Sadie Allison - Tickle Your Fancy: A Woman’s Guide to Sexual Self-Pleasure

Author: Dr. Sadie Allison

Illustrator: Steve Lee

Author Photo: Richard G. Martinez

Cover Photo: Cliff Lipson

Published by Tickle Kitty, Inc.

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Tickle Your Fancy: A Womans Guide To Sexual Self-Pleasure

Copyright 2001-2011 Tickle Kitty, Inc. All rights reserved.

ISBN-10: 0-9706611-0-X (print)

ISBN-13: 978-0-9706611-0-4 (print)

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This book is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. Neither the Author, Illustrator, nor Publisher is responsible for the use or misuse of any sexual techniques or devices discussed here, or for any loss, damage, injury or ailment caused by reliance on any information contained in this book. Please use common sense. If you have any health issues or other concerns, you should consult a qualified healthcare professional or licensed therapist BEFORE trying any techniques or devices. Please consult a physician or a qualified healthcare professional if you have any further questions. Be sure to read and carefully follow all instructions that come with any sexual aids you decide to use. The mention of any product or service in this book does not constitute an endorsement. Trademarks and service marks used are the property of their respective owners.

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H istorically, women have received mixed, even negative messages about masturbation. Even today, society conditions women to think masturbation is harmful, sinful and abnormal. Adults told us, when we were little girls, masturbation was bad and sometimes punished us for doing it. Overall, this repression of female masturbation promoted sexual insecurities, shame, guilt and fear. However, society is beginning to understand and accept that women across the world practice masturbation as a perfectly normal, healthy activity.

Tickle Your Fancy: A Womans Guide to Sexual Self-Pleasure is a how-to guide that explains and details everything from the basics of getting started with masturbation to more advanced tips and techniques for enhancing sexual self-pleasure.

This guide helps women understand and embrace their natural ability to enjoy sexual self-pleasure without guilt or inhibitions. It discusses why masturbation is healthy and offers step-by-step instructions on a wide variety of techniques. Instructional diagrams and illustrations throughout the book will guide you in your learning process.

The first half of Tickle Your Fancy focuses on background and preparation information; the second half explains masturbation techniques and how to use popular sex toys.

There is no right, wrong or best way to masturbate. Every woman will have her unique preference and stylehave patience and take time to discover what feels good to you. The techniques and recommendations offered in this book wont be pleasurable for everyoneexperiment at your discretion and stop if anything causes you pain, discomfort or irritation. Always use caution when playing with sex toys, and of course practice good cleanliness and safety habits.

This book is for all womenno matter their age, relationship status or sexual orientation. Its possible that youre exploring your sexuality for the first time or that youve got an experienced hand and are looking for new ways to play. Whatever the reason, you found this book and should be commended for it. You are on your way to the endless possibilities of self-pleasure!

Think of this guide as your big sister, answering all your questions at length. It will alleviate your fears, introduce you to new techniques and help you develop a positive image of your body. If masturbation is new to you, the key is to openly explore it and give yourself time. Release your sexual inhibitions, have fun and enjoy yourself. Happy self-loving!

M asturbation is the first natural sex activity for most women. Biologically, we were meant to experience sexual pleasure with and without a partner. As children, we touch ourselves and learn that stimulating our genitals gives sensual pleasure, but it isnt until late childhood or adolescence that we recognize such behavior as sexual.

The stimulation or manipulation of ones own genitals, often resulting in orgasm or sexual self-gratification. For women, masturbation generally consists of stimulating the genital area and clitoris. Sex aids or sex toys, including a variety of dildos, vibrators and other unique devices, are often used to enhance pleasure.

Still, those who dont discover masturbation as children can develop it as a learned skill. The problem is, some women dont take the time to explore their full sexual potential. Some claim, I tried it before and didnt enjoy it, never indulging again. Lack of knowledge or persistence might cause such resistance. When you had sex for the first time, was it completely enjoyable? The first time you ate spinach or sushi, did you really like the taste? Maybe, but probably not. Masturbation is no different: Just as you acquire taste for new food, you can learn to like masturbation. And just as your culinary tastes might develop over time, your preferred masturbation techniques will likely change also.

Masturbation helps you explore your sexuality, allowing you to harmlessly discover and fulfill your sexual needs and desires. Regardless of race, age, marital status or orientation, masturbation can help you develop a strong sex lifementally, emotionally and physically.