Bill Dobbins - MUSCLE FETISH: The Erotic Love of Muscular Women

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MUSCLE FETISH:

The Erotic Love Of Muscular Women

By Bill Dobbins

TABLE OF CONTENTS

DEFINITIONS

THE WORLD OF FETISH

PARAPHILIA

BODY FETISH

FETISH FOR MUSCLE

LESBIANS AND MUSCLE

BDSM

SADOMASOCHISM

SESSIONS

BDSM MUSCLE SESSIONS

TOUCHING

WRESTLING, LIFE-AND-CARRY

FEMALE MUSCLE PORNO

FROM UNDERGROUND TO MAINSTREAM

ABOUT BILL DOBBINS

DEFINITIONS

Fetish

: an object or bodily part whose real or fantasized presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression when absent.

BDSM

: an umbrella term that includes bondage (restraint, tying up a sexual partner), domination and discipline (exercise of power in a sexual situation, use of punishment as part of slave "training), sadism (deriving pleasure from inflicting pain) and masochism (deriving pleasure from experiencing pain.

Paraphilia

: any of a group of psychosexual disorders characterized by sexual fantasies, feelings, or activities involving a nonhuman object, a non-consenting partner such as a child, or pain or humiliation of oneself or one's partner. Also called sexual deviation.

The most common paraphilias are:

exhibitionism, or exposure of the genitals

fetishism, or the use of nonliving objects

frotteurism, or touching and rubbing against a non-consenting person

pedophilia, or the focus on prepubescent children

sexual masochism, or the receiving of humiliation or suffering

sexual sadism, or the inflicting of humiliation or suffering

transvestic fetishism, or cross-dressing

voyeurism, or watching others engage in undressing or sexual activity

Muscle Fetish

: having a pronounced sexual interest in female muscle to the degree that the fact or fantasy of female muscularity is required in order to stimulate adequate sexual arousal; a pronounced erotic interest in muscular female physiques in preference to any other kind body.

Kat Meyers

THE WORLD OF FETISH

There are lots of things that people find sexually stimulating. Beautiful bodies, or specific body parts like breasts, legs, or buttocks. Sexy clothing, such as lingerie. Women give nature a hand with the use make up to make themselves more appealing. The lips become engorged and enlarged when a female is sexually aroused, so she sends signals to men by wearing lipstick - and nowadays by making her lips bigger with plastic surgery.

Men tend to be stimulated more by visual imagery than women, but both genders can enjoy and be aroused by pornography. Language can have an erotic effect, so "dirty talk" is frequently a part of sexual activity.

But it is one thing if something helps to stimulate erotic interest an arousal. It is another if it is absolutely necessary for that arousal to take place. That is what fetish is all about. It is the sine qua non - without which, nothing - of the sex drive. A necessary condition.

Fetish is being used here as a kind of shorthand for a wide range of interests and behaviors, formerly referred to as perversion or degenerate behavior , but now covered by the term paraphilia.

There is no specific way in which a fetish or sexual obsession develops. It seems to have something to do with early childhood experience. At some point the psyche makes a connection between an object or experience and the erotic drive. This connection can be casual, meaning it informs behavior but doesn't dictate it, or it can take on the more powerful role of an obsession. It can remain a matter of fantasy, or the individual can act out or try to act out various fantasy scenarios.

PARAPHILIA

The psychological term for these thoughts, feelings, desires and behavior is paraphilia , and it was once automatically classified as a sexual disorder, or perversion. That could still be the case if an individual's fetish causes behavior that is too anti-social or even criminal. Stealing women's underwear from the dryer in a Laundromat is going to get you in trouble if caught.

In addition to finding certain parts of the body especially arousing, or clothing like shoes, leather, vinyl or lingerie, people can develop a fetish for objects that would seem to have nothing erotic about them to others. Almost anything can serve as the focal point of a fetish, regardless of how unlikely that might seem.

Certain types of behavior can also become fetishized - such as the acting out of bondage, dominance, submission or masochistic roles. Inflicting or experiencing pain or humiliation. Cross-dressing or exhibitionism.

Nowadays, psychiatrists tend to classify paraphilia in terms of whether having an unusual type of sexual obsession causes any problems in a person's life. Somebody who needs to act out sexually dominant behavior might function very well, depending on whether he or she could find a willing partner to take the submissive role. But engaging in that kind of behavior with an unwilling partner is quite another thing. So would taking the "game" too far and actually inflicting serious damage as part of a sexual transaction.

A male cross dresser who has a wife or girlfriend who knows about and accepts his preference can function quite well. One who dresses and goes out to the wrong kinds of bars could be courting trouble. Again, if a fetish doesn't lead to problems in somebody's life and doesn't become so powerful that a fulfilling sex life becomes impossible, psychologists and psychiatrists no longer consider it a perversion or a mental disorder.

But certain types of sexual behavior are still consider perversion, are treated as psychological disorders and are absolutely against the law. Two that come to mind or rape and child molestation. There is no dismissing these kinds of anti-social, criminal and destructive activities as some kind of "personal expression."

Cassandra Floyd

Dayana Cadeau

Laura Creavalle

Lauren Powers

Isabelle Turell

Joanne Lee

Desiree Ellis

BODY FETISH

Just as part of the body can often become the objects of fetish, certain kinds of bodies can as well. There are "chubby chasers," who are turned on by fat girls. Men can be attracted to hairy women, very small ones or even dwarfs. There is no "rationality" in these kinds of attractions. It isn't a matter of what you think. It is a matter of some kind of unconscious connection buried deep in your mind. But no matter the reason, what pulls your trigger pulls your trigger.