Stella Belmar - Flirt Her Up: Learn the Secret Language of Love and Start Connecting with Women Like a Pro (Dating Advice For Men)

Flirt Her Up

How to Use the Power of Words and Body Language to Attract, Interact and Connect with Women in Any Setting

By Stella Belmar

http://www.StellaDatingCoach.com

http://www.StellaSingles.com

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What Women Really Like In A Man: 45 Dating Tips On How To Capture A Girl's Heart, Make Her Fall In Love With You (For Good) and Never Want To Leave You

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Table of Contents

Flirting. Charm. Seduction. These are all words that get thrown around a lot, yet few people really master their true meaning and even fewer know how to make them work for them.

Yet, in the world of dating and relationships, attraction, personal interaction, smooth conversation and a sleek approach can often make all the difference.

In this book, I will show you the secrets of flirting and how to use those skills and techniques appropriately to get the desired results. European men have mastered these techniques thanks to a more liberal upbringing and a natural way of relating to women.

Players and women seducers in the U.S. also master some flirting techniques, but they use it in a manipulative way most of the time, completely missing out on the real advantages and additional possibilities that a more sophisticated form of flirting can bring.

If youre a nice man, but find it difficult to leave your shell or talk to women in a charming way, read on. If youre a geek whos very smart, but maybe somewhat awkward with approaching a girl, read on. If youre a regular guy that wants to polish his flirting skills to be more attractive to women and get the girls he desires, read on.

This guide will expand your horizons no matter what kind of man you really are. The fact alone that youre reading this book is proof that youre on the right path to success. Navigating the world of dating and relationships can be challenging. We dont go to school for this. We learn by trial, error, and by studying the behavior of others, whether it be various techniques that men apply, or advice from women on what works on them. Mastering those skills can bring you light years ahead of the competition and help you succeed in your main goal: bringing the right woman to you. Bottom line, even if youve retained one useful item after reading this book, my job has been done.

I wish you much success as you master the skill of flirting, and look forward to giving you opportunities you otherwise would have missed out on!

If you Google the word flirt, the first definition that pops up is most likely: to behave as though sexually attracted to someone, but playfully rather than with serious intentions.

Wikipedia further states that flirting usually involves speaking and behaving in a way that suggests a mildly greater intimacy than the actual relationship between the parties would justify, though within the rules of social etiquette, which generally disapproves of a direct expression of sexual interest in the given setting. It explains that flirting can be done by communicating a sense of playfulness or irony.

If you read those definitions carefully, youll notice that they both refer to playfulness, irony, and as though sexually attracted. This is the point Id like to drive home with this book: The biggest mistake men make is that they take flirting too fast and too far (sexually). They use flirting techniques too aggressively and take the whole thing too seriously.

And by doing so, they lose on the subtleties and sophistication that come with the real mastery of this art. You end up missing out on much more than you may have even dreamed of with the girl you never thought you could catch.

Flirting is an art, but also a skill anyone can learn . Some are better at it than others. Some have practiced more and thus know quite well how to apply their skills to any setting. Others have made a point of learning this skill and perfecting it to an art of their own.

Whatever the way, learning and practicing flirting can only be beneficial to you. It not only allows you to feel and behave confidently around women, but it also allows you to get out of your head, open up and notice that women are impatient for you to make your move!

So, lets dig in.

Before we jump into the various techniques, you need to understand the purpose or goal of flirting.

What it is:

• Flirting should be used to approach women seamlessly, to get noticed by women and to spark their interest.
• Flirting is a tool to have a casual conversation with a woman youre interested in.
• Flirting can contain very subtle sexual undertones.
• Flirting happens with the goal of creating attraction and chemistry with women.
• Flirting shows that youre a man who is confident in his own skin and who masters the art of talking and displaying his charm with women.
• Flirting will quickly make you stand out from your competition so that the most attractive woman of the group will notice your presence, which in turn will improve your chances of being with her.
• Flirting is a way of life and can be practiced with random strangers as an exchange of mutual appreciation between parties.
• Flirting needs to become part of who you are, while you still need to maintain control as to when and how you use this skill.
• Flirting is a behavior and attitude that can be learned and practiced.
• Flirting techniques are non-exhaustive: this means that there are always additional ways you can come up with to flirt and charm women.
• Flirting is personal: a mans flirting style needs to be in harmony with his personality and become an integral part of who he is.
• Flirting includes more than just words. Its a holistic system using words, actions, gestures and non-verbal language to maximize the message that a woman receives from you.
• Anyone can master flirting. Whether youre ugly, old, short, poor, geeky, awkward or shy, be reassured that you too can learn how to flirt and attract women seamlessly.
• Flirting should always result in a win-win situation.