Gregg Michaelsen - Night Moves

No doubt youre already shaking your head, wondering if Ive completely gone off the deep end. A book on how to make a man fall in love with me, Gregg?? Really? Come on

Yes.

Well, okay sort of. There are both overt and covert tactics on how to make a man fall in love with you.

I call them Night Moves!

This book isnt about how to force someone to fall in love with you and I dont plan to teach you that. What Im here for is to give you every advantage in helping the process along and very few women know it.

Now, back to the original question. Can you really make someone fall in love with you? Yes and no. What were going to do is look at the science behind why people fall in love and then use that to your advantage to make it happen.

What???

I know. Stay with me.

The truth is that there are a lot of things happening in your body when you first see someone new things you are completely unaware of. For example, when a woman spots an attractive man for the first time, her pupils dilate. Who knew, right? Now, lets be clear, I am not a proponent of love at first sight, not at all. In fact, quite the opposite, however, I do believe you can draw someone in or push them away more easily than you think. The facts dont lie, so why not give yourself every advantage you can, including science!?

Gregg, What About Love at First Sight?

Love at first sight is really love at first hind sight. Lets imagine for a moment youre in the supermarket. Across the tomato display, you spot him a true Adonis. Youre nearly speechless. Your heart is all fluttery, your knees feel wobbly and oh my, am I perspiring all of a sudden!?! All physical responses to, not love, but attraction. This, my friend, is lust. Now, lets suppose your Adonis walks by and crashes into you, knocking your tomatoes onto the ground, busting them up and making a huge mess. He doesnt even stop to say as much as Uh sorry. Hows he lookin now? Youre probably ready to deck him and all of a sudden, youre not feeling anything but anger.

Suppose, on the other hand, that same Adonis walked up with a thick Jamaican (insert your favorite accent here) accent. He suavely says something like, Excuse me Maam but I think you dropped this as he hands you the produce bag you dropped, along with your jaw, when you first saw him. He smiles a crooked little smile at you and youre sunk.

In the first instance, you felt lust that went into what a jerk mode. In the second example, you may indeed go out with this guy and fall in love with him. In either case, your first response all of the sweating and beating heart stuff that was lust.

Okay so How Then?

Right! Youre anxious to find out how to make Adonis fall in love with you. I get it. Thats what the rest of the book is about! Were going to examine how men react to different stimuli and how to prepare yourself, when you go out, to meet Mr. Right. I know women whove met their husbands while pumping gas, at the grocery store, at the gym and at charity events. Mr. Right could be anywhere and the rest of this book is about how to prepare yourself, before you leave your house, to meet him, and what to do once hes in your sights.

Are you ready to get started?

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What would you say if I told you that we look at one another like were commodities being traded on the open market?

Yes, you and I are soybeans. Let me explain.

When we look at a potential suitor we say, Whats in it for me? We do. We might not think it out loud or even know it but we all think in those terms.

Who does Hollywood date? The plumber they use? The guy who fixes the stage lighting? Chances are they dont date those folks. Not because these are bad or inferior people, but because they are not in the same stratosphere as the actors or actresses. Would the plumber or the stage lighting person be happy with dating a Hollywood actor or actress? I doubt it, he or she would probably be happier with someone they have more in common with.

Is this fair? Maybe not, but it is reality. We tend to date people who have the same equity as the equity we perceive we have ourselves. We arent looking for an exact match but we naturally tend to come pretty close.

If you rank in appearance as a 5 and you want to date a 10, good luck. This is one of the ways in which we make wrong selections for potential partners. I can contact every single woman on Rodeo Drive and I will get shot down. Why? Because I dont bring what they desire to the table. I dont bring their money, their looks, and the social class they are accustomed too.

It doesnt make them better than me and I dont take it personally. In fact, I know if Shakira did date me, it wouldnt last. Neither of us would be happy. Well, I might be for few weeks.

Science tells us that people are most happy when both parties get something equal out of the relationship. Its called the equity principle. Each party wants the best deal they can get so they look at a persons market value . The good news is everybody has a different perceived value. What might be an incredible man, or value, to you wont be to another woman.

Studies show that the more positive characteristics you bring to the table, the better success you will have finding love. Combine this with your mate having equal assets and your odds of finding your lifetime love partner explode!

This means that you are about equal in these 6 areas:

1. Looks
2. Amount of money you make
3. Intelligence
4. Status
5. Personality
6. Inner Nature

But Gregg, I see a beautiful woman dating an average man all the time.

Thats because they balance out in some way. She might be better looking but he makes more money. They balance when you assess their relationship across all 6 categories. Another example might be an attractive man taking care of his wife who has a debilitating disease. They are not equal one might say, but in truth she took care of him when he was sick with cancer 10 years earlier so, again, things even out.