Gregg Michaelsen - Who Holds The Cards Now? 5 Lethal Steps to Win His Heart and Get Him to Commit

Im truly excited about this book, Who Holds the Cards Now?

Its time for a pro, to chime in and help you out. Ive read the girl books helping girls and some are pretty good. But many are written by obvious man haters that think all guys are misogynists.
If you want to turn the tables on men listen to a man.

My advice applies to all women in relationships or seeking a man.

• Youre 18 and just starting college.
• Youre married with three kids.
• Youre 22 and into the bar scene.
• Youre hot, overweight, average, shy or ugly.

It doesnt matter, men react the same.

The only time my advice does not apply is if you are an older, happy couple. The game does not need to be played because you have found your way.

To be honest, many guys are misogynists. Do you know why? Because women allow them to be. Its a perpetual system: guys go out and women are on edge. We change into roles that we think you are going to like. We feel we need to exaggerate who we are or how much money we make just to get your attention, let alone get you to date us. Yes we can be Idiots when we are wearing our capes on Friday nights but why? Because you just got burned two weeks earlier and you are in no mood to welcome us into your heart.

You are not meeting the true us. You are meeting some ugly version of us that to survive, needs to become something we are not.

Im not blaming you. Im not blaming us. Im explaining in blunt terms how it is!

These are the cards that I will deal to you.

Im going to teach you things that you never knew in this book. You will be the boss. You will decide who you will date and when. You will be the one breaking up and only if you want to. You will never be emotionally manipulated by a man again. Saturday nights you will always have a date. Marriage? That will be your choice. Got a couch potato? Gone! Hes getting overweight? Guess what, hes now going to the gym!
I am going to give you the Kryptonite that will seduce men.

The bottom line: you will be able to neutralize any man. And you know what? We want you to. Do you think we like the game of driving to the hoop? We dont.
Who am I and why am I qualified to give you advice? I make a living on the other side. I teach men all about women. I can tell you exactly how you come across to men and exactly what you do wrong. I have a sound understanding of the dynamics of interpersonal relationships.

This book in combination with any or all of the following books are all you need to tame ANY man. Read them all!

The Social Tigress is a must read for single women. We build your confidence, define who you are and get you out there to find that great guy. This book is a #1 best seller!

Love is in the Mouse expands your quest to snare an extraordinary man online with tips that other women will never know and quality men look for. This book is a best seller!

Committed to Love, Separated by Distance is killer for the many ladies dating men who travel or reside an hour or a country away. This book is a best seller!

Power Texting Men will complete your game this is a #1 best seller!

To Date a Man, You Must Understand a Man is my #1 Best Seller companion book so you will understand why my tactics work so well!

Comfortable in Your Own Shoes will shape you into the self-confident woman you want to be!

You are going to learn things about men that you never knew before. I will show you exactly how to get your man to desire you again or for the first time.

I will tell you exactly what you are doing wrong and I will give you the solution. If you execute my advice you will change your dating life. One of my biggest problems isnt getting women to believe my solutions; rather, the problem comes from getting them to execute my advice.

Please do not feel insulted. I am trying to convey facts to you like a guy does to another guy for a reason. If you want to learn how to hook us, then you need to know how we think. Guys are blunt; I am going to be the same with you.

This is a shocking report made so simple that you may need to sit down. No bull, just five steps to get him off his lazy ass and realize the quality of what he has lying right under himYOU!

I will tell you what youre doing wrong right now and then you and I are going to change your man with five devastating tactics. If youre seeking a boyfriend then this book will help you get the guy. At the end of my report I will give you tips and tricks to sustain your relationship as long as you want, and on your terms.

Why you are not in a committed relationship with him

Your guy (well call him) has become much too comfortable with you. He knows youre into him and like a comfy couch or a favorite pair of pajamas, he just slips you on when he wants. Its time for us to take a journey to enlighten you and fix this.

A man needs a challenge. It is inherent to us. Your goal is to create this challenge when you need to. Sitting around at his house in your sweats all day does not evoke a challenge to him. Staying aloof at times and upsetting the balance of power makes him want you to sit around all day in your sweats. Create this situation and he will commit!

Lets create this situation:

Step 1: Stop making him your hobby

Never make your guy your hobby. I realize you want to be with him all the time but you must re- route this emotion, at least temporarily. Remember that photography class you wanted to take? Take it! Keep your passions alive. Too many women give up their interests because of the man in their lives and they dont even realize it. He will become interested in you as soon as he realizes hes NOT the main focus in your life.

Understand this: A man always needs to have a sense of feeling free even if he is married with 5 kids. A woman rarely provides this and instead places fulltime demands on her man. Give him a break by pursuing your own hobbies and friends and watch what happens.

Lets look at Jennifer. Jennifer hiked with her close friends once a month and cooked on Sundays with her Mom. Then she met her ex-boyfriend Tim. Tim didnt hike and he wanted her to hang out on Saturday nights and party. So Jen stopped hiking and cooking because she didnt want to lose him. She felt if she said no, that Tim would be less interested in her.

Sounds harmless right? Wrong. You see Jennifer is giving up the things she loves. She is actually changing what defines herself to appease the man in her life. If she continues, she will soon be re-defining who she actually is. Jen probably will not even realize what is happening until it is too late. Her friends will notice but she will not listen to them until it is over.

Tim wanted Jen to do these things at first but then slowly started to get bored. He even starts to ask her why she doesnt hike or see her Mom on Sundays anymore. He starts to ignore her and they have less sex. This makes Jen feel more insecure and she gives up even more hobbies thinking that she is losing her man if she doesnt.

Jen just wants things like they were at the beginning. Contempt builds on both sides. She has given up her Mom, her friends and her activities. She expects Tim to do the same. Tim doesnt even realize or care what Jen gave up, he just wants some space and less pressure.

This is very common. Relationships often start off hot and heavy. Then the guy backs off to re-claim his manhood and sense of being single. This is when most women try to get them back. Instead, in our case, Jen should do just the opposite, she should run (not walk) back to her hiking Mt. Washington and cooking with Mom. This is what confident women do. Guys regroup and witness their confident gal backing off and then they charge back. The challenge is born again!