HOW TO TEXT GIRLS for newbies
Attract Women AND Get Them Out On a Date
By
Abenezer Manaye
PUBLISHED BY: Abenezer Manaye
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Table of Contents
Introduction
Hey there and welcome to the How To Text Girls for Newbies: Attract Women and Get Them Out On A Date . I want to thank you for making an amazing decision that will help you massively in your game.
This is the kind of book series that I wrote for different levels of game. If youre a beginner, just focus on doing a nice social interaction that Ill teach you all about in here. And if youre an intermediate or advanced guy, this will be a great foundation to go back to before you go to the next books in this series.
In this book, there are some social dynamics principles that will help you immensely, not only in text game but in most social interactions that you may have.
As soon as you internalize and practice whats in here, feel free to continue to the next books in this series.
And if you have difficulties in your general dating life, I can help you with that with my previous series of books called Real Game Guides. Check the first of the series here.
I am excited for you. So lets dive in.
PART I: Inner Game of Texting
In this part, were going to take a look at the foundations of text game. This means that, the thinking behind a good text game, the purpose of a text, the importance of abundance, the value of patience, entitlement, how to avoid bad needy texts and more.
Dont skip this part because it will be the foundation of the next part. Lets begin.
Chapter One: The Purpose of Text
The first, last and most important thing you need to know about texting is, what is texting really for? And it's very simple. Texting is for getting the girl out on a date. That's it. It's not for turning her on, its not for becoming her best friend, its not for establishing a deep connection, letting her know your intimate fears and dreams, it's for getting her out on a date. So anything that leads to that is good texting. Anything that doesn't lead to that is bad texting, regardless of anything else.
Texting is very much a means to an end. This is important because you can do your work in person much better than you can do your work via text. Text is a limited medium. It's useful because we have our phones on us, and girls actually respond to text more readily than they'll respond to a phone call necessarily, and it's easier to have them respond to a text than it is to get them out on a date. So it's a window into communication, but ideally, you do much better having that interpersonal communication where they can hear your tone of voice, see you, see your body language, and you can communicate much more.
So the purpose of text, this sort of limited form of communication, is to get them in a venue where you can have better communication. Also to be very clear, it's impossible, as far as I know, to have sex with the girl via text. Sexting aside or whatnot because you can't enter them through sexting. You need to get them in person to sleep with them. So, it's very critical that be the objective.
Chapter Two: The Importance of Abundance
Let me tell you something that may surprise you about text game. The best way to get any one particular girl out via text is probably to be texting a lot of girls at the same time. Sounds strange, right? You'd think that would divide your focus, or it wouldn't be relevant anyway. But here's the thing, almost everything you do in text game that comes off as needy or try hard is going to be very unattractive to the girl. Almost anything you do in a text game that conveys that you have abundance, that you're busy living your own life and barely even have time to text the girl, that you have other girls in your life, you have a fun life going on; any of that kind of stuff is going to be massively, massively attractive.
So, if you have one girl in your phone that you're texting, whenever she texts, you're going to notice it, you're going to be on top of it, you can be very focused, and you're going to text back right away, you might write text a little bit too long to invest in that kind of stuff. Whereas if you have a whole bunch of girls that youre texting, you may even kind of forget about any one particular one, and in a way, that's actually good. That's simulating high value male behavior. And to be fair, that's probably how she is when she's texting you back because any attractive girl is getting hit up by lots and lots of guys as is.
So one of the best things you can possibly do is to have that abundance and not care too much about any one particular text conversation. Because again, anything that's needy is low value, and anything thats not needy is high value. The other great reason to be texting lots and lots of girls as well is that if you happen to send out a text that works really well, like a mass text or general talk, which well talk about later, if it works really well with one girl, it will probably work really well with a lot of girls. So having a lot of girls in your phone and having a variety of conversations will just give you a lot more to text a lot more ideas for any particular conversation.
Finally, by having lots and lots of girls on your phone, you're going to get a lot of practice very quickly, and practice makes perfect. So one of the single best things you can do for your text game is get lots of numbers, follow up with them hard and just keep following up both to get lots of girls out and to have that abundance but also as a learning experience.
Chapter Three: The Value of Patience
Most of the biggest mistakes I see guys make in text game over and over again have to do with a lack of patience. The guys got the number, he figures the girl likes him, he knows he likes the girl, so why doesnt he just get to the point and get the girl out on a date? And that would make a lot of sense if girls were the same as guys. Because guys, we pretty much we know we like the girl, we like her mostly for her physical qualities, we know we want to have sex with her, so okay, let's just get to the point, let's get her out. Girls aren't like that. Girls need not only value or attraction, but they need some level of comfort and assurance. They need to know that you're not weird, youre not creepy, you're not a stalker, nothing bad is going to happen to them, that kind of stuff, and they want to feel a connection.