Ryan Harris - How To Flirt With Women & Get What You Want: A Guide To Flirting, Dating & Seduction

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Are you sick of watching your friends get all the girls? Do you wish you knew what it took to be able to just talk to a woman? Are you tired of sitting on the sidelines watching what you wish was your own game? Then its time to learn how to really talk to women and master the art of flirting. Yes, you heard me right, flirting is an art form! Oh yeah, it is something that requires skill, practice and dedication.

To start, let me ask you if any of the following feel familiar to you?
- You think you have game but she runs the other way.
- You turn from man to mouse and cant even put a sentence together around a woman.
- A five year old seems to be able to hold a more meaningful conversation with a woman than you.
Dont worry, theres no shame in admitting it. Im sure you yourself already know you definitely need some help. Why else would you be here?

By working through this book you will learn to recognize the problems that need fixing; employ the best possible strategies to get your flirt on; and then as a result increase the odds of winning the game and getting your dream girl. You have come to the right place because it can only get better from here!

I dont have to tell you the most nerve racking part of flirting is just working up the courage to approach. We have all been there and I have seen many a good man crash and burn on the flirt approach. To be honest, I myself have crashed and burned. I can remember it clear as day - I was at a bar with some friends and I spied this beautiful woman from across the room. She was amazing, gorgeous, and pulled together! To me, she was just not your typical woman. Stealing that French line, she had a certain je ne sais quoi , and I just knew that I had to talk to her. Whether a mistake or not, I pointed her out to the guys. After a fair amount of teasing and prodding from my friends, I decided it was just best to go up to her. I felt far too nervous but I wasnt going to admit that to them.

Despite feeling like I could literally crap myself, I was sure that once I got up to her I could pull it together. After all, this wasnt my fist rodeo. So I got into position beside her at the bar, took a deep breath, got her attention, looked her right in the eye, and . nothing. I developed a stutter and literally turned into a babbling baboon right there on the spot. I felt like I was having an outer body experience. I was looking down on this fool who couldnt even make sense of what he was trying to say? Whatever words did make it out of my mouth was plain unintelligent and boring!

I was mortified and I wanted to dive under a table and hide. The look on her face said it all; she looked at me like I was a fly that had flown into her drink. My flirt game went out the window and because of that, I blew any chance at a conversation. I forgot everything I knew in that moment. I didnt start a witty conversation, I didnt get a number, I mean I didnt even get a name! Of course, I didnt feel great about myself that night. The guys laughed and had a great time at my expense doing impressions of my stutter. However, it cemented something inside me I was the captain of my own destiny. If I wanted to get that girl in the future; I would have to take control, learn, grow and change!

What Im trying to convey is that we have all had those moments where we wished that we knew how to capture her attention. Most of us are no Casanova or Lothario, so the most difficult times are when you simply dont know what to say. But through my experiences and what I have learned, I will help and pass onto you, how to actually talk and flirt with women.

Us men are bombarded everyday with images in music videos and advertising that the men with swagger and bling get the women. Women dont care much about the nice clothes and sweet ride, if a man has no substance. Sure, you can be the whole package. However, if you dont know how to put your bait on the line and reel her in with good flirting and conversation, then your game is bust and shes going to get away!

Yes, believe it or not, flirting is about learning to talk to a woman in a way that she wants to be talked to. Its about combining observation, powerful body language and good conversational skills. Maybe til now you have thought that youre not capable of this or it wasnt an important part of flirting. However, reading this book will teach you how to take control of your dating destiny. I will let you in on all the secrets and tips I have learnt over the years and you will be able to hold yourself with confidence and draw her in with a good, fun, flirty conversation.

Here you will learn one of the biggest lessons, re flirting, is that sincerity goes a long way. Being genuine and not an arrogant try hard, matters greatly to those lovely mysterious creatures of the opposite sex. This book isnt about mind games to get her into bed either. Players never win in the long run. Yup, you read that right, the player is never going to end up in a good relationship or lead a happy life because they just see the end game as sex, nothing else. So forget about little games or trying to play women. You can now start to focus on the things that really matter. If you can learn how to really master the art of flirting through holding an interesting conversation, then you are in. You might doubt that now, but read on and you will learn how to get the woman of your dreams by being yourself.

So lets get started and work at making you a great flirt, an amazing conversationalist, and get a woman interested in you by being who you actually are!

I know, I know. You are probably reading the chapter title thinking, thats a bit patronizing. Dont worry, I know you are not an idiot. I know people learn best through control of their own learning styles. However, I have written this book to follow a process that gets results. If you choose to follow the process, you will have the best chance of getting the most out of this book. Youre reading this book because you decided that you need to take control and that you need to change things. So now why not also get the most out of it, by making sure you use it in the most efficient, successful way?

While Im being forthright, lets address the elephant in the room male pride and feelings. You are not weak or less masculine because you want a bit of help. You can stop feeling bad or shameful about yourself if you are. I know way too many men just like us who feel that they are above needing any help, but they are the ones who will struggle and keep getting their quests in life wrong. Asking for help or learning to improve yourself is not a weakness. You have recognized something in you that needs improvement and you are taking the right steps. That is strength and will work in your favor. Women will recognize your ability to connect with your feelings, its a quality they find very attractive. They seem to have some sort of built in radar and tracking device for those sorts of qualities in men.

I also want to give you some kudos for recognizing that what youre currently doing isnt working. Youve seen its time to stop watching the game from the benches and become a key player on the field. This is the ultimate way to take control over your life and it will show in your relationships with women as you start to get results from the advice in this book! You have made a conscious decision to quit feeling bad about things and start to take control over something that isnt your strong suit. You have made the choice to live and its pretty awesome!