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The New York Times bestselling author and renowned clinical psychologist teaches women how to transcend their fears and illusions, break free from societal expectations, and rediscover the person they were always meant to be: fully present, conscious, and fulfilled.A Radical Awakening lays out a path for women to discover their inner truth and powers to help heal others and the planet.Dr. Shefali helps women uncover the purpose that already exists within them and harness the power of authenticity in every area of their lives. The result is an eloquent and inspiring, practical and accessible book, backed with real-life examples and personal stories, that unlocks the extraordinary power necessary to awaken the conscious self.

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Every radical awakening needs a spark.

This spark ignites the eternal self.

Without that, none of this.

This book is an ode to one of the deepest

friendships I have known.

With another and with myself.

Contents

There comes a time in the life of a woman

When she discards her old ways like tossed shoes in the garbage

When she shreds her list of shoulds and obligations

And when impossible expectations are burned in an incinerator

There comes a time in the life of a woman

When the approval of others once jewels now turn to pennies in her sock

When the hunt for another is now replaced by a hunt for herself

And when parental tentacles of tradition no longer define her truth

There comes a time in the life of a woman

When her desire to fit in with the crowd dissolves

When her manic compulsion to be perfect vaporizes

And when her obsession to be voted popular eviscerates

There comes a time in the life of a woman

When she simply says no more

When facade, artifice, and guile leave her nauseated

And when righteousness, dogma, and superiority repulse her

There comes a time in the life of a woman

When she no longer fears conflict but faces it boldly like a lioness

When she guards her authenticity as fearlessly as she guards her babies

And when she drops the role of savior knowing she can only save herself

There comes a time in the life of a woman

When she no longer cowers in the shadows of her unworthiness

When she no longer plays small so others can feel big

And when she swaps the role of victim for the role of cocreator

There comes a time in the life of a woman

When she unabashedly and boldly occupies her ultimate sovereignty

When she finally feels ready to claim her space in the world

And when she redefines compassion as unequivocal self-love

There comes a time in the life of a woman

When she finally releases her childlike dependencies on others

When she dares to rewrite a new mandate of living for herself

One that says:

I release unworthiness and fear

I divorce servility and passivity

I divest inauthenticity and enmeshment

I end the pretense of being someone I am not

And from now on I declare...

I will ascend into my highest power

I will embrace my greatest autonomy

I will celebrate my deepest worth

I will embody my fiercest courage

and manifest the most authentic me

The time is now

I am ready

To awaken into my renaissance.

While I have tried to include as many human experiences as I could, it is possible I may have left many out. While I also mostly speak of the malefemale relationship, I try, in some cases, to include all ranges of sexual orientations.

My intention is to be as inclusive as possible. I fully honor that the human experience manifests in infinite ways and that each is worthy of equal dignity. If you find yourself feeling excluded, my suggestion is to not get too focused on the exact manifestation of external behavior, but instead on the internal dynamics to which I allude.

In the tapestry of our inner experiences, we have more in common than we realize. Here you will find resonance and, through it, a path toward your own evolution.

Like a sword in a sheath, her brilliance stays dormant

Like a bow in a quiver, her power stays invisible

Like a pea in a pod, her worth stays small

Like a trapped animal in a cage, she awaits permission to be freed

Like a butterfly in formation, she will only emerge when her old skin dies.

I knew I was in trouble when I found myself in a ditch on the side of the road with zero recollection of how I got there. I had fallen asleep at the wheel and my car had stopped inches from a tree. Exhausted from mothering my toddler and coping with a rigorous PhD program in tandem, without any help from relatives or nannies, I had burnt myself to the ground. The jolt woke me up. I could barely breathe and my entire body was shaking. Jittery and confused, I was luckily able to get my car back onto the highway. Thankfully, there was no injury to anyone. Even my vehicle was undamaged.

The incident brought to the fore another kind of casualty that had been eroding me from within for a long timethe serious destruction I had been doing to my soul.

Soul erosion is a gradual processa slow, creeping, chipping away of our inner being, resulting in the inevitable death of all we know to be our truest selves. Its a disease that begins in childhood and spreads contagiously, especially in women. Its symptoms include loss of power, authenticity, voice, and vision. Soul erosion is essentially an obliteration of our inner knowing. Each incident in which we suppress our inner truth, we engage in the erosion of our most precious treasureour essence.

Let me illustrate how this happens. Trista, one of my clients, remembers being around four years old when she broke her favorite toya doll she had named after herself and took care of like it was her little baby. Heartbroken, she recalls crying for hours. Her father, a strict disciplinarian, told her to stop crying or else she would get a spanking. This made her cry even more.

When she continued crying at the dinner table, her father lost his temper, broke the rest of her doll, and dumped it in the garbage. Shocked by his rage, Trista recalls being stupefied. It was like he had broken me into pieces and dumped me in the garbage. I wanted to cry and scream. I actually wanted to hit him and break him, but instead I just stood there, frozen. No one came to my rescue. No one comforted me. For the first time I realized what it meant to be abandoned. He didnt just throw my precious doll away, he discarded my entire sense of safety, security, and worth. I could never trust him or my mother in the same way again. From that moment, it dawned on her that she needed to hide her true self. This is how her lifetime armor of emotional stoicism formed.

To this day, even in her forties, Trista has a challenging time expressing her inner world and feelings articulately. Both her husband and children often complain to her that they dont feel connected to her because she is too harsh and rigid. Her teenage son, Matt, in particular had been entering into almost daily conflicts with her, which led her to seek therapy with me. It was only after much processing that she came to understand how her childhood defensesemotional withdrawal and suppressionwere now interfering with her ability to connect with her son.

Trista was repeating her childhood pattern to the letter, even personifying some of her fathers old ways. When Matt expressed his feelings, Trista found herself being critical and harsh with him. Now she understood why. He reminded her of her younger self, the one who was reprimanded by her father. When she saw him being emotional, she interpreted it as weakness and sought to squash his feelings, invalidating him just as she had been. As she brought her old memories into awareness, she began to heal the wounds of her old self and, in this way, opened her heart to her son.

At first, our true self fights for survival. It protests loudly, so much so that we feel nauseated. As we continue to ignore it, the protesting fades until its a mere whimper. As the years erase all memory of its existence, the plaintive cries recede altogether.

This loss of self is universal. We have all felt its ravaging wounds. As our authenticity erodes, whats left behind is a cavernous inner crater filled with a cacophony of chaos that infects every part of how we now live. It manifests in all sorts of insidious and seemingly insignificant ways:

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