HYPNOTIC
SEDUCTION
George Hutton
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Contents
Introduction
Why Hypnotic Patterns?
Imagine you wanted to build a birdhouse. But all you know about birdhouse carpentry was that you had to use nails, wood, maybe some paint, and there should be some kind of enclosed structure with a door. Further, when you tried to build this contraption, you did it with a blindfold. You had to feel your way around, cutting and nailing haphazardly. Would you produce birdhouse, or would you produce a trip to the emergency room, with you explaining to the horrified doctor why you thought it was a good idea to start sawing things in half while blindfolded?
OK, goofy metaphor. How about this one. Let's say you wanted to go to an amusement park. And you had a good idea that amusement parks are near big parking lots, so you figured if you just checked out all the large parking lots in your neighborhood, you'd find it eventually. And supposing you picked up your buddies and explained your plans? Would they agree it was a good plan, and relax and wait for you to eventually find the amusement park? Or would they get out of the car, call an Uber and leave you behind?
OK, that didn't make any sense. Let's try another metaphor. Let's say you watched this really cool cooking video on YouTube. It was about thirty minutes long, (and you got kind of bored halfway through) but at the end, the guy ended up with a really delicious looking chocolate cake. So there you are, a couple days later, in your kitchen. You think there were some eggs in there, and maybe some flour, and the chocolate came from somewhere. You've got half a cartoon of chocolate milk so you figure that'll do. You throw in some other stuff just in case (better safe than sorry, right?) and mix it all up and stick it in the oven. Or maybe it was supposed to be in a frying pan. Anyhow, you check it an hour later and it's a burnt, smelly mess.
OK, OK, that didn't make any sense either. Or did it? This is about the extent of what guys do who try and create romantic or sexual desire in females. The bumble around haphazardly, and hope that the end product is a girl who wants to get busy. And they nearly always fail.
Three Types of Seduction
We can take three separate categories of guys and their attempts to get girls interested in them. (We won't count the strategy of sitting on the sidelines and waiting for it to happen magically). Then we'll find they are all trying to do the same thing, only with different levels of success.
Regular Dating
This is when guys do anything they can to spend time alone with the object of their desire. This is really not much better than the "sitting on the sidelines and hoping strategy." In that the guy is leaving much of the process up to random chance. He acts a little bit "nicer" than usual. He tries to be a bit more "friendlier" than usual. The idea being that simply by spending a few hours here and there together, the girl will start to "like him," although how and why that happens isn't understood. An equivalent metaphor would be a tribe of ancient cavemen piling up a bunch of dry leaves and hoping for lightning to strike in hopes of getting a fire started. This is better than not doing anything , but it's still pretty hit and miss. Sure, they could a put up a big tall pole in the middle of their pile of leaves, and keep the leaves dry if it starts to rain (which would increase their chances) but ultimately, they'd be at the mercy of the gods.
Naturals
These are guys that are naturally attractive to a large number of women. They don't have to do anything. The way they talk and act naturally is enough for most women to become attracted. Lucky for these guys, this creates a very wonderful self-sustaining loop of seductive success. The more girls they find looking at them with eyes of lust, the more they build their belief that "all girls dig me." The more they have their belief, the more girls will fall for them quickly. This also creates massive amounts of social proof. The natural walks into a place, and not only are all the girls checking him out, but they also notice each other checking him out, which creates intense subconscious competition. This triggers the Cialdini Law of Social Proof and Scarcity at the same time (one guy, many girls) and this guy doesn't even have to lift a finger. Make some flirty eye contact, say, "Hey," and he's in like Flynn. Since you're reading this now, I'm guessing this ain't you.
The Future You
Then there's you. Or the future you. Somebody who will soon understand that no matter how a girl falls for a guy, it always follows the same structural process. She goes through the same series of emotions. The same feelings which lead to a conscious understanding of "I want this guy." Because you will soon understand this, you will have the best of both worlds. While Naturals are rarely ever worried about "getting some," they also are always unsure of exactly what it is they are doing. They're naturals, which means they've never really thought about how they do what they do. For most girls, this is OK. Naturals show up, pick from the hottest girls in the place, and away they go. But if he happens to come across a girl who's not moved by his natural seductive powers, what then? Since he doesn't really know how he works his magic, when his magic doesn't work, he's no better off than those guys on the sidelines waiting around for magic. But when you understand that deep romantic and sexual desires are a result of certain emotions a woman must feel before feeling what she describes as "love" or "love at first sight," and you understand how to create them, you'll never worry again.
Sound good?
Rules
Before we get started, we'll need to know what to never do. And when I say never, I mean never ever do . It is a common mistake, and the reasons for it are beyond the scope of this guide. It will help if we understand how both men and women are wired, and what "attraction" really means.
Hunger
What is hunger? It is a feeling that spurs us to action. To eat something. Anything? No, not anything. It compels us to eat certain foods. Because Mother Nature knows that we humans are as dumb as rocks, and if we had to actually remember to eat we'd starve, she gave this never-ending feeling in our guts that force us to eat if we wait long enough. This feeling which drives our behavior to satisfy that craving is an instinct. Something it always there. A raw feeling. We satisfy it, of course, by eating. In the caveman days, we ate anything that we could. But nowadays, we have a lot of choice. We may be hungry, but we can afford to shop around. Buy or cook what we want. Unless we are really starving, we tend to be pretty picky. Imagine you were hungry, and you're at your local food court. Chances are there would be some things you liked, and some things you didn't like, right? When given lots of choices, we are very picky about how we satisfy our hunger. Let's say for the sake of argument, that you're looking at the cheeseburger shop. You've just decided to buy the Triple Heart Attack express, which comes with eighteen slices of cheese and half a pound of bacon. Then you hear a voice to your right.
"Wait! We really want your business! We've been watching you for the last few minutes, it would make is so happy if you bought something from us! Please?"
And further imagine that person got down on their knees to beg. You were curious, so you looked up at their shop. Broccoli-On-A-Stick. And let's suppose that person was really, really, desperate. They said they'd do anything if you bought some broccoli from them. Now maybe, if they were really screaming and even threatening to go up to the roof and jump off, you'd buy some broccoli. Not because you wanted some, but only to get them to shut up. Think about this question. Think deeply. Is there anything that person could do or say that would make you want broccoli more than the cheeseburger? Probably not.
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