OReilly - The new sex bible: the complete guide to sexual love

The Complete Guide to Sexual Love

JESSICA OREILLY, PH.D.

A QUIVER BOOK

2014 Quiver

Photography 2006, 2014 Quiver

First published in the USA in 2014 by

Quiver, a member of

Quarto Publishing Group USA Inc

100 Cummings Center

Suite 406-L

Beverly, MA 01915-6101

www.quiverbooks.com

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Digital edition published in 2014

Digital edition: 978-1-62788-044-2
Softcover edition: 978-1-59233-603-6

Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data available

Cover design by Burge Agency

Book design by Burge Agency

Photography by Ed Fox, edfox.com, and Allan Penn

Dedication

TO BRANDON.
YOU ROCK.

Welcome to The New Sex Bible, your in-depth lovers guide to all things sexual. Balancing science and anecdote with theory and sure-fire techniques, this handbook is designed to leave you with the knowledge to impress your friends and the skills to astonish your lover. From the latest research findings on orgasm and brain activity during sex to advanced approaches designed for full-body pleasure, Ive got you covered.

3. From learning to flirt and keeping your lover guessing to mastering the Spider Pull massage move and the Twist and Shout blow-job trick, you can rest assured that these techniques are grounded in both science and real-life testing.

examines its many permutations.

Moving on to more taboo topics, and offer practical tools to set you on the path to a lifetime of hot sex in the final pages.

Throughout, youll also find key information highlighted in various sexpert boxes, which include answers to frequently asked questions, sex tips from the pros, real-life stories, facts for sex geeks, and expert advice based on my experience working with clients both one-and-one and in large group settings.

A note on gender: Throughout The New Sex Bible, I alternate between male and female pronouns to describe instructional techniques and scenarios. Because sex and gender roles are fluid, these references are intended as examples only. You can choose to play a variety of roles and switch them up as you see fit, regardless of gender.

From educational programs with special-needs youth to rowdy poolside parties with swingers, I owe the bulk of my expertise and perspective to my clients, who courageously share their most intimate stories, concerns, and revelations. It is from their diverse amalgam of experiences that I draw much of the information contained herein, and I am grateful for their willingness to include me in their process of sexual discovery. Each of our sexual journeys is complex and highly personal, and I am humbled by the fact that you have selected The New Sex Bible to be a part of yours.

Read, explore, and practice with pleasure.

Sex is an integral component of our social interactions, relationships, and spiritual identities. It shapes the political landscape, informs legislation, and even inspires creative innovation. And, of course, it feels good, too. An intensely physical and undeniably emotional experience, some people consider sex to be the ultimate indulgence of mind and body and the most powerful of human drives. However, despite its central role in our day-to-day lives and our ongoing engagement in sexual activities, many of us know little about the science behind the multitude of sexual experiences in which we partake.