Jaclyn Friedman - Unscrewed: Women, Sex, Power, and How to Stop Letting the System Screw Us All

This book should be required reading in schools across the US. Honest, sometimes painful, and brimming with empathy. It couldnt have come at a better time. Jaclyn draws you in to a world of possibility. I am hopeful reading her writing. There is so much work to do to change the systems in which we live, and Jaclyn gives us practical, applicable ways of doing it.

Tatiana Maslany, Emmy-winning star of Orphan Black

Unscrewed is not just a book you should read, its a book youll love to read. Jaclyn Friedmans writing sings, and makes thinking about necessary and important issues a real pleasure. I cant wait to read it again.

Jessica Valenti, author of the New York Timesbestselling Sex Object

In this visionary and necessary book, Jaclyn Friedman cuts through the hypocrisy, mixed messages, and confusion about sex, women, and power. Unscrewed is firmly pro-pleasure, but also bitingly critical of the same old sexism dressed up in the language of empowermentits power, Friedman argues, that matters, and she neatly eviscerates the formal and informal barriers that keep women from accessing it. Required reading for anyone who cares not just about women and sex but about building a better society, Unscrewed will leave you with just one question: Can Jaclyn lead the new sexual revolution and unscrew us all?

Jill Filipovic, author of The H-Spot

There are so many things to love about Unscrewed. What I love most is that I feel smarter, more powerful, and far less crazy after reading this book. From the very first page, I realized that It isnt just me. Other women struggle with how to have the hot empowered sex feminists are always raving about. I wish Id had this book when I was twenty. Im so glad to have it now, to read, to teach to my students, and to share with my homegirls. Jaclyn doesnt just lay out all the problems with contemporary discourses on sex. She also shows us the way forward by profiling some of the pathbreaking feminist badasses that are leading the way. It goes without saying that Jaclyn herself is one of these badasses. Every chapter reminds us in tangible ways that these problems can be solved. We can get this right. There is hope. And the very first step is to get and read Unscrewed.

Brittney Cooper, Crunk Feminist Collective cofounder and author of Eloquent Rage

Gender equality has enough superficial solutions, and Unscrewed is a precise rebuke to the notion that signifying progress is enough. Jaclyn Friedmans book reminds men that it is our job to end misogyny and rape culture, and tells women not to expect anything less.

Jamil Smith, journalist and essayist

As our society has become increasingly obsessed with the paradoxical pursuit of simultaneously controlling and liberating women sexually, there is no better expert than Jaclyn Friedman to help us dissect the complicated and surreal world we are currently living in. Sexuality has always been a tough and complicated topic for women but Jaclyn somehow always manages to make it fun and easy to talk about. You will find yourself nodding in agreement and whispering yas over and over as she captures the essence of every thought and feeling youve always had, but never shared. Jaclyn Friedman is the quintessential modern sex expert, at once understanding and empathetic yet honest and raw.

Elizabeth Plank, senior producer and correspondent, Vox Media