CHERYL WILDER - Life Partner--Choose Wisely: Life is Short and There isnt much Time to Play the Error and Correction Game

Life partner Choose Wisely

Life is short and there isnt much time to play the error and correction game

RECOVER LOVE SERIES

BY

CHERYL WILDER

Copyright: Published in the United States by CHERYL WILDER

Published JUNE 2016

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INTRODUCTION

T he definition of a life partner has changed gradually with time and obviously it depends on the society and their respective culture. But in general, you can define a life partner as someone whom you plan to spend the rest of your life with, independent of happiness and sorrow. You have made a commitment to, and you are sure you want to be with that person for the rest of your life, considering that circumstances and feeling might change as we grow older. Yes, you can also define having a life partner as a long-term monogamous relationship between a man and woman.

We need to discuss about choosing the right life partner because it is one of the most crucial and important decision in everyones life.

There is no rocket science to choose your life partner and no one ever sat you down to tell the choosing procedure of your life partner. Yet, it is one of the most crucial decisions that we will ever make in life and get huge impact on our future for a less than ideal selection. A good life partner makes your long term relationship a joyous and meaningful experiences in life, but you may not have learnt the way to find the right life partner from your parents or your brothers and sisters, and here is what you need to know by consulting the relationship specialist counselors or getting knowledge by using the internet to get to the right track. Here we will be discussing in depth about the necessity of choosing the right life partner, especially in todays complex world, both socially, economically and politically as a good choice while selecting a right partner will encourage you to run a steady life by adjusting and illuminating all odds and search for eternal peace, happiness and love.

CHAPTER 1

WHY DO WE NEED THE RIGHT LIFE PARTNER?

A single person is often found be frustrated about his or her life and some research claims that married people are on average happier than a single person, and at the same time they are much happier than divorced people. But a closer and definite analysis say that married people can be divided into two groups based on the quality of the bonding. Some people in a self described poor marriage are miserable and having a bitter experience in every aspect of life and not as happy as single people. On the other hand a good and quality bonding of the two opposite sexes by marriages are often happier than others. An unmarried one is actually considered to be a little bit neutral and having a good scope of being in a hopeful position by involving in marriage like social institution and encourage them to find the right partner. Sometimes a single person pretends to be satisfied without involvement in marriage but the actual fact is not like that and they are more curious about the others relation as a partner after marriage and when it becomes positive they also have feeling to get attached with the opposite sex. Choosing the right partner is a profound and traditional culture of every society that leads us to a lifelong commitment to spend the life together. So at this juncture, it is obviously important to select the right partner for your life with whom you will spend the rest of your life.

It is also to be noticed that the rate of breakup of a relationship is acquiring highly alarming situation and gradually becoming a great concern both to counselors and the society at large. There are plenty of reasons for unsuccessful marriage, but personally I believe that breaking of trust and failure to understand the emotional aspects play a major role. Yes, we also count the success parameter in terms of financial capabilities and better lifestyle and it is also definitely a major challenge for any couple, especially when it is found to measure in such a complex and advanced socioeconomic structure where we live. So as per my opinion the intense cause of unsuccessful relationship with your partner is emotional disturbances and it comes in many ways like the breaking of trust, affection, respect, commitment and responsibility and all over it is actually the untied love and faith to one another. So it is highly sensitive area of everyones life when it is about the question of selecting a right life partner.

When we think the vastness of the universe or experience how deliberately death reveals the end of our journey, it actually compels us to think our smallness and also our good luck to live a beautiful life and thus make a sense to choose a right life partner. However the choosing your life partner completely depends on you and you have to be clear about the importance of the deal, analyze the most relevant factors to make it worth. A strong, healthy relationship between you and your life partner can be one of the best supports, every aspect of your life by strengthening your health, your mind and more you get attached the more you get back from your partner.