HOW TO BE AN
ASSH*LE
THAT BEAUTIFUL WOMEN LOVE
Also by Troy Francis
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HOW TO BE AN
ASSH*LE
THAT BEAUTIFUL WOMEN LOVE
Troy Francis
Copyright 2017 by Troy Francis.
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Contents
Introduction
This is not just another book about how to attract women. That books been written many times. Even more, the information is all out there for free if you search for it. No, this is something differenta very specialized booknot for the beginner. This book is concerned with how to attract the very hottest women on the planetattract them and keep them hooked on you indefinitely.
Ive been into gamepickup, or PUA (or whatever its called today)in a formal way since 2005. Even before I knew game I made a concerted effort to hit on girls in clubs and bars; its just I didnt know any theory. I was shooting in the dark.
When The Game by Neil Strauss came out in the UK in 2005 it was a revelation. Id been vaguely aware of the get good with women information that had been circulating on the Internet before that, but the PUA scene had always seemed a little seed; a little sad to me so I hadnt delved into it.
The Game changed everything.
A lot of guys read that book. In fact, Id be willing to bet good money that many of the pickup gurus you follow today did. Mysterys work, (Mystery of course being the pseudonym of the magician and early pick-up expert Erik von Markovik) and Neil Strausss articulation of it must be credited with changing a generations thinking about inter-gender dynamics.
I remember when the book first came out. It was mythical. With its tales of hitting on the likes of Paris Hilton and Britney Spears it seemed as though that book offered the silver bullet guys had always craveda method that enabled those in the know to sleep with the highest status women in the world. That was never the case though, and it certainly wasnt a claim the author or publisher made. But the perception was definitely out there.
Fast-forward to today; not only is there a hell of a lot more mainstream pickup advice available, theres also a lot more realism. Countless YouTube channels, blogs, Twitter and Instagram feeds and podcasts are dedicated to the art of the pickup. Which is absolutely brilliant if you are getting started in game. I wish the same resources had been around in the early 2000s. But whats particularly interesting to me is that the advice given these days is far less aspirational than before.
Theres little talk any more about how to pull that perfect 10. The conversation now centers around how to pull any woman at all . Thats, in part, a consequence of the state of the dating marketplace. Its often said that dating is harder than it used to be, with blame generally laid at the feet of the smartphone and various apps including Tinder, Snapchat, and Instagram. Women today, we are told, are deluged with more sexual opportunities than even a decade ago. As such its gotten harder to make the impact or cut-through that will cause a girl to want you in the first place much less stick around after.
As a result, most game advicemy own included is focused on physical self-improvement (gym); mental self-improvement (affirmations, self-talk); and approaching a hell of a lot of girls in order to improve your social skills and frankly, your chances. The structure of how a pickup should be conducted hasnt changed substantially since Mystery Method. Most coaches still recommend something similar to his original model.
Not to say theres anything wrong with any of this. Self-improvement is essential. And the approach-attract-hook-comfort-escalate-sex model works because, well, because that is how human mating is structured. But where has the aspiration and ambition of the early days of game gone? Today on forums you read a lot of I met this girl and she was a 7, but hey, Im improving, right?-type comments. Which, again, is great. Because lets face it; if youre a male 5 and youre pulling 7s then yes, you are doing really well.
But what about bigger game? How are we meant to seduce models, actresses, and the very hottest women in our society? Even books about pulling strippers (once very fashionable) appear to have fallen out of vogue. (And by the way, I am not holding strippers up to be some kind of paragon of femininity we should all aspire to be with. I am merely acknowledging that, physically at least, they tend to be top-notch simply because, well, if youre being paid to take your clothes off then its necessary to have a great body.)
Why has the PUA industry stopped focusing on the bigger picture, which surely is not just how you pull any girl, but how you pull the crme de la crmethe real beautiesthe kind you see heaving huge Gucci shopping bags down Sloane Street or Fifth Ave petting their miniscule dogs. Or the Hollywood actresses? Or pop singers? Or those weird, arty girls who seem so utterly unobtainable to the average guy?
I think in part PUAs have moved away from making huge promises about what their material can do simply because PUAs are aware that success with incredibly beautiful women is simply not attainable for every guy. And yes, I am making a similar disclaimer here.
Im sorry, but its just a fact.
For one thing, every guy getting into pickup starts at a different base level. Some are very good looking, which will naturally get them more initial attention. Many are well groomed and charming, some are not. Others have a long way to go, both with the basics (grooming, clothes, personal hygiene etc.) and with their social skills. So, while one guy may just need a bit of encouragement to cold-approach, another may require a radical overhaul of his entire personality and presentation before hes even ready to say hi to a girl.
Another issue is mental health: Depression. If you are depressed (as I was earlier in my life) then you need to get that sorted out. Put down this book now. Phone your doctor. While pickup is great for getting you out of the house and talking to people, serious mental issues are a priority and need preeminent attention. The danger for a lot of guys is they think that just finding an attractive partner will sort their problems out for them. It wont. Even if you do hook up with a cute girl, chances are it will only end up making things worse for you. And sooner, not later.
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