Paula Grooms - Why Wont He Commit?: How a Man Decides to Make You The One

"Coach Paula's book is a great gift to women of all ages. I have lived all these years and never understood how a man loves, and what a man needs in order to commit. Most valuable is Paula's Cognitive Commitment Component of Men. What a revelation!"

Tricia R, Cleveland Heights, Ohio

"Wow, has Coach Paula opened my eyes! Ive wondered about why men relate the way they do all these years. I now feel I have the inside scoop on how to bring out the best in a man. Why Wont He Commit is a gem of book that explains how to create a happy, committed relationship one of the true joys in life."

Deborah M, Missoula, MT

This book should be required reading for every woman in a relationship. Ive read nearly every relationship book out there and this book was an eye-opener for me.

Cheri C., New York, NY

Having read The Rules, I found this book so interesting for mid-term relationships and the pitfalls when men seem to be doing everything right, bar stepping up and committing. An excellent addition to my collection!

Stephanie C., Suffolk, England

Ive been married for 25 years and bought the book for my daughter but then read it myself. Its such useful information. The Consumer vs Buyer Relationship concept is simply brilliant. It would have saved me from wasting time and energy with the wrong guys before I found my Buyer! I highly recommend this book to women of all ages. It should be required reading for any woman who wants to be in a committed relationship!

Barbara D., Phoenix, AZ

This book is a must for any woman who strives to understand the male mind. After reading about the Puppy Principle and the Consumer vs. Buyer Relationship, youll not only get a glimpse into a mans thought process, but also determine whether he is ready to commit or just having a good time. I will approach dating from a whole new place now!

Betsy P., Baltimore, MD

If youve ever wondered why he wont commit and his actions dont align with yours, after reading Paula Grooms book, youll wonder no more! It takes the guesswork out of why he may love you, but may never take your relationship to the next level. Why He Wont Commit? is the intelligent womans guide to dating smarter with self-esteem all the way to the alter!

Kathy B., Cornelius, NC

Why Wont He Commit? presents a wholly unique and accessible approach to understanding the differences between the way men and women approach commitment. I think everyone who reads it will be grateful for the valuable guidance in this book and will be left wanting more from Coach Paula!

Lori K., New York, NY

I wish I would have had this book years ago! I could have saved myself a lot of time and tears. I feel like I finally have useful information about men that actually makes sense.

Christine M., Ft. Worth, TX

I love this book! Thank you to Coach Paula for her amazing insight. As a woman in my thirties, whos dated dozens of men without a clue as to what I was doing, I finally understand and have changed my thinking and approach to men and dating. And its working!!

Erin G., Minneapolis, MN

Life changing information! Im 47 years old and wish that I had this book at an earlier age, as I could have saved myself from many years of unnecessary headaches and broken relationships. Every young woman should read this book straight out of high school. It can save them decades of trying to figure out this whole relationship thing, which baffles most of us. Im confident Why Wont He Commit? will help millions of women to make better choices in relationships.

Michelle S., Pemberton, NJ

This is an invaluable book that teaches you to identify what you want in love and get it!

Brynnleigh F., Boston, MA

How a Man Decides to
Make You THE ONE

Coach Paula Grooms

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Why Wont He Commit?

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To Milad, a man without whom this book could not have been written and this womans heart could not have been saved.

W hen we wrote The Rules, we had one simple goal: spread the truth about what it really takes for women to get married. When the book first came out, there were lots of questions. Do The Rules really work? Do I really have to follow all The Rules? Do men really respond differently to women who use The Rules?

Since writing our first book and having it distributed in twenty-seven countries, we have written four more and talked with thousands of women from all over the world. What weve learned confirms why we wrote the first book: The Rules work for women who want to be cherished by men and in committed relationships. We have story after story of happily ever after, thanks to women following The Rules.

We know that the truth can be difficult to hear and even more difficult to follow. We also know that The Rules are not natural for many women and that women who want to get married have a bit of a harder road these days especially as our society becomes more and more open and women are expected to do so many things that are against The Rules. It is why we have trained coaches like Coach Paula Grooms to help women use The Rules. Coach Paula has seen the power of The Rules and helps women apply them to their dating and in their relationships.

Most women are confused and frustrated by mens actions and behaviors. Coach Paula understands how men love, commit, and bond with women and uses her Puppy Principle to explain it from an easily relatable experience most women have had themselves. Coach Paula explains under what circumstances men are ready, willing, and able to commit or not. Her Consumer vs. Buyer Relationship Theory will help you recognize men who will not commit despite loving you.