Marisa Bennett - Fifty Shades of Pleasure: A Bedside Companion: Sex Secrets That Hurt So Good

Fifty Shades
of
Pleasure

MARISA BENNETT

Copyright 2012 by Marisa Bennett

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ISBN: 978-1-62087-334-2

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DEDICATION

To Monica and Becky, who taught me how to be myself.

U nless youve been living under a rock recently, youve noticed that new erotica novels have pounced on pop-culture, teased it, tempted it, and left it begging for more. Over the past few years, e-books allowed some literary smut enthusiasts to sneakily read their erotica in public spaces, but reading sexy lit was still a little taboo. Now and for the first time, men and womenfrom yoga moms to twenty-somethingsare unabashedly knocking down store clerks to get their hands on hardcore hardcovers.

I wanted to write a book that embraced the naughtier sides of sex, empowered men and women to be bold with their sexuality, and of course, that cheered on the proud erotica reader. While parts of this book highlight what you might call, vanilla sex, much of the content focuses on BDSM, an acronym that condenses bondage & discipline, dominance & submission, and sadism & masochism. This quaint set of letters umbrellas a whole host dirty little sex tricks and lifestyles. This book is meant to focus on some of the spiciest sides of BDSM and erotic play that will allow you and your partner to take the reins of your sexy timeand maybe smack it in the ass a little. I hope you enjoy.

Fifty Shades
of
Pleasure

A loving pair become
blind with passion in
the heat of congress, and go
on with great impetuosity ,
paying not the least regard
to excess .

Vtsyyana
Kama Sutra

I could play the woman
with mine eyes ,
And braggart with
my tongue!

Shakespeare
Macbeth

Y ou cant get to kinky sex without some kinky instructions. Sometimes trying something new (or trying something old with a new approach) can be difficult when all you have to go on is personal experience, or a partner who doesnt always verbalize what he or she wants. These introductory tipsfrom performing oral sex that will leave you both gasping for more, to acrobatic sex positionsare part of the artillery youll need for your sex-time stockpile. So get out your notepad and ace your next anatomy exam!

Its no secret that men love blowjobs. Unfortunately, giving sensational fellatio isnt a gift that just drops down on us from the heavens; you have to know the choreography. Grasping everythingfrom the basics, to the naughty little things your guy wont ask for (but wants)will be the difference in whether he just loves blowjobs, or he loves your blowjobs.

First and foremost, a blow jobs a blow jobs a blow job, is not an effective mantra. Whether you give him head spontaneously, or prefer to stick with the week you have your period, you still need to approach it as if theres nothing youd rather be doing for him. Unenthusiastic fellatio feels the same way to him as unenthusiastic cunnilingus does to youits a waste of time and a little bit irritating. So make this an experience that will have him breathless in between each holler of your name.

Begin by teasing him: Sensually nibble at his ears, and kiss him down his neck and chest, and down along his beltline. When you undo his pants, do this slowly, and make sure not to go straight for the goods; its always best to make him work up an appetite. When you have him at your mercy, feel free to tease him for a little while, even kissing and licking from sensitive areas like his knees, trailing up his inner thighs and right to the inside of his hips. Start by taking his shaft in your hand and licking his ballsif you can take his balls in your mouth, even better. Use your tongue to massage as you go.

If youre going to remember anything, remember to keep his penis lubricated. When you take his penis in your mouth, use your saliva to get his whole shaft wet. And dont worrynot being able to deep throat will not prevent you from giving him phenomenal head. With the help of your saliva, use your hand as an extension of your mouth as you go up and down his shaft. Keep your grip firm, but theres no need to squeeze him to death. Everyone is different, so feel free to take moments to be verbal and ask how firm he wants your grip to be, and how fast or slowly to go. Remember to keep massaging his penis with a lubricated hand while you ask questionsthis is also a good way for you to take a breather if youre getting tired, without letting him lose steam.

Try rotating your hand in a circular motion as you go up and down his shaft, being sure to massage on and around the tip on your way up. If youre a good multi-tasker, massage his balls with your free hand. Take things further by using your saliva or a lubricant, and continue the blow job while massaging his balls with one or two handseven pulling on his sac a little (but not too hard). Your saliva on his balls will make it feel like your mouth is on his penis and his sac at the same time. When youre in the area, also try massaging his perineum, which is the space between his scrotum and his anus. This area is super sensitive, and will produce a reaction somewhere in between moaning your name in surprise, and pulling your hair from brimming rapture.

This addition depends entirely on your personal comfort level and that of your partner. Experiment by stroking his perineum and inserting your (lubricated) finger into his anus near or during his climax for a prostate massage. Massaging this area can cause men to come even without genital stimulation, so if youre already giving him head, his orgasm will be absolutely explosive. When your finger is inside him, move it towards his front in a slight come hither motion, going slowly and varying the pressure. Continuing this through his climax will have him erupting in ecstasy and gasping for air.