Cramer - Better anal sex: 27 essential anal sex tips you must know for ultimate fun & pleasure

Elizabeth Cramer

Copyright 2013 by Elizabeth Cramer

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The world isfull of advice on how to charge, or re-charge, our sexualrelationships, but nothing adds more of a jolt to a couple thanwhen they say those three lovely words:

Lets have anal.

Anal sex is a sensual and high-poweredaddition to your sexual repertoire. This form of sexuality is oneof the most intimate personal connections a couple can have.Considered taboo by some modern societies, it is often elusive, andmisunderstood.

This guide will help demystify the processand provide some history, biology and tips on how to have a greatexperience with the forbidden frolic.

Although wetalk more openly about anal sex and stimulation in modern culture,there is still a fair amount of taboo and stigma related to thepractice. It sometimes seems like anal sex has always been aprohibited practice denied to people by society that only sexualrebels and prostitutes engaged in. However, thats simply not true.Through most of the early part of human history anal sex was awidely used and accepted part of sexual practice.

In cultures where women were consideredproperty, including the early Hebrew culture of the Bible, a highsocial value was placed on virginity. Anal sex was seen by manycultures as a way of having sex with slaves or concubines withoutruining them for sale or marriage. This was considered a commonpractice as late as the 1600s.

Many cults that practiced temple sexualrituals often set anal sex as the norm for those ceremonies withthe idea that anal sex was used for sacred acts as opposed tovaginal or oral sex which was done at home for procreation orpleasure.

Anal sex was so deeply embedded in Greek andRoman culture, both heterosexual and homosexual, that icons andimages of the practice have been found on tombs, walls, parchment,manuscripts, and even dishware.

In Roman culture allowing a man to be theinserting partner for anal intercourse was a sign you were showinghim respect. The only taboo about anal sex in those eras was if itwas forced upon you.

Views about anal sex started to change withthe writings of St. Thomas Aquinas and the Catholic Churchsdetermination that all moral sex acts are procreative in nature.Since anal sex doesnt lead to pregnancy and, in fact, is oftenused as birth control, it was shunned by the church.

During the Thirty Years War forced sodomy andanilingus were recorded as being used as a punishment againstcaptured enemy soldiers. Eventually the act became identified withhumiliation and shame.

Althoughmany still hear and live with the taboo of past times, many coupleshave anal intercourse in our modern age. The Center for SexualHealth Promotion located in the School of Health, PhysicalEducation and Recreation at Indiana University in Bloomington,Indiana conducts the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior.The results of the survey are peer reviewed and published in theJournal of Sexual Medicine.

The survey takes data about the sexualexperiences, attitudes and behaviors of men and women age 14 to 94.Their survey sample is roughly 6,000 people. That survey revealedthat 1 in 4 couples report engaging in anal sex as a regular partof their sexual practice. It also shows 36% of men and 31% of womenwho identify as heterosexual engage in anal sex. Thats 1 in every3 people.

While popular, anal sex tends to be somethingthat comes into a relationship later in life as well as later inthe sexual relationship. The survey shows most people begin havingoral sex during their teen and college years with the highestpercentage (84%) having oral sex between the ages of 25 29. 90%of people report engaging in oral sex with their partners beforevaginal or anal sex.

Anal sex has a begin date in the 20 24age category with the highest percentage of practitioners between30 39. The majority of people in the survey said they startedhaving anal sex after vaginal intercourse and over a quarter saidit was at least 2 years or more into the relationship.

Western countries, including the UnitedStates, represent a diverse sexual landscape. With the availabilityof information, Internet resources and openness more people areexperiencing and expressing their fondness for anal sex. What wasonce a taboo topic in the US is now becoming just another sexualnorm among many.

One of thebest ways to prepare to have a discussion or get ready to bringanal sex into your love life is to learn about it and talk aboutthe many facets that go along with this act, including the moral,social, psychological, biological and sexual. The more you have ahandle on facts about anal sex and can recognize myths andproselytizing when you see it, the better equipped you or yourpartner will be to make a personal decision.

One prevalent myth is that anal sex putsreceptive partners in a lesser position, humiliates them, or robsthem of power. In fact, the vernacular phrase for someone beingunfairly treated or robbed is to say they were fucked up the assor told to bend over and take it.

The inherent implication appears to be thatto be taken anally is somehow to reduce or abuse a person. Thisidea has its history in stories of forced sodomy by armiesconquering cities or in prison tales of male inmates being forcedinto a submissive sexual position and raped.

It is important to note those kind ofbehaviors are not about sex. Rape, force and victimization are notacts of sex. They are acts of power that use sex acts to take poweraway from the victim.