Charlie Valentino - Direct Day Game Method - Pickup Girls on the Street, at the Mall or Coffee Shop

T hank you for picking up your copy of Direct Day Game Method by me Charlie Valentino .

Why do I practice direct day game and only direct day game? The answer is simple! In fact that is the answer; it is the simplest method of pick up there is .

Like many people new to pick up, I once suffered from extreme approach anxiety. This was partly because I was following other peoples methods that were not right for me .

True, direct day game (DDG) may not be the one method that is right for you, there are many ways of meeting women and many approaches and styles you can use. However it is DDG that has proven to be by far the best method at least for me and is the one method Im going to teach you in this book .

It is my hope that after reading this book, youll find approaching women in the street, coffee shop or shopping mall easy .

Feel free to disagree with me at any point in this book, I am only giving you my opinion and telling you what I know works best for me. Having said that, I strongly believe that DDG should be the method all newbie pick up artists should begin with. I am strongly convinced about the truth of that statement because those starting out really do require the most simple pick up strategy there is, one that does not laden the head down with too many techniques, tactics, routines, games and stories etc. DDG works so well because it is just you and her in the moment with no crap flying around your head. Newbies, many of whom will be suffering from approach anxiety like I did, will really benefit from the simple DDG method for those reasons .

So lets begin on our journey of discovering the easiest and perhaps most effective pick up strategy there is .

T here are many reasons why I prefer to approach women during the day over approaching them at night in bars, pubs or night clubs .

I know many people who only have the balls to approach women during the night whilst under the influence of alcohol. What does this say about the guy? It says that if he wasnt drunk then he wouldnt be speaking to her. Women can sense this and they really can tell if a man only has the guts to speak to them because hes intoxicated. This is why they use what has become known as the shit test .

No, during the day you get the real girl and not some act or persona shes putting on while shes out with her friends. And trust me, many girls put this act on, they have to do it because they get hit on all the time. This is even worse for the more attractive girls, they get hit on the most so they have to use some sort of a self-defence mechanism to ward off all the lower value guys .

This self-defence mechanism is what we call the shit test. Have you ever approached a hot girl in a bar, started speaking to her and received nothing back other than the cold shoulder? Perhaps she scrunched her face up at you, turned her back on you or ignored you completely? This is her self defence mechanism at work. If she didnt do this then shed have so many guys talking to her all night long that shed never get to spend any time with her friends .

When in this situation, most guys, perhaps 95% will walk away indignantly and tell their mates that she was a bitch. The remaining 5% will show their worth, stick around and show that they are not intimidated. If they are persistent then more often than not they should be able to get into a conversation with her .

However, those few guys, an even smaller percentage than 5%, something like 0.5% who have the balls to approach women in the street, in broad day light without the effects of alcohol running through their system do not have to put up with any of that rubbish such as shit tests. Out in the street, in the real world during the day, you get the real person, the real girl and you can just skip through all that crap and get straight to the point. That point is this: You saw her and you like her and you want her phone number! Its as simple as that! I like day game because it really is that simple !

During the night, you also have to contend with her group of friends. Sure if youve read other pick up manuals, youll know all about using your friends to take care of her friends while you speak to your target. But how good at speaking to women are your friends? Can they distract them for long enough for you to get to know your girl? And at any time her friends can get fed up with your friends and pull her friend away from you. This happens a lot! However, during the day time women are most often out by themselves so you dont have to worry about any of this. And if you do see a girl you like the look of who is with a friend then trust me, you wont have much of a problem with her pulling her friend away because this isnt human nature; its just not polite is it !

During the night, you also have to contend with perhaps a hundred other guys in the bar who all want her phone number. Do you really just want to be another one of those hundred guys? And then what happens if you actually get her number? Will she actually remember giving you it the next day? Most pick up artists (PUAs) agree that phone numbers received at night tend to have high flake rates for this reason .

During the day, you will be the only guy with the balls to approach her so there is literally no competition for you! Theres definitely not another hundred guys to contend with so guess what? Shell remember you! You will be the only guy that week, month or perhaps even year who actually had the guts to approach her as she walked up Main Street carrying her shopping. Believe me, this will make you stand out in a huge way !

As I said before, when you speak to girls at clubs and bars, you are more often than not getting an act and not the real person. After all, dont you put on a bit of an act yourself when youre out? You dress differently, walk differently and most probably act a little differently. Well its the same for her too! During the day, without the influence of alcohol you really are getting the real person, and if shes a bitch then you really are better off without her. You are much more likely to meet a better quality of person, definitely the relationship kind of a girl in a coffee shop than you are in a bar. Besides, girls much prefer telling their friends they met somebody in the coffee shop than in a bar, it just sounds so much nicer .

Yes, Ill state that again; during the day you are more likely to meet the relationship type of girl. If thats what youre after then thats perfect. This book will be great for you if you follow it .

F or a long time it was the indirect method that was preferred amongst the PUA gurus however I think that most of them are coming around to the direct method of approaching women .

For those who dont know the difference I will clarify the difference now. Indirect is where you approach a girl going under the radar. You would start by asking her a question, for the time, directions or for her opinion on something. For example, you could ask the girl you see in Starbucks what is the nicer drink out of a mocha or a latte because youre new to Starbucks and you dont have much of an idea what is what. She would then tell you what she prefers. You would then try and elaborate on her response, which you dont really care about anyway because of course you know what a latte is really. So you would end up talking about lattes for a couple of minutes all the while youre trying to find something on her that stands out, something to compliment her on; perhaps she is wearing a distinctive piece of clothing, jewellery or maybe even that youve read the book shes reading. The aim is to try and take the conversation away from lattes and onto something more personal so you can move the pick up attempt along. So youve complimented her on her bracelet and also mentioned your sister has a similar bracelet. Cool! Now would be a suitable time to introduce yourselves and shake hands. Now the next part is the most important part of the entire indirect pick up because you are suddenly shifting into a different mode. You are no longer talking about lattes and are now trying to become acquainted. From any point ahead she may well be expected to slip the word boyfriend into the conversation to inform you she has one. So how much time have you wasted up until this point? Five minutes perhaps to find out she has a boyfriend! But lets assume she is single and the pick up continues. You now have to subtly qualify yourself to her to show that youre worth her time and to try and win her over. You have to do this because you didnt go direct, which is in itself all the qualification you need to do to show your worth. So you end up having to tell a few stories about some cool adventures youve taken with your mates to try and impress her. Perhaps youve just come back from travelling or you went skydiving last week; hopefully shell be impressed. So now lets hope shes opening up a little bit and telling you something about her. You now have to try and get her to qualify to you! So you are asking her qualification questions such as tell me three things about yourself that will impress me! At least youll use that line if youve been reading the material. So now you have to be impressed by what she tells you. By now its probably dawning on her that this is a pick up attempt, but in reality she probably guessed earlier. Now you have to try and find out some common ground, some reason to see each other again in a more social setting. If youre good at indirect pick up then you will have asked a qualification question that would have given you this information and now youll be fully aware that youre both interested in going to the movies. From now on getting a phone number should be simple! Just ask for it !