Gregg Michaelsen - Text Him This Not That: Texting Tips To Build Attraction and Shorten His Response Time!

Let's face it, texting is the way in which most of us communicate on a daily basis. It's in the workplace, our 80-year-old parents and grandparents are texting and kids know how to text at an early age. It has all but replaced face-to-face interactions for the most basic types of communication.

Research tells us that 44% of men and 37% of women find texting to be an easier way to flirt and get acquainted with a new love interest. Roughly one-third of men and women believe it is less intimidating to ask for a date via text than on the phone. Probably because it's less painful if you get shot down.

Across all age groups from 21-50, roughly one-third of all surveyed said they use their mobile device to schedule and plan dates. Texting is definitely part of the dating world for both men and women!

While there are differences in how we text, depending on how old we are, there are greater differences in the way men and women text, regardless of age. My first texting best seller, Power Texting Men , was written to address the texting needs of a younger crowd - women just out of college into their twenties who are looking for a great man.

Text Him This Not That is different. I wrote this book for the more mature crowd, regardless of age. This read is written for women who are less interested in blatant flirting and more interested in using texting to hook a guy and keep him interested!

It is probably no secret to you that men and women are vastly different in how we communicate. Women write me all the time, frustrated with the brief snippets of communication they receive from a man, whether it's in a text or email. What most women fail to understand is that this is how men talk. Think about your past conversations with men. Who does most of the talking? Usually you, right?

This begins as soon as children learn to talk and play together. Boys can be found bumping elbows in the sandbox trying to get the best Tonka Truck available. They communicate with sand in the eyes and punches - not talking and touching hair.

Through actions, not words, are how guys communicate. If I had smartphone at age four, I would whip it to get my point across. There would be no text!

By the time they reach school age, their speech development is usually not as advanced as the girls who have spent every waking moment since they were able, communicating with other little girls with words.

Boys grunt and rub elbows, girls talk. Nothing changes as we get older. I'm going to teach you how to draw him out with texts that he won't be able to resist, just like his boy buds can!

This book isn't just about learning how to text, it's about successfully building a great relationship, using texting as one of the tools in your arsenal. It starts with one element necessary in every great relationship - your ability to challenge one another and build attraction through mystery and intrigue.

That is your best use of texting in your relationship and throughout this book, I will show you many ways in which you can do just that.

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Men are wired for the chase. It's part of the excitement of being in a relationship. Part of that chase occurs when the woman plays her most important card - the catch me if you can card. A man cannot resist this taunt and unless he's brain dead, he will respond.

Your job is to play that card skillfully and in a timely manner. You don't want to use it all of the time, but in those moments where it can be most effective. You need to build balance into your texting, just as you do in your relationship as a whole. Too much texting leads to unhappiness and a lack of fulfillment. Too little communication of any sort shows disinterest and leads you to an ultimate end.

When you build challenge and mystery into your texting, you engage his desire to chase you. You build attraction and keep him intrigued. He will always want to know more. He will be salivating in anticipation of your next date. All you need to do is stay one step ahead of him in your texts and he won't know what hit him.

Along with challenge and balance, a good relationship has mutual respect. This can be the first thing you lose in your texting if you aren't careful. Many women lose a guy by texting something too flirty too soon, by appearing to be too needy or by injecting their emotions into the texting conversation.

If you always remember to keep things light and fun, you won't have this problem. Flirting in a text is great, if you know how to do it. Texting should be an enhancement to your relationship, not the primary form of communication.

If you use texting to create that mystery and challenge, to keep him intrigued and interested, your relationship will grow and blossom but if you use it as a tool to deliver your anger, frustration and insecurity, it will be the tool of death for your relationship.

I'm here to help you avoid making those mistakes!

I have chapter after chapter of information included to help you know what men like to see and what they definitely do not want to see in a text. I've got all of the major texting blunders most women make and how to avoid them. I will even try to help you revive a relationship damaged by a bad text. Sometimes it's possible, sometimes it's not.

Inside Text Him This Not That is not just how to formulate a great text but how to understand the male mind. This is as much about learning how his mind works as it is about learning how to formulate texts he can't resist. How can you communicate with him if you don't understand what he's looking for?

No longer will you be frustrated when you are forced to wait an hour, two hours or even a day for a response. Your days of getting angry because he didn't reply to your last message are over. You will learn the value of having a life outside of life with your boyfriend and how to leverage that when you text.

You need to understand a few things about texting before we move on. First and foremost, texting isn't going anywhere any time soon. Yes, we can all remember back to the days where you picked up the phone and called someone but let's face it, those days are gone. We communicate through our thumbs and tiny devices now.

Secondly, there are definite advantages and disadvantages to using texting in your relationship. I will review those with you so you can avoid the disadvantageous texts and use the advantageous ones to build that attraction!

Next, understand one key fact - men are just as nervous as you are in relationships and they are just as afraid as you are to mess things up. He is second-guessing whether or not to send that request for a date Friday night as much as you are. While he may be more to-the-point, he is still nervous and he's sweating your response!