Fran is the #1 expert in the art of flirting. The Secret Rules of Flirting is a fabulous read that will teach you the most practical and stress-free ways to turn your flirt on anytime, anywhere, any place and still keep your cool. Its like a crash course in flirting.
Marianne Garvey, relationships writer/editor, BravoTV.com
If you want to ignite the flirt within you, The Secret Rules of Flirting will show you the way! Fran guides you to finding the love of your life and enjoying every second of it. Its uplifting, optimistic, and very practical.
Gayle Kirschenbaum, Emmy awardwinning filmmaker, TED speaker, and writer
Flirting is an essential nugget in your dating toolkit. Fran Greenes book provides excellent tips on how to flirt both online and offline to help you find your dream date.
Julie Spira, author of The Perils of Cyber-Dating
After working with Fran, youll be able to charm anyone, no matter the situation. And its all because she eats, breathes, and sleeps flirting!
Hayley Matthews, DatingAdvice.com
In this book, Fran eloquently describes how to interject fun and joy into ordinary encounters and explains why making people smile is the key to enjoying every day and building meaningful connections.
Sheila OConnor, regional director, Tribal Tech LLC
The Secret Rules of Flirting is packed with the best flirting advice I have ever seen! Confident flirting is a skill that CAN be learned and practiced. And Fran is the perfect combination of a wing woman, coach, and drill sergeant to help you up your game. I wish I had this book when I was single.
Regina Robinson, president, RM Robinson Solutions LLC
Flirting is the key to making a connection with any new potential mate. Fran gives you the tips and tricks that make it easy and fun and guarantee success.
Delaina Dixon, DivaGalsDaily.com
Fran Greene is the expert on that essential part of dating the flirt. She provides excellent advice on how to flirt face-to-face and on all the social media sites. Her techniques will undoubtedly get you closer to finding your perfect someone.
David Wheeler, founder and CEO, SettleForLove.com
Fran is a true flirting expert! She will teach you how to turn on the charm when approaching or meeting someone who sparks your interest. A must read if you are looking for the love of your life. It could be just a click away.
Charles Messow, founder, Cove dating app
Fran Greene hits the mark with her wonderful insights that are sure to be a hit for anyone seeking to step up their flirting game!
Joelle A. Perez, Esq, divorce mediator
Thank goodness The Secret Rules of Flirting are not secret anymore! Fran Greene is finally revealing her juiciest and most powerful tricks and tools to unlock your natural flirtiness and charisma.
Catherine Behan, divorce recovery expert at BreakupCandy.com
The Secret Rules of Flirting offers wise, supportive suggestions and is a how-to manual for being bold and confident.
Myra Terry, former president, National Organization of Women, New Jersey
Once again, Fran hits it out of the ball park! The Secret Rules of Flirting is loaded with the best flirting tips I have ever seen. Your love life will soar after reading this step-by step-guidebook. Its the perfect readespecially for guys!
Ali Jabbour, founder, The Girlfriends Club
The Secret Rules of Flirting has the most down-to-earth flirting advice you could ever ask for! Fran has your back in dealing with relationships.
Marsha Feldman, International Association of Women, Aventura chapter president
Dont be a wallflower! Learn how to let people know you welcome their attention by demonstrating yours.
Mitchell P. Davis, ExpertClick.com
the Secret
RULES OF FLIRTING
The Illustrated Guide to Reading Body Language, Getting Noticed, and Attracting the Love You DeserveOnline and In Person
FRAN GREENE, LCSW
FORMER DIRECTOR OF FLIRTING AT MATCH.COM
Contents
Guide
Be a Natural Flirt in No Time
When you walk into a room full of strangers, how do you feel? Do you think of it as a golden opportunitya limitless pool of possible connections, like friendships, business contacts, or romantic encountersor do you find a quiet corner, keep a low profile, and do your best to wait out the storm? If the second option sounds more like youand even the most outgoing people have moments like these!Im delighted youve picked up this book. I want you to feel confident when you meet new people, whether thats walking into a party, attending a conference, or simply meeting someone for the first timeanywhere, any place, anytime!
Anythings possible
if youve got
enough nerve.
J. K. ROWLING
WHY FLIRT?
Flirting has the power to transform your everyday routines into unique, energizing experiences. Yes, flirting can spark love, but it can also help you create amazing connections in every area of your life. How? First, and most importantly, you have to be open to the idea that every person you meet will add significance to your life, and that every encounter is an exciting adventure. As you become a practiced flirt, youll learn that some flirtatious interactions can lead to lifelong relationships, while others will be one-time encounters that are priceless experiences in themselves.
Like any valuable skill, flirting takes practice, and, like any sport, it has rules, too. Im here to clue you in to those rules, and to show you how to use them to your best advantage no matter who you are. Whether you need a total flirting makeover or a quick refresher course on how flirting can be a game changer, when it comes to bringing more people into your life, this book is for you. Flirting is my hobbyseriously!and Im about to show you how you can become an irresistible flirt, too.
In Chapter 1, I get you psyched to flirt. Youll find out why flirting never goes out of style and how it can bring joy and fun into your life. In my experience, the number-one barrier to flirting is the fear of rejection. Thats totally natural, but Ill show you how to reframe rejection: You might not be able to avoid it completely, but you can put a positive spin on it and turn a potentially negative feeling into a valuable gift. Youll also learn how to boost your self-confidence and raise your self-esteem with unique confidence enhancers that help both men and women.