Nicholas Jack - The 9 Laws of Attractive Body Language for Men

The 9 Laws of Attractive Body Language for Men

By Nicholas Jack

Copyright 2013

By Nicholas Jack

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Table of Contents

Body Laws

Voice Laws

Check out my other books:

120 Body Language Signals that She Likes You

The secrets to knowing whether or not a girl likes you are contained in this book. No more wondering if she is interested. After this you will understand who it is she likes better than she will.

It is important to know how to read women so that you will know which women to pursue. Why waste your time on a girl who is already taken or not looking? Reading body language cues are things that you need to do before approaching her, asking her on a date, kissing her, and making things sexual. This book will further improve your understanding of women.

Understanding Sexual Attraction: What Makes a Woman Want You

To be what a girl wants, you have to know what a girl wants.
In this book, you will learn the answer to the age old question What do women want? Not the fleeting thoughts of what women currently want, but the things that are hardwired into them. It will explore sexual attraction completely. You will learn and understand every single attraction trigger that women have, and why they have them. Broken down mathematically with graphs and percentages, you will learn exactly what things are important when it comes to attraction.

Introduction

Demand attention when you walk into a room, make the world awe and respect you, observe as people hang on your every word, and watch as women try to hide their overwhelming attraction towards you. If you want to make these things a reality in your life, all you have to do is master these 9 laws of attractive body language.

Most men believe that, in communication, it is words that win over the opposite sex. That is not the case, in fact, words are even less important when communicating with the opposite sex. Most people have heard that only 7% of communication is words, that 38% is voice tonality, and the other 55% is body language. This is exactly right. You will communicate much more from how you act with a girl of the opposite sex, than the words you choose to say.

As you learn the laws of attractive body language you will notice that the first five laws of attractive body language have to do strictly with body language, while the other 3 laws have to do with voice. These 9 laws together will cover all the bases of body language and, if you make the 9 laws a habit, will guarantee that you will be much more attractive to the opposite sex.

Essentially, here is what attractive body language is: Being confident and masculine in every single movement, posture, and tone. Confidence and masculinity are the two things that are attractive to women, and as long as you remember that, you can change how you are seen by women.

Masculinity

Masculinity is something that is being forgotten by the world. Mothers are teaching their children not to have it, and the world is telling us that it is not a good thing. The world tells us that we must get in touch with our feminine side, but we are men, if we want to be naturally attractive to women, we must accept how nature has designed us.

Masculinity is the essence of what it is to be a man. It is hard wired into women to be attracted to masculinity, whether they want to or not. However, keep in mind that many people do not understand what it means to be masculine. It does not mean to be aggressive, it means to be courageous. It does not mean to be ruthless, but only to be strong.

Many men have grown up without an active father figure in their lives. They have been raised by mothers, who love them, but who have no idea how to teach masculinity. The world is embracing new behaviors and beliefs as the right way. The new attitudes and beliefs arent a bad thing overall. However, if you want to be more attractive to the opposite sex, these are the wrong behaviors to be adopting.

Confidence

Confidence is the most important personality attribute talked about in another of my books (Understanding Sexual Attraction: What Makes a Woman Want You). When you have confident body language, you are not only hitting the confidence attribute from my book, but parts of other personality attributes as well. Confidence conveys success; it is self-assurance and it is key in attraction. Confidence should be seen in every stance and every body movement that you make. Keep this in mind, while learning the 9 laws.

Fixing your body language is the single most effective thing you can do to make yourself more attractive to women. You dont need money, good looks, or a one in a million personality. You dont need these, because when you have good body language, you are subconsciously telling people around you that you do have these things, and they just need to look closer. A woman will believe what your body tells her before she will believe what comes out of your mouth.

Laws 1 - 6: Confident and Masculine Body Language

Law #1: Eye Contact

While teaching you the first 6 laws of attraction, I will go from head to toe. We will start at the eyes. Eye contact is one of the most powerful body language tools that we have. It can be used effectively in all walks of life. In fighting and competitive events, it can be used to intimidate an opponent. In the work place, it can be used to show your boss that you are confident you can finish a project on time. But most importantly, with the opposite sex, it can be used to skyrocket attraction.

The key with eye contact used with the opposite sex is to hold it just a little longer than is socially acceptable. This will create tension between you and the girl. In fact, a good game to play with girls is the stare game to see who can stare at the other the longest without blinking. This will create a good sexual tension and force attraction that may not have been there before. However, bloodshot eyes is the bane of having good eye contact, it wont create much attraction if all she sees are your red blood vessels. So make sure to take care of your eyes.

Steady eye contact portrays confidence. Dont let your eyes wander around the room. Instead, keep your eyes planted on her. Doing this lets the girl know that you are comfortable in your surroundings and that you can take care of yourself. This is the case with people and animals all over the world.

In the animal kingdom, particularly with large mammals, only the highest value animals in a group will hold eye contact. A low value animal will always look away when an animal of higher value locks eye contact. When you hold eye contact with a girl, you are portraying that you are a person of high value. However, make sure not to overdo it. You must hold it a certain way, for more time than is comfortable, but less time than it would take to make it weird. It also should be coupled with law #2, which you will learn about shortly.

If you want to really get into the specifics, here is what you should do: Hold eye contact for nearly all the time that you are talking with her, but look away every once in a while, like when she is telling you something. When you are telling her something, its a good idea to lock eye contact. Looking away as she talks to you will make your heavy eye contact seem more natural, and also that you are not too interested in what she has to say. You dont want to seem over interested at first. When you look away, make sure to look away at an even or upward angle. It is never a good idea to look down when you have the option of looking up. Looking down is a sign of submission. Think of a child after he does something wrong. He will be most likely looking at his toes. He knows that he did something wrong, and he is submitting. This is not a message that you want to send to a girl you like.