Sadie Allison - Toygasms!: The Insiders Guide to Sex Toys and Techniques

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Author: Dr. Sadie Allison

Editor-In-Chief: Rich Lippman

Creative Director: Richard G. Martinez

Editor: Joe Azar

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Research Assistant: John McCoy

Illustrator: Steve Lee

Logo Design: Todd La Rose

Cover Photo: Cliff Lipson

Author Photo: Tony Metaxas

Foreplay Photo: Richard G. Martinez

Published by Tickle Kitty Press

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Toygasms! The Insiders Guide to Sex Toys and Techniques

Copyright 2003-2006 by Tickle Kitty Press. All rights reserved.

ISBN 0-9706611-1-8 (print)

ISBN 13: 978-0-9706611-1-1 (print)

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Please Note

This book is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. Neither the Author, Illustrator, nor Publisher is responsible for the use or misuse of any sexual aids or techniques discussed here, or for any loss, damage, injury or ailment caused by reliance on any information contained in this book. Please use common sense. If you have any health issues or other concerns, you should consult a qualified medical professional or licensed therapist BEFORE trying any device or technique. Please read and carefully follow all instructions that come with any sexual aids you decide to use. The mention of any product or service in this book does not constitute an endorsement.

ePub ISBN: 978-0-9706611-6-6

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I know something about you. Youre a lover of excitement, sexual adventure and mind-blowing orgasmsor you want to be. So cmon in, Ive got some heart-pounding ideas for you.

Every human being is wired for pleasure. The key is knowing how to throw the switchnot just a little, but wide open. Thats what my book is about. Safe, private, life-affirming, sheet-grabbing, scream-out-loud, scrape-me-off-the ceiling orgasms. And thanks to the miracles of machines, electricity and inventors with wild imaginations, theres a world of toys out there waiting for youwhether youre solo, monogamous, or hot n heavy with a new lover.

Sure theres a ton of choices. But no need to be confused or intimidatedhelp is here!

Sex toys are designed exclusively for pleasure, but must also be used with respect for safety, hygiene and comfort. This is true whether you use them by yourselfor with your partner. Ill guide you through it all, whether youre a bit shy, a sexual connoisseur, or somewhere in between. Ive tried many of these toys myself, so youll read my first-hand experiences, as well as tips from other women and men who have confided in me. Look for my Sadie Sez advice throughout the book.

Youll find out the easiest way to introduce your lover to a sex toy for the first time. Youll explore the colorful world of buzzing, vibrating, pulsating orgasm-givers. Youll discover new pleasure tricks that maximize ecstasy for youas well as your lover. And youll feel totally reassured that theres nothing wrong or unusual about receiving pleasure like thisyouve just graduated to adult toys.

Ladies, no matter where you are on the orgasm spectrum, this funs for you. If you have yet to orgasmthis guide will help you get there (along with a very big smile!). If you enjoy orgasmsbut all too infrequentlyIll help you experience bigger, better, longer, stronger multiples! And if youre the adventurous type looking for new ways to play, Im going to give you new heart-pumping ideas to stimulate your creativity and ingenuity!

And guys... if youve never played with sex toys, or think theyre only for women youre in for a big surprise. You may even decide to pass up Monday Night Football for them! And youll quickly discover that once you give multiple toygasms to your woman, shell constantly beg you for more sex. Can you handle it, big guy??

So what are you waiting for? Dive in. And start enjoying all the toygasmic pleasure coming your way.

Xs and Os,

Dr. Sadie

G reat sex starts with open communication. So if youre eager to introduce a sex toy or two, dont startle your lover by pulling a giant, buzzing phallus out of the nightstand. Spend a few minutes beforehand discussing this new opportunity for adventure. Whether your lover is gung-ho or a bit shy, its important to consider their feelings and not apply undue pressure if they hesitate. In fact, airing anxieties is often the best way to relax, and both of you could soon be in for a future full of record-breaking orgasms.

Why are people hesitant to try sex toys? Fear and lack of education. Even if they are mildly curiousor fantasize secretly about themthe reality may be a bit overwhelming. Heres the key to introducing a plaything into your repertoire: be patient. Youll discover that a little knowledge about sex toys will help ease your fears and open new doors to sexual exploration with your partner.

Fear, guilt and shame can be rooted in family conditioning, societal pressures or religious upbringing. However, theyre no match for the libido, which usually gets its way. After all, discovery and pleasure are healthy, both in life and in bed.

Women who resist toyplay the most are also among those who could benefit from it the most. By starting off with a simple toy, either solo or with your lover, you could begin enjoying many more of the physical pleasures you have coming to you, especially if:

You have not yet learned to orgasm, or dont orgasm very often