Cynthia Gentry - Mind-Blowing Orgasms Every Day: 365 Wild and Wicked Ways to Revitalize Your Sex Life

365
W ILD AND W ICKED W AYS TO
R EVITALIZE Y OUR S EX L IFE

CYNTHIA W. GENTRY

To Nima, my muse

Writing this book has been a surprising, incredible personal and creative journeyand not just because its supplied me with amazing cocktail party conversation. I am deeply indebted to many, many people for their support. First, I would like to thank my editor Paula Munier, who thought of me for this project and its predecessor. Thanks, Paula, for your faith, patience, and encouragement.

My undying gratitude goes to my agent Sheree Bykofsky and her associate Megan Buckley, whose advice and support saw me through many angst-ridden days. Without them, I probably would have chickened out early on. Thanks as well to Homan Taghdiri, who offered outstanding guidance and counsel.

Im indebted to the friends and family members who cheered me on. My writing buddy, Susanne Pari, sat across from me at a local caf day after day and was always willing to take a break from her own projects to help me with mine. Thaisa Frank, whose input was so valuable for my last book, gave me superb counsel about approaching this one. Thanks, too, to David Ramsdale, who generously shared his expertise and gave me ideas and advice. My mother was, of course, always there when I needed her, even if it took me a while to admit to her the true nature of my latest writing project.

I also have to thank the many friends, and friends of friends, who responded to me so enthusiastically with their own experiences and tips. I was touched by their candidness and willingness to share the intimate details of their lives with me. I would name them here, but I suspect theyd kill me. Besides, Im too afraid of leaving someone out.

Nima, my muse, my love, and my truly significant other, never flagged in his love and support, and didnt blink an eye when I brought my computer and a suitcase full of sex books along on a Hawaiian vacation. Thank you for believing in me, even when I didnt. You make it easy for me to love you, twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week, and 365 days a year.

365 Days (and Nights) of Bedroom Bliss!

Welcome to Mind-Blowing Orgasms Every Day! In these pages, youll find 365 ideas to spice up your love life with innovative sex play, naughty recipes, creative positions from the sex classics, including the Kama Sutra, and much, much more. Youll be introduced to the new generation of sex toys (for him and her), given refreshers on basic techniques, and shown how to put the excitement back into standard positions like the Missionary. Youll learn how to tell your partner what you want in ways that are guaranteed to turn him on, not off, and youll unlock the sensual secrets of deeply satisfying sex.

Whether youre playing alone, trying to reignite the flames in an established marriage, or things are just starting to heat up with a new partner, youll find plenty of tips and techniques to keep your love life humming. Position of the Week spotlights sex positions youll want to make the basics of your repertory. Shy about masturbation? You wont be once you read these hot tips! (Remember, knowing your own responses is the key to having great orgasmsor, quite often, any orgasms.) Oral and manual sex techniques will show you how to make any man putty in your handsand keep him coming back for more. And, of course, there are plenty of sensual treats for him to use to drive you wild, too!

From how to act out your favorite fantasies to the art of talking dirty (even the suggestion may be enough to fan his flames), how to dress for success and mastering the art of married dating (hint: send the sitter and kids out!) to taking sex out of the bedroom, seducing him at your favorite restaurant, sensual massage and water play, and transforming your bedroom into a love nest, a wealth of sensual delight awaits you in Mind-Blowing Orgasms Every Day. Which tip will you try tonight?

One kind word can warm three winter months.
Japanese proverb

The ancient Romans named January after Janus, the god of gates and doorsin other words, the god of openings and beginnings. So look at this month as a time for a new sexual beginning, a time to put the past behind you and start the year afresh. Explore the openings not only of your own body, but of your heart and mind as well. Think of January as a month of possibilities, a chance to start out with a clean slatea clean sexual slate, that is.

This months birth flowers are carnations and snowdrops. In Victorian times, a carnation symbolized bonds of affection, as well as pure and deep love. A beautiful snowdrop symbolized hope. Why not keep a vase of fresh carnations and snowdrops in a corner of your bedroom, to symbolize your hopes for a new year of pure ecstasy?

Januarys birthstone, the deep red garnet, is a symbol of constancy and commitment. Buy a garnet-colored candle or other token to remind you that this month, youre committed to pleasure!

This year, lets create a list that will be a pleasure to keep: a list of Ten Sensual Resolutions. Your Sensual Resolutions can as naughty, nice, or elaborate as you want. If you cant think of ten, dont worry. If you forget them midway through the year, dont worry about that, either. You can always add to the list later, or even make up a new one. Begin each sentence with I resolve, and keep the focus positive. For example:

I resolve to honor and love my sensual, sexual self as an integral, beautiful part of my being.

I resolve to think of myself as a sensual, sexual person, no matter what my age, height or weight!

I resolve not to worry too much about whether or not I have an orgasm. Instead, Ill enjoy the sensations and closeness I feel with myself or a partner.

I resolve to explore and enjoy my body without shame.

I resolve to try at least three new sexual positions this year!

I resolve to enact at least one of my sexual fantasies, as long as its emotionally and physically safe. One fantasy is__________(describe it here).

I resolve to tell my partner what really pleases me.

I resolve to buy myself one really fabulous piece of sexy underwear!

I resolve to have an orgasm a day!

Remember, these are just suggestions. Your Sensual Resolutions are for your eyes only, unless you decide you really want to share them with a partner. Now that youve written your list, put at least one of your resolutions into practicetoday!