Anita Lecher - Tantric SEX POSITIONS for couples: A Guide to Sexual Healing and Discovering Principles on How To Talk Dirty to Your Partner. This book Includes Tantric Massage Techniques for Beginners and Advanced

Tantra is nowhere near only about sex. Practicing tantric sex and tantric living means embracing a concentration on ones own breath, thoughts, and alignment with the ultimate self. Truly, only after aligning with your own self, can you achieve ultimate alignment with another. A tantric master is acutely attentive to his or her own physical movements, both within the external world and within ones own internal body. Our understanding of tantric sex, and tantra as a philosophy and way of life, in general, has been warped, skewed, and watered down so that most of us are left with the laymans understanding that tantric sex is about wild, tawdry, love-making. Thats not to say it cant be, but it isnt necessarily.

First and foremost, tantra was a spiritual practice and a habit of breathing. Tantric observance is also about exploring other intimate parts of the relationship that are not just sex. Its about finding intimate pleasure in those places. Tantra is a commitment of thoughts, beliefs, behaviors, and the awareness of these when interacting with others, both platonically and sexually. If your connection with your partner is suffering from a weak signal, the implementation of tantric sex, alone or together, can transform and reignite the intimate and sexual experiences you have with your partner.

With a tantric perspective, the experience becomes about identifying pleasures and desires and giving them proper recognition. Then, using that power for leverage in experiencing extreme indulgence in those desires. This can be achieved on your own, and probably should be, before sharing the experience with another. In many practices of tantric sex, there is no contact with genitals at all, but the same, and better, enhancement of the sexual experience comes to fruition. Instead of reaching climax, the goal is to see how much pleasure you can experience and where you can follow your own sexual energy, and then the sexual energy created between you and another. Until now, perhaps youve struggled with a truly intimate connection with someone. Perhaps the sexual connection that you once had has become dull and stagnant. If youve only fantasized about rekindling your own sexual power and deep sexual chemistry, youre done searching. Tantric sex will deliver these to you.

When you experience alignment and union with yourself, there is a distinct and enlightened satisfaction. But as you grow and expand that understanding of yourself, this can be explored together with your partner in a very spiritually fulfilling way that will bring your union into a tighter link, undoubtedly. Tantric sex is a way to bring two individuals together to congregate in each others being fully, dually. Then, taking that energy into dissolving that duality and becoming one being experiencing ultimate pleasure. BY embracing this new way of experience together, partners stand by each other in support and help each other to reach new heights of enlightenment. Whether with yourself or with another, its common to experience a lack of sexual awareness and pleasure. Our lives are so dictated by routine that we cannot help but start to apply that way of thinking and behaving in other parts of our lives.

Our brains do this in order to organize and protect us or mitigate damage, but after a while, it becomes evident that these practices once put in place are now the problem and not the solution. We become largely driven by the routine rather than the inspiration. Tantric sex will take you from the hum-drum automatic routine to a deeply satisfying gift to yourself, and perhaps others. If youre reading this, your alarm is going off, and its time to answer the bell and wake up your body and your ultimate self. When practicing with another, tantric sex especially focuses on the giving of pleasure to the other, rather than the taking of it for oneself. We are worshipping each others bodies and want to show the utmost service and gratitude by delivering pleasure in the most powerful ways we know how.

These ways may have eluded you before, but not now. You are on the journey to self-discovery and liberation. The ego takes a back seat as you seek to satisfy your partner. You want to deliver the ultimate experience for them. Connect with them in all the ways you can. This is tantra. Think about love. Act with love. Touch with love. Practice patience and compassion and youre easily on your way to awakening your senses together. At the roots of a tantric bond with another is a relationship that honors the spiritual being, the body, the mind, the heart, and the soul. You will both be very present in the moment, oblivious to the rest of the world, sharing energy and consciousness through the conduit of love and appreciation for one another. This moment and this energy become sacred and bonding. You are open, unlimited, and highly attentive to each others emotions and desires.