to be any male-bashing so dont worry.

Ive kept this book quick and easy. To me, sex shouldnt be that complicated. Its just something two consenting adults are doing together to bring one another pleasure. Its something that I believe has been over-explained and needs to be discussed in a simpler, less complicated manner. Thats what this book is all about.

I want you to learn what really turns a woman on and learn how to be the best lover you can be. Being a better lover isnt just about her, its also about you. The more you give, the more you are sure to get.

YouThe Expert On Sex?

Before you go any further, I want to let you in on a little secret you might be unaware of. And this little secret has caused many couples some angst in the bedroom.

And the secret is? She thinks youre an expert on sex. Yes, thats right. She thinks youre a playboy, a know-it all, horny man of the world . Its true. Now, Im not saying all women feel this way, but many of us do. For some reason, this particular woman believes that a man should just know what to do between the sheets. They think you should be able to do it in your sleep. They think that just because you have a penis and some testosterone, you should be able to please them at the drop of the hat.

Why do women feel this way? Its a cultural thing. I believe its because the media presents men in a way that makes them seem like all of them have been around. This way of thinking probably occurred over time due to the mens magazines and porn. Also, many women think that all guys do is talk about is sex. They have a mental picture of men in a locker-room or a construction site or a garage or someplace like that, discussing the juicy details of their sexual goings-on. Who hasnt seen a movie or a sitcom where this doesnt happen? Therefore, it gets engrained in our minds that men are experts on sex.

This might also be due to the romance novels some of us read where the male characters sweep the female characters up and give them mind-blowing pleasure without fail. This, of course, is fantasy. But, for many women, when this doesnt happen in reality, sex becomes a disappointment.

While it is probably true to a certain extent that men do think about sex more than womenmainly because men are usually more open to sex than most womenI dont know many men who really discuss technique and the female orgasm with their buddies. But, because of the culture we live in, women have a tendency to think that men will automatically and instinctively know how give them good sex.

They also might think that if you dont totally please them, then theres something wrong with themi.e. you dont like them very much and are showing it. If he really liked me, he should know how to kiss me. Or, If he loved me, hed know how to bring me to orgasm.

While locker-room talk and romance novels do have their time and place, many women cant get over the idea that its just talk and fantasy. These things do have a time and a place but should never become someones reality. When this happens, expectations get raised too high and things can sometimes be disappointing.

No, this shouldnt give you anxiety. You should see this as an opportunity to understand where women get these ideas so that you can help her get over this stuff. At the very least, it might help you to understand why its sometimes hard to please her and nothing you do is right.

While its true that women sometimes live in a fantasy land as far as sex is concerned, its not up to you to bring her out of fantasy land, mind you, but, perhaps to introduce her into a new fantasy landthe world youre about to give her. Once you understand what shes looking for and you can give her a realistic version of it, she might be open to opting for reality more than fantasy, and you can give her that reality.