Originally published in 1951 by Prentice-Hall, Inc.
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FOREWORD
I believe in fate.
Not everyone does, but after what Ive experienced because of the book in your hands, I would be crazy not to. This book found my dad years before I was born. I can imagine it, sitting on a cluttered bookshelf at a thrift store, no dust jacket, just a faded, torn, blue cover, and a spine that read the name in bold red letters: BETTY CORNELLS TEEN-AGE POPULARITY GUIDE . I can picture my father, the history-professor-to-be, pulling it from its spot on the shelf where it had been sitting, waiting for who knows how long. He brought it home, lugged it around with him on his various moves, and kept it on the bookshelf in his office as a piece of vintage pop culture. He almost got rid of it many times, but never got around to it.
And then the book found me. It was the summer before eighth grade when it was pulled out of a box in Dads office. I saw it, picked it up, and met Betty Cornell.
By following Bettys advice on popularity that school year, I found out more about myself and others than I ever thought possible. This book taught me about everything from girdles, hair, and makeup to bravery, self-confidence, and the importance of reaching out to others. The funny, blunt, and helpful advice that fills each page made Betty feel like the older sister I never had. I admired her, blamed her when things didnt go exactly to plan, and had long conversations in my head with the teen-model-turned-author who was so sure of herself and so sure of me and my abilities to overcome my fears and better myself. She gave me pep talks, pushed me out of my comfort zone, then watched proudly from the sidelines when I finally found my wings and learned to fly.
When I met Betty Cornell in person a year after the experiment, it was as if I had known her for a long time. That smile I saw on her face when I gave her a hug was the same as the one that greeted me on that first page when I cracked open the cover. Everything she said was an echo of her book, and it was clear that she had written what she believed, what came from her heart and stuck with her all those years.
Betty changed my life and shaped the person I am today. Fate led her book to me at the time when I needed her most.
And maybe its through fate that shes found you.
So go ahead, introduce yourself. Youre in for one amazing ride.
MAYA VAN WAGENEN
Author of Popular: Vintage Wisdom for a Modern Geek
1
Introduction
Hi!
Im Betty Cornell. Im the author of this book and I think it only fair to tell you how I got to be that way. First of all let me say that I dont consider myself any great shakes as far as being an author goes. Im not a writer. Im a model. But the truth of the matter is that because I am a model I decided to write this book.
I wrote this book to set down for you the things I learned about beauty and popularity from being a modelthe know-how and the how and the why, etc. Also I have tried to answer the questions teen-agers have kept asking me, such as What do I say? What do I do? How do I act in such and such a situation?
The answers Ive given here are based on my own personal experience. Being a model, I had to know what was the right thing to say and do any time, anywhere. A model is so much in the limelight that she just cant afford to make mistakes. Believe me, when youre on parade all day long, you learn fast. You smooth off your rough edges in a hurry.
In the process of smoothing off rough edges, you find yourself in no time at all what people call Polished. Suddenly youre the kind of person who does the right thing naturally and easily at all times. You have that wonderful and elusive thing called poise. The girl with poise is the girl who knows about good personal care and good conduct. She may not be the prettiest girl, but shes certainly one of the most popular. She gets the dates, the class offices, the bids to college proms.
Because I learned all these basics while I was a teen-ager, I hope that you as teen-agers will find my suggestions helpful. They are specifically designed for you, not for your mothers or your grandmothers, although I wouldnt be surprised if you find that older people are borrowing this book of yours from time to time.
The purpose of my book, then, is to help you teen-agers make the most of yourselves. If you follow through on what I have written here, I know you will be pleased with the results. I say so because these are the methods by which I made myself over from a chubby and awkward little high-school girl into a full-fledged model. Just to prove that Im not fooling, that I mean what I say, Im going to review a little bit of my personal history for you. At the end I think youll see that the only difference between Betty Cornell, the shy, awkward, tubby teen, and Betty Cornell, the model, is the difference between a girl who just slopped along and a girl who found out how to look and act her best.
Not so very long ago, when I was fifteen years old, I was doing all the things any ordinary teen-ager does. I was living with my family, going to school, and being the bane of my older brother Bobs existence. I thought I knew everything. Bob knew that I didnt, and was always trying to prove it.
I remember that one of my biggest problems was the fact that Bob used to rule my social life with an iron hand. He would come to parties where I was having a gay time, ring the doorbell, and announce: Come to pick up my sister. Time for her to go home. Then I was mortified. Now I realize that he was doing the right thing.
In fact, I know now that an older brother is about the best social insurance any teen-ager can have. I found that Bob was the best person to tell me what the score was as far as boys were concerned. Lots of the tips on boys that I have included in some of the chapters of this book were tips I first learned from him.